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[nikcola]

im was going to change my name cause im too shook up,
i stopped taking my pill a month ago and me and dp have been having sex as normal but he hasnt been coming inside me (sorry to be graphic) my period is a week late ans i just done 2 pg tests and they are both positive i really dont want to be pg and i dont no what to do im s**ting myself the docs is shut till tuesday what do i do

Nikki, how are you now? MIx

hi,
im ok thanks , sorry haent posted on here for a while ive been feeling a biy sh*tty, ive got my consultation tomorow morning for the termination at 8.30am, and today i have my collage teat so a bit of a funny week for me. but apart from that im ok thank you all xxxxx nikkixxx

Best of luck, honey.
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thank youxxx

good luck nick xx

thanks xxxx

hi nikcola just caught up with this thread,just to let you know thinking of you today...my sister in law was in this situation last december and actually had her termination at the l+d the same day i had my ds ,she said they were great ,she had to wait just under aweek from the consultation to the actual procedure.
im in luton so if you ever need anyone to talk to please feel free to get in touch ..use contact another talker...think you need all the support you can get

thank you i will take you up on that xxxxxxxx

hiya nik, all the best sweet xx

Hope you're doing ok Nikki, just to let you know I'm thinking about you hun xxxxxx

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just got back from hospital a bit pissed off, i had to have a scan just to check the dates are cprrect and im 9 weeks and my appointment is on friday at 7,30am , i just had a massive row with dp all i asked him to do was to stay over last night and take me to my appointment and look after dd for me, he wouldnt even get out of bed this morning even though i woke him up at 8 he just said get a taxi, so i had to go on my own witch im pissed off about and the bastard wouldnt even pick me up, so im sitting here crying feeling sorry for myself again xx but appart from that im ok xxxxxxx

sorry nick he really is a prize prick

Nikki, it's probably a good idea not to ask him to stay on Thursday night if he's going to be like this. I am so, so sorry. He seems to be going out of his way to behave like a total arse.

oh nik...please dont let him treat you like this ...this is as much his problem as yours ,i assume he is the father of your dd also so to ask him to look after her and treat you with the amount of respect you deserve shouldnt be such a hardship.dont let him get away with it please not only are you going through a very emotional time your hormones are all over the place ,and he shouldnt be doing this to you.
he really needs a good kick up the arse ...it wouldnt take me long to get to dunstable and as an ex ladies football player ive got a good right foot...just say the word and i'll be there ...lol (wink)
as for getting in touch please do as i say you need support and you dont seem to be getting it off him
hugs

Hold tight, Nik - you are strong enough to get by without him! And the more you do manage without him, the stronger and more proud of yourself you will feel! And you SHOULD be proud: you are a great mum to DD, you have a college place - you are doing well. I'm sad for you that things with DP are working out like this, but after all this time and trouble, I can't see that he's going to change.

Nikcola - STOP ASKING HIM FOR HELP! He is only upsetting you and letting you down. Stop giving him the satisfaction. I know you love him, but for goodness sake.... just how badly does he have to treat you before you tell him to fuck off????

i no what you all mean, i told him to f**K off back to work and ive switched my phone off, i have to get him to look after dd on friday as nobdy else can, ive got to go on my own but the hospital wont let me leave unless someone picks me up which i cant see happening he wont go to our hospital because his sister works in ex ray and he is scared of her seeing us,
any way ive got spome good news my test went well yesterday i passed half the other half i wont find out till next week but i should have a place on the acess course which is the higher education course and ill be doing diploma nursing while working at the hospital on the old peoples ward, then after i finish that year if i passs i wil be going on to uni to do biology (cant even spell it !!) for 3 years

Stay strong Nikcola and try to talk to him as little as possible... only what's necessary for your dd.
Congratulations on your test! I studied Marine Biology at Uni.... so if you need any help give me a shout. And I might have some books that will be useful to you.

WELL DONE nikcola! WELL DONE! (re your test).

Is there no friend you can ask for help on Friday? What if he leaves you in the lurch?

FANTASTIC re the test. You're really on your way - and to do it when you're under such stress too!

thank you xxx,
no there is no one that can pick me up, hopefully i can make him feel guilty and he will come and pick me up,

Nikcola - If he isn't feeling guilty by now he isn't going to!!!! He's NOT going to change no matter how much you want him to. Please don't upset yourself anymore by grovelling to him. Can you not just get a taxi?