Best shit place grads # 2- still pregnant after miscarriage

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Another thread ladies

Hello, all done and back home. Experience was as good as it could have been under the circumstances. Great care and humanity.

They've advised waiting a couple of cycles to let my body recover. I'll be 39 by then so feeling the time pressure but better to be as healthy as possible I guess. Will focus on healthy eating*, doing some exercise and cuddling my boy in the meantime.

*today I might eat ice cream and biscuits though

MsJ glad everything went as well as it could do. You enjoy your ice cream and biscuits! X

Hi bristolian - congratulations and welcome to the board

Glad to hear all ok with you haribo, low np does not sound like much fun with a little one to look after too - take care of yourself.

Glad all went ok today Mrsj - biscuits and ice cream sounds well deserved.

Thinking of you sasha and keys - I hope you are both ok.

Glad things went as well as they could msJ I'd be washing that down with some red wine too! I must say, personally the wait seems to make sense and work - fell on 3rd month after with ds and again this time (although this one is still unproven).

sorry to hear you took a tumble haribo. I hope the BP settles down.

MsJ glad to heAr it was all over quickly and the people were nice :-)
I think you should POp your feet up and enjoy the treats :-? You deserve them!

glad everything is as well as can be mrsj thats good news. i hope that you are ok. ice cream and biscuits sound like they will go down a treat

Hi bristolian congratulations and welcome to the group just hoping I will be able to share your journey with you.

Sorry to hear you've had a fall haribo. You need to rest up hun as others have said little bean is very well protected.

mrsj Your so brave. I wish I was as strong as you. The way you have dealt with this heartbreaking challenge is amazing. Big hugs to you hun. How did DS get on at his nursery today? I am glad the nightmare is over for you now hun and you can move on. 2 months is not that long away I am sure you will be back with the group in no time. Enjoy our treats it very much deserved.

sasha Again so brave hun. I think if your symptoms are gone you get a feeling thats its not working out. I am still keeping my fingers crossed for you. We're all here to offer our support to you always.

Glad to see everyone else is ok and everythings going nicely. I took a clear blue test today and the positive line came up so quickly and strong really deep line before even the other lines come up so I am holding on to hope. Been very low today. Roll on Friday will keep in touch.

xx

I'm so scared about the I'm impending scan and tests. I just can't shake the feeling that something isn't right. I'm not helping myself reading some of the threads on testing. The other pregnant people at work appear to be sailing through with no worries, meanwhile I'm panicking about everything.

I hear you Gr33dy.
Saw a speck of blood. Such a small speck it could be nothing. Or it could be the forerunner of something. I need to put it out of my mind.

Miscarriage really does suck the innocence and enjoyment from subsequent pregnancies

Thanks everyone. Thinking of all of you with worries. I hope so much there is no more bad news and just a crop of lovely bouncing babies at the end of the year. Hopefully for me too not long after.

DS had such a lovely time at nursery thanks keys, it all went really well so no worries there. He was very keen for me to come and play in the garden when he got home so I did my best to oblige!

I have been thinking of you MsJ. I'm so glad it went smoothly and it's now over. You'll start to heal now. Get plenty of rest and take multivitamins / spatone.
Also thinking of you Sasha and keys.

MsJ im so glad your little boy had a great day at nursery :)

I hear you too greedy im terrified!

Not a great scan this morning. They could only see pregnancy sac and yolk sac but not fetal pole - I should be about 7+3 according to lmp. Got to go back next thus for a follow up scan, but not overly confident as this is exactly what happened with my last MC.

Glen sorry to hear this :-(
Hopefully next week will shine some light on things for you and hope the wait isn't too bad for you!!

Hi sasha, will definitely hold hands.

I'm of the opinion that this will not work out again, although they didn't raise any alarm bells or warn me to expect the worst, they just gave me the facts on what they did and didn't see. They said the sac and yolk sac are what they would expect between 6-7 weeks which is probably right with my ovulation dates. It's just a bit ominous they haven't seen a fetal pole at this stage - I would be more confident if I hadn't been in this exact position with a negative outcome before I guess.

I'm trying to be pragmatic and assume the worst, fantastic if I'm wrong, but don't want to give myself false hope of the next 7 days.

Oh glen, I'm sorry. The uncertainty is the worst. Sending strength and hugs.

Sorry to hear this sad news Glenpip.
Unfortunately I'm spotting more today. Mix of brown and red. I called my EPU and amazingly they booked me in for tomorrow morning with no need for persuasion. I'm already on their system of course. Gah, I even recognised the nurse I spoke to by her voice. How depressing, I'm becoming a regular at EPU.
Anyway. I'm expecting bad news. My pg symptoms are all gone now. I still have the bigger boobs and belly, but I guess those take longer to go down.
I cried and grieved for it this morning. But id rather go to a scan prepared. I know they see women crying everyday in that place, but I hate to cry in front of people and want to be able to control myself. Accepting it's over now will help me do that. I've never bled and had a successful outcome. I know plenty of women do.
I should be 11+2 by the way.

Glen and west, I am so sorry you are both going through uncertainty too. I have everything crossed for happy outcomes and in the meantime we are here for handholding. Glad you are being scanned quickly west. I know it will be a long wait till next Thurs Glen along with Sasha.

I have been in a bit more discomfort today and felt groggy but luckily haven't had to do much apart from drink tea on the sofa. The bleeding has almost stopped though. Does anyone who has had an ERPC know whether I should expect it to return as the uterus contracts or do you think this is it? I will be so glad if it is. Definitely feel like I went for the right option.

west When is your scan?
MsJ I bled for a couple of days and then lightly on and off for a couple more days. Ovulated about two weeks later. Period arrived exactly 33 days after erpc which is my normal cycle.

Sasha I was reading some research about mc the other day and there's a school of thought that some women let a non-viable pregnancy continue way longer than others, meaning they experience mc, when other women wouldn't have got as far with it as to know they were pg. As it's different for all of us this probably won't apply to a lot of women, but it would be interesting if the research comes to anything.