just a quick one as I'm off to work in a few minutes. We've just been sat downstairs watching Greatest Blockbuster Movies - or whatever it was called. I was doing my best to talk normally about other stuff - he was doing some ironing.
He just told me to stand up.......so I did, he walked over to me, gave me and a hug, and (admittedly with a slight degree of hesitation in his voice) said "lets have a baby then"
We've agreed not to talk over any of the issues in the letter or his reservations - instead we're just looking forward