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Best shit place grads # 2- still pregnant after miscarriage

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 05/04/2015 12:43

Another thread ladies

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MsJupiter · 23/04/2015 12:43

Sasha I'm so sorry. So cruel. Sending so much love and hopes that this part is over quickly and maybe you can start to get some answers that will help in the future. I know the pain goes on. Lots of love to you. ThanksThanksThanks Sad

onefootinthebed · 23/04/2015 12:58

So sorry sasha xx sending my love xx

chasingtherainbow · 23/04/2015 13:33

Oh Sasha. I'm heartbroken for you :-(

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northdownmummy · 23/04/2015 14:09

So sorry to hear your sad news sasha

Gr33dyeggs · 23/04/2015 14:13

Sorry it's been bad news sasha. I at least hope you might be able to get some answers and will have good news in the not too distant future Flowers

mrsthoree3009 · 23/04/2015 14:23

So sorry sasha :(

Barbiedoll79 · 23/04/2015 16:07

Any news glen? X

jugglingmonkey · 23/04/2015 17:13

So sorry Sasha

Glenpip77 · 23/04/2015 17:32

Sasha, I'm so sorry to hear that I was hoping that it was better news for you. Thanks

I'm still in limbo for at least another week. There is no fetal pole as of yet, but apparently thickening of the yolk sac so they are not prepared to call it as a miscarriage just yet, although have warned me that is the likely outcome. Epu were a bit crap tbh - apparently they didn't record measurement last week so couldn't do a proper comparison of growth. They also couldn't identify why I have been bleeding either so none the wiser on that front.

Amyyy27 · 23/04/2015 17:49

Oh glenpip im sorry they have been rubbish and you are still in limbo :( x

GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 23/04/2015 18:00

Oh fuck glen. So annoying. How many weeks are you?

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Glenpip77 · 23/04/2015 18:26

By lmp I'm 8+3, but i ovulated late so could easily be a week behind, even then they should see more at 7+3 so it is not looking good. I don't have any faith in EPU now so I may wait till my follow up private scan on 10th before I make any decision, I know this is probably prolonging the inevitable but I really don't trust the competence of EPU at the moment.

chasingtherainbow · 23/04/2015 18:37

Glenpip did they not give you a print out summary of your last scan? What incompetent feckers.

I'm sorry your scan wasn't more positive. . Flowers what a rubbish situation to be in.

Gr33dyeggs · 23/04/2015 18:50

Really sorry that you are still in limbo glenpip.

GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 23/04/2015 19:00

Ah, sorry. It does sound like it may be best for you to start mentally processing it as a loss. Sad Sad

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Glenpip77 · 23/04/2015 19:12

We already have - I was fully geared up to be led in to that side room to run through options of how to deal with M/C #3.

We've been doing loads of research on tests etc and are planning next steps once we get a diagnosis confirmed. That weirdly is quite reassuring as we can a least try to take a semblance of control of something that is currently completely out of our hands.

Bristolian1 · 23/04/2015 19:28

Really sorry to hear that Glenpip. Thinking of you and sasha tonight Sad

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keys27 · 23/04/2015 20:21

Sorry to hear your in limbo glenpip for another week. Xxx

Sasha don't blame u for looking into things quickly as I am sure u will want to try don't want all this heartache :(. I am so sorry
Your nit worrying us please stay but I understand why you would not want to i would be the same. Great idea about starting new thread as so many people go through it think it's 1 in 4 women

My thoughts are with you both tonight xxx

indyswoofer · 23/04/2015 20:23

Is this the right place for me? I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks in January. Test results came back clear and 'no explainable reason' for the miscarriage.
I am now 7+6 and scared silly. We had a scan last Friday and saw a little bean with a heartbeat but I still can't relax. I want to be happy but the anxiety is getting too much.
Ps. I have a 5 year old daughter and this baby will be a much longed for sibling.

GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 23/04/2015 20:41

Welcome Indy. Good news on your scan- once you've seen a heartbeat, the risk of mc goes down to something really tiny like 2%. It's a scary time though. My early scan showed two heartbeats so now I've got the additional worry of whether they'll both make it. This is a lovely group as we all understand the worries, although we have lost a lot of people along the way Sad

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Amyyy27 · 23/04/2015 21:05

Welcome and congrats indy :) great news on the scan!

Barbiedoll79 · 23/04/2015 21:17

Welcome Indy :-) everyone is lovely here!

Glen sorry to hear that- the waiting seems like forever but fx for you x

onefootinthebed · 23/04/2015 22:43

Glenpip, sorry your news it's what you wanted, it's a horrible time waiting.

Good news Indy and welcome.

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