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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 06:49

Posting here and in conceiving.
Do tesco express (the one in Amersham, bucks), sell pregnancy tests? I need to know asap

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PotteringAlong · 05/07/2015 06:55

Most places do, even petrol stations etc. unless you happen to catch someone mumsnetting in the exact tesco you're asking about I'd just go and find out.

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 06:57

I've only got time to go to one place before he gets back from a guys weekend ready to leave me Sad

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Whenwillwe3meetagain · 05/07/2015 06:59

Call them instead of asking randoms on the Internet?

PotteringAlong · 05/07/2015 07:00

Then go and see! If he's going to leave you let him go then test and tell him about the pregnancy at another time. They are 2 separate things, they have to be.

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:02

I have called but no one picks up. I need to test before he comes home so if I am it can be part of the discussion.

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PotteringAlong · 05/07/2015 07:05

A) it's a Sunday. They won't be open yet

B) no, it doesn't need to be part of the discussion. You cannot make someone stay with you because you are pregnant. If you're splitting up there's a problem with your relationship and whatever that problem is if will not be solved with a baby.

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:08

Everything was fine with us, loving, holidays ect. He just got a bungalow, I've just got a much higher paying Job then late last night he texted saying
He's not happy
Things aren't moving forward
We've both changed
I don't do enough of the driving Confused
He doesn't think things will improve.
But still kisses in the end of the text
Was a shock as the day before going away with the guys he'd been really loving. So he sent that then signal got dodgy. Texted saying that's a surprise to me but he just keeps saying he's not happy, not what we can do to fix it. And now he's not texting me at all

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:10

It won't keep him with me but if I am then it will be a part of the overall talk we need to have.

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:10

I know its open but will it sell them?
I'll try calling again.

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Appleblossom82 · 05/07/2015 07:12

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:12

Got a recording saying call back after 7am Sad

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:15

Thanks apple i'm so confused. Crying and getting angry. Its so un fair to send that in a text when he has his mates around him, I've got no one and replying to him is near enough impossible.
We've been together 5 years, I can't imagine life without him

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:18

Its 15/20 min drive. But like a coward i'm waiting for my gardening mad nosy neighbour to go inside (who spends an hour water plants at 7am). He's old and after a stroke talks/gossips to everyone and im not tough enough to ignore him Sad

Will wait til 7.30 then go even if he's still out.

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AMcoffeeLover · 05/07/2015 07:21

I have one close friends, he didn't like the others and over time we've drifted apart. She's away with her befriend.
I've got my mum but she'll worry and I know she desperately wants grandchildren and I can't deal with her emotions as well as mine right now.

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RabidFairy · 05/07/2015 07:23

If the Tesco express is like our local ones (one county over from bucks) they will have them behind the tills.

Sleepybeanbump · 05/07/2015 07:24

Please don't try to get someone to stay with you because you're pregnant. My parents and grandparents both did that. Both had miserable marriages and lives and my childhood was intensely damaged. It doesn't do anyone any favours in the long term, I promise.

I'm sorry you're going through this.