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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 17/11/2015 19:39

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.

There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.

MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos/
Another invaluable website is:
www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/
If you need help in obtaining medication, this phone number is
brilliant:
024 7638 2020

Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy

I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.

Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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amysmummy12345 · 18/12/2015 19:54

Evening all, hope everyone is ok? icant I'm so sorry you're having such an awful time Sad you are such a brave, resilient lady 😍 unmumsnetty hugs winging their way to you.

I've broken up today and left my current school, been there 14 months on supply, plus I did 8 months supply there before I had dd... Onwards and upwards! Xxx

Reebok · 18/12/2015 20:01

Hi all. How's everyone getting on this evening?
Icant hope you're managing ok. Spandau sorry the sickness is still so bad. No pain in the region you described but I do have sciatic pain in my lower back/bottom/hips/legs.

Chatty glad you're on meds. You're in the worst stage...weeks 8-11 are awful!

Ruby induction sounds scary. I escaped it with dd by 24 hours! Only just!

Mop how you getting on today?

I dragged myself to dds nursery Xmas party today. And despite how rubbish I now feel, I'm so glad I went or she would have been one of the only ones without a parent there. She was so happy I came. Haven't been much of a mum to her lately so it's the least I can do. She's asleep now cuddling her present from Santa.

Very nauseous today but I've managed not to throw up today which is a huge success! So far!

Right time for bed. Better day for everyone tomorrow...hopefully. X

eallison88 · 18/12/2015 22:23

chatty I'm actually out of the other side of HG with an 11 week old boy! I've stuck around tho cos the support here kept me going. I was one of the unfortunates who suffered throughout my pregnancy, from 5 weeks to giving birth however, it was much much more bearable for the last 10-15 weeks. It's much more common to get relief earlier, and not uncommon for it to go completely towards the end of the pregnancy. If there is ever anything you fancy eating or drinking, try to do so immediately before the moment passes! Hopefully you have a partner who is able to dash out and get whatever you fancy! Don't worry about things being healthy either; I grew a very healthy 9lb-er on a diet of tinned peaches and chip shop chips with Fanta from week6-14! Whatever you can get in and keep down is a victory!

Those of you in schoolswho are now off... relax! So glad that you have at least 2 weeks to rest and recuperate.

Another day nearly ticked off ladies;well done HG warriors!

eallison88 · 18/12/2015 22:24

reebokmissed the comment about vom free day - yay! Hopefully that means the start of slightly better days!

MotherofPearl · 19/12/2015 12:28

Hello All. Having a nice quiet day today after a busy week at work. Thanks for asking after me Reebok. My main problems now are nausea and tiredness. Both get me down, but I guess I should be grateful. Only vom once or twice a week now. 20 weeks tomorrow: hurrah! Hurry up May!
Reebok, so glad that you had a vom free day! That's cause for celebration. I hope we can all have some respite over the Christmas break.
Big waves to Lucinda, Meer, Ealli and all fellow sufferers of course.

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eallison88 · 19/12/2015 17:18

minxglad you've put a little weight back on, and that you're having a slightly easier time of it. You too mop tho I know the nausea can be extremely crippling as well.

Hoping that the quietness of others is a sign of good days! We got our tree up today. The latest I've ever had it up!

ICantThinkOfAUsernameH · 20/12/2015 09:31

popping in to wave hello to everyone quickly. Dropped my new phone in the bath (me and phones don't mix) and don't get to go on laptop much.
Discharged myself this morning (they wanted to keep me in until xmas day - Friday!) so if I'm still poorly Tuesday after the wedding i'll go back. Lots of reasons for discharging myself.
Read through my maternity notes and its been written "patient discharged herself against medical advice, risks explained that's possible to her life and that of the baby, psych review req.".... needless to say I'm not happy!
Hope everyones having slightly better days in time for Christmas.

amysmummy12345 · 20/12/2015 09:38

Blimey icant fancy them writing that?!!! Is the wedding tomorrow? Hope everything goes well for you and the wedding party. I dint think I hold handle organising a wedding and Christmas at the same time!! Hats off to the bride! Take things easy lovely lady xxx

LucindaE · 20/12/2015 10:18

Reebok I'm so glad you had a vomit free day, though sorry about continung nausea and exhaustion,and that you made the Christmas party.
mmmminx Hope I got the right number of 'm's- sorry about setback, but a few good days are often the sign of the turnaround,and many better days ahead.
Ican't I am dismayed that they took that atittude - whether they thought discharge wise or not. Very anxious for some improvement for you.
Chattycat and new people, eallison and OnceaMeer are two of the invaluable veterans on this thread. Both were among the unlucky ones who had it quite badly to the end, but hopefully you will not. MotherofPearl is a veteran bravely going through it again. I'm Mother Hen, with my jolly reproductive history behind me.
I hope spandau RubyReins amysmummy shoop and everyone is coping today.

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BergamotMouse · 20/12/2015 10:53

Hello, I've been diagnosed with HG. It came on fairly late at about 7 weeks. Started being sick last Saturday, only once or twice but by Monday it increased so I went to doctors. He prescribed me 10mg promethazine to take only at night for 2 days only.

This obviously did nothing and ended up in hospital on Thursday as was being sick every 15 minutes. I was in for 6 hours or so and rehydrated via a drip and had cyclazine injection (God - that hurt!).

I'm now taking 25 mg promethazine 4 x a day and still feeling sick but it seems to be helping me stop vomiting. I've been feeling worse as the days go on.

A couple of questions:
Does the medication become less effective over time?

If it started later than it says it typically starts does that mean it might finish earlier?

I'm so sad that I might not be able to enjoy Christmas - it's the one time of the year all the family get together and chances are I'll be lying on the sofa eating toast.

squeezed · 20/12/2015 11:10

Hi everyone. Just catching up on how you are all doing after a busy week. So sorry that we've got new people going through the same, bit you're in the right place here.

It's really good news that there are some improvements going on. Let's hope it is the turnaround. I barely want to say it out loud but I'm down to one vomit a day, and dare I say it I've had a day with none! Nausea and tiredness is awful and don't even get me started on the stress of Christmas, but it does feel a lot better.

Icant This pregnancy I've noticed much more notice being paid to mental health. I've put it down to high profile cases and being much more careful. Didn't have a psych referral for first pregnancy when I should have but had one this time when it wasn't really necessary.

Bergamot Welcome. I'm on the same meds as you and they worked much better for me than the others, even though they make me really drowsy. It does seem that Hg is very random in how long it goes on for or how bad it gets. Especially as it is Christmas, try to enlist other people in making arrangements so that you can rest and enjoy.

iamdivergent · 20/12/2015 12:04

Hi all, hope everyone is coping. I've only been sick a few times this week but the nausea is relentless, I can't believe how sick I am feeling and the retching is just lovely Wink still on my meds and having the get them renewed weekly due to the Dr not wanting to increase my prescription to a months supply as he reckons it'll clear soon Hmm I'm 14 wks today. Midwife on 5th for 16wk appt so hopefully get to hear the heartbeat, I feel like I'm living for these little glimpses/interactions with the baby, it makes me feel like it's worth all the illness.

TwoDrifters · 20/12/2015 13:27

Afternoon everyone! Glad to hear some people are feeling better - long may that continue!

ICant I'm SO sorry for all you are going through, you are an utter star and I hope you get to enjoy at least some of the wedding.

Well I'm 38 weeks tomorrow (eek!) Still enjoying the white foamy sickness most days but on the bright side I can eat and drink most things in between bouts of nausea so that's good.

I have a midwife appointment tomorrow to see if this boy has turned or is still breech. Due to the Xmas/NY bank hols they have now told me they can't fit an ELCS in until my actual due date of Jan 4th. So if I go into natural labour before then, it will be an EMCS which is even more scary sounding but not much I can do about it so I'm trying not to get anxious!

Been bouncing on the birthing ball and swaying on all fours. Not sure it's done the trick though as I've not felt any huge movements and from reading about other people's experiences of the baby doing a complete 180• flip, I think I'd remember the feeling!

Chattycat78 · 20/12/2015 13:51

Hi guys- question. I started taking phenergen on Friday. Noticed an improvement straight away. Felt much better Saturday. However, now it's Sunday I feel worse agson and have started throwing up again! What's going on? Does this mean that the meds are not working or is each day different? Does your body get used to the meds and u start feeling more sick over time or something? Help. I'm barely functioning here.

squeezed · 20/12/2015 16:12

Iam feeling this unwell has made me so much less connected to the baby in this pregnancy compared to the last. Totally agree that scans and heartbeat do help deal with how awful I feel.

Two. Fingers crossed for tomorrow, I hope that he has turned.

Chatty I have found that I have a better day then feel awful again but I can't always explain why. If I had a better day I would often overdo it and this made me fatigued so that I was more unwell again. Other times, who knows. Sorry, not very helpful.

OnceAMeerNotAlwaysAMeer · 20/12/2015 16:23

chatty phenergen is a stronger anti-histamine that should be working on the hormones that make HG worse (the precise workings are not yet fully understood).

I wonder if it's not that you are acclimatizing, but that the HG may be getting worse. People respond very individually to the meds and HG varies from day to day, sometimes wildly. it might well be worth asking your doc if you can try prochlorperazine (stemetil, avomine) which works on the inner ear, that helps some people. Or maybe metoclopramide, though that can occasionally have unpleasant side effects on you (perfectly safe for the baby as far as is known).

The best is ondansetron but it's also the strongest and most expensive, and it bungs you up something horrid, so it tends to be given out last of all.

I think the best thing is to see if you can see the doctor on tuesday (to give the phenergen another day) and if it's still really bad, ask if you can try another med.

amys very glad to hear that you've broken up. You don't start a new contract in the new year do you? Some rest sounds appropriate ...

reebok glad to hear that you made it to the party, your daughter must have been so delighted. Do take it easy though now, please? If you can, maybe cut the xmas stuff down to the absolute bare minimum; there's always next year.

mmminx the improvement does often come slowly, good days and bad days. But the good days come to outnumber the bad ones usually =) and then as ealli said, some people find that once the HG goes it goes for good. Others arent quite a lucky, but it's never as bad again as the first months.

icant wishing you the very best for tomorrow. Please let us know how you are ...

HI bergamotmouse (what a lovely name!)

As far as I'm aware, and I'm not a pharmacist, after a few days for initial adjustment the meds should keep on having the same effect. If you start getting worse or better maybe the HG is getting worse / better.

Having said that, everyone is individual and responds individually to the meds (specially with HG) so it's more of a 'should not change effectiveness' rather than 'guarenteed never to'.

Also the bad news is that until the HG lifts on its own you might not feel entirely normal, even if you were on a cocktail of meds. But they can usually help you enough to function.

Personally I think it's impossible to say how long the HG will last but getting meds early on during it will probably help. They seem to soften the worst of it. Also, rest rest rest rest as much as you can! (really; that's the other thing that helps a lot).

About Christmas - yes, it might not be quite as enjoyable as other christmasses. Hopefully it will, but HG is a bugger. BUT - next year you'll be back to normal and with an extra tinybergamot mouse to enjoy it with you =)

squeezed very glad to hear that you're experiencing some better days. The psych thing is weird isn't it? Where I live they do not prescribe meds, but sent me to a psychologist instead. Bloody crazy. I didn't need a head-doctor, I needed some effective meds to make me stop vomitting endlessly. I knew more about HG than the professionals tho, by then :/

iamdiv glad to hear the days have crawled by to 14 weeks ... it could be a while longer but you can realistically hope that some improvement will kick in soon. Hopefully on Christmas day, if the HG has any mercy at all!

two, fingers crossed for tomorrow. Perhaps the baby is getting used to bouncing around ...

PoppieD · 20/12/2015 16:40

Hi any one got any tips for smells making the vomiting worse? Back in bed after vomit no 20 today- the whole house smells wrong, outside smells wrong I smell wrong! Meds aren't working and have now lost 5kg since start of month- nothing helping me at the moment- have Hosp appt tues and worried they'll keep me in. 😥

eallison88 · 20/12/2015 17:09

bergamot I don't think there's a connection between when it starts and when it finishes. I wasn't diagnosed til 7 weeks but started feeling awful about 5/6 weeks. Is this your first HG pregnancy (or indeed first pregnancy?)? I think that if it's your first pregnancy then you don't necessarily realise it's something more than normal morning sickness til it's really bad as you've nothing to compare it to - looking back I think it started at just over 4 weeks for me, but I didn't realise how bad it was til 6 and a bit weeks;I just thought it was normal morning sickness and I was being pathetic!

squeezed fewer vomity days sounds fab,sounds like a corner might be being turned - fingers crossed!

twodrifters nearly there :)I didn't feel my baby turning, and he had to do 180, so you never know, he might have!

chatty I would suggest a trip to doctors and asking for different meds, it sounds like these aren't the right ones for you.

poppie sounds like you're having a miserable time of it. Remind me, are you on any meds? Worth askingfor some stronger meds on Tuesday. Are there any smells that don't make you feel sick, or even lessen the sick feeling? You could try to keep something with you. Perhaps tissue with an essential oil? For me it was a mouthwash (a kids one) I could swill with it or just sniff it to alleviate some of the sickness.

Keep going ladies, you're all doing wonderfully (even if it doesn't feel like you are!).

MadrigalElectromotive · 20/12/2015 17:14

Hi everyone, I have been quiet the last few days and trying to recover from this awful relapse. I think I'm getting there although I feel pretty dreadful at the moment. Had a scan to find out the sex of the baby earlier and we are having a little girl. Xmas Smile Very exciting!

PoppieD · 20/12/2015 17:15

Hi Eallison- been on basic cyclazine and stematil so far neithers helped- have found I'm not liking smell of ANYTHING which is driving me up wall- going around with tissue clenched at nose at the moment- when am not being sick that is!! Also worried about my teeth now as even placing toothbrush in mouth is making me yack!!

MadrigalElectromotive · 20/12/2015 17:20

Poppie I can't help with the smells issue I'm afraid but I have barely been able to brush my teeth so far this pg and I am 17 weeks tomorrow. Mouthwash is my friend - I've got a high flouride one which DH got for me in Boots.

PoppieD · 20/12/2015 17:27

Thanks Madigral- I'll try that- spent years in double train tracks as a teen so my teeth are a point of pride!

BergamotMouse · 20/12/2015 17:31

Thanks for the advice once. I know it will all be worth it in the long run and can't wait until next Christmas when I'll have a lovely baby.

It's my first pregnancy eallison. I had planned on having 2 children with an age gap of around 2 years but I don't know if I can go through this again. I'm hoping the memories fade so I can delude myself into thinking it might be a good idea to have another in the near future.

iamdivergent · 20/12/2015 17:38

Bergamot you do forget eventually, or I found that I did.

Yak feeling horrible after DH made dinner and it's just sitting there and I have watery mouth - the joys. Counting down til I can go to bed as I'm at my best I the morning and get progressively worse through the day with tea time and after being worst.