best shit place to be #4!! Pregnancy after miscarriage

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Continuation from previouspost for those pregnant after miscarriage

Oh lilliana, my heart goes out to you, it's so unfair x

Welcome maybe and congratulations. Those first very weeks are so nerve wracking, hope they pass quickly and uneventfully for you.

Glad you had a good holiday romeo and welcome back. Great news on the scan, so reassuring for you.

Romeo drop me a PM with your name and profile pic description and I can add you as a friend (we all agreed we'd unfriend immediately and then we can re add one another if we feel happy too at a later date) and then I can add you to the group if you'd like. No pressure! I think the fb group is likely to really pic up once babies start arriving and we want to share a bit less anonymously and ofc we are no longer pregnant so may not frequent the thread as much. It'd be nice to stay in touch after all we've been through.

I'm so sorry Lilliana my heart goes out to you

Thanks again everyone. I've quietly left the fb group - I wish you all luck in your pregnancies and hope you all have gorgeous babies at the end of a pain free labour (!) but it's too painful to watch atm. Take care and again thank you for all your support the last few days it has meant a lot xx

Biggest hugs to you Lilianna. I'm so very very sorry. I really hope you get your baby soon and that you are able to recover quickly physically and ofc, in time emotionally. Thinking of you xxxxx

so sorry lilliana.

Did my remaining CB digi this morning just to use it up and it said 1-2 weeks (so 3-4 weeks pregnant). I ovulated on 20th June so that's about right, yes? Making me 3+5 today.

Maybe when did you test completely negative post mc xx

2 days after my MC. Don't worry, this is a new pregnancy. My HCG blood levels were right back down to 5 the day I started to MC. I started temping and checking my CM right after the bleeding stopped. I know I ovulated on June 20th because I was temping.

Sorry I wasn't questioning if it was a new pregnancy, you hadn't mentioned temping previously and I was just trying to confirm that you are as far along as you think, which sounds correct.

chasing no that's ok, I just realised it sounded like I might still have leftover hormone :)

sorry if I sounded brusque, I was on my phone on the tube and about to go into a tunnel!!

Welcome and congrats maybe! I think I got my bfp a few days before AF was due and although right now you might feel miles away from where some of us are (I'm currently 21+2) I remember being where you and you really will be here before you know it!! The first tri is slow going and very worrying but just focus on one milestone at a time to help keep sane during the wait. And of course, any doubts or concerns or moans we are all here :)

Romeo so glad it was good news and pleased you enjoyed your holiday :) Poor you fainting, I'm sure they do see it all the time but its never nice for you :(

Lilliana thinking of you if you are here

Hope everyone is doing well?

Congratulations maybe :-)
Had my 20 week scan wednesday all looking good and a very active BOY here too!
All measuring the same and been signed off for MLBU even under consultant woohoo :-) x

Lilliana - I am so sorry to read your news. Really sorry. I am thinking of you

Ooh barbie - a boy!!!!!! Congratulations

Welcome to the group maybe x

Ahhhh welcome to team blue Barbie! Congrats

Yay barbie, how exciting! Congratulations on your boy

Woo. It's a very boy heavy group we've got going on here!

Lovely news barbie
I'm shattered atm, despite having reasonable sleeps. I think its partly the warm weather to blame!

Congratulations barbie, what lovely news.

Yesterday I had a really tearful day and felt exhausted all day long. Dd's been up since 4.45, which is very unusual for her! I think I've reached my first meantal milestone this morning, got a 3 weeks + on the clear blue digital when I got up with her, which means I'm past the point where I started to mc last time. Next is to make it to my early booking in appointment on wednesday, hopefully can get refured for an early scan. Or get the midwife's oppinion on the place that scans privatly locally, I've heard so many contradicting things I'm not sure what to make of them.

Found you all!

Had scan last Saturday, dated at 6+3 so am now 7+3. Not only did we see the heartbeat, we heard it too!

I say we... DH walked out on Tuesday. He turned up for my booking appointment and left immediately after (MW came to my home) Suffice to say that catching him out in another lie about money and drinking has been a huge shock to me. I'm annoyed at myself for believing him.

I'm now alone and on single parent benefit. This is an absolute disaster. My head is spinning.

I'm off to RTFT now.

Stocking.. ((hugs)) wow.. so much going on with you.. firstly hugest congratulations! Hearing the hb is magical.

I'm so sorry about your h. how you holding up?

Dobby that is a lovely little milestone xxx

stocking firstly congrats on your baby and lovely to see you here! A heartbeat is wonderful to see but even better to hear isn't it?! Secondly, im so sorry about your husband. I could be remembering wrongly but you have had some trouble with him for a while haven't you? It's sad to end up this way but maybe better for you in the long run. You will get through this! Anything we can do here we will, even if it's just to get everything off your chest x

stocking bloody hell. You separated for a bit over the money issue before didn't you? Christ, you must be furious about the lying.
It sounds like your can't trust him right now, and you certainly can't rely on him. I'm sorry this has happened. I hope you are feeling OK about focusing on you and baby right now. He's got some shit to deal with and some serious soul searching to do.

Big hugs. What a head fuck.

Hi all

Lilliana such sad news, I'm so sorry.

Stocking being alone with a baby is better than being with the wrong person and having a baby. My sister is a very good example of this. I'm sorry you have to go through the hurt and stress of not being able to trust someone you love.

Romeo lovely news.

Wellcome what if.

Back from my holiday which wasn't as peaceful as I hoped, ds was up with the birds everyday, wouldn't eat his evening meals and had like a regression in to baby talk and crawling, hitting me a lot and being naughty. I think I should of introduced a naughty step there like we have here it would of nipped the behaviour in the bud straight away.

Chasing you are not wrong about it being hilly,I was knackered most days.the travel was a nightmare and you were right about the a30, it's annoy when you see road works but no one working on them.

I do have s lovely tan though.

Hope you're all well.

Sorry you have problems with your OH again stocking I hope things work out for the best way for you.