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Bunnygirlie · 20/07/2014 15:31

The Berry thread - berries (over 30s) pregnant with first baby after trying 12+ months.

Support, advice and hand holding from the grads.

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RevoltingPeasant · 29/07/2014 23:18

Jess how far are you now?

greatbigbushybeard · 30/07/2014 00:06

Thanks everyone. 10 am tomorrow so maybe back by 11.30.. Nervous now. Both dh and I have said we've been avoiding thinking about it. Time to sink into a good book and hopefully nod myself off to sleep! Gotta finish drinking my litre before 9am. Well done on today's results ladies. X x

FeatherFeather11 · 30/07/2014 07:41

bushy got the Harmony done at the Fetal Medicine Centre on Harley St, London. Got the 'harmony package' - £400 and worth every penny in my opinion. Good luck today! Sending you Berrie power. Will be checking in for your good news xx

winohhh · 30/07/2014 08:39

Good luck bushy!! I also had harmony done at fmc, also worth every penny imo.

FeatherFeather11 · 30/07/2014 08:56

If it wasn't for you win and merk telling is about the Harmony I would never have known, so thank you both! Flowers

Go bushy go! All will be well! xx

RevoltingPeasant · 30/07/2014 09:40

Cheerleading for Bushy! Bet she's in the waiting room already Grin

FeatherFeather11 · 30/07/2014 10:53

Lurking lurking lurking ....

winohhh · 30/07/2014 11:53

Just checking in. Fingers crossed bushy!!

greatbigbushybeard · 30/07/2014 12:38

Not good news I'm afraid, a sac but no baby. Stopped developing a while ago. She couldn't see any on normal scan so went to the loo and she did internal and there just wasn't anything on the screen. V sad and met with nurse directly afterward to discuss options. We're doing medication. Dh and I just cried on each other in the scan room. Have taken meds now, dh has day off so just coping best we can. Poor dh feels bad thinking negative thoughts before scan as if that made a difference. He says he feels like he's been punched in the stomach and can't get up. Had a chat and just going to bumble through today. Really sad I can't be with you ladies, you've been so good to me but this one wasn't meant to be.

yorkiebilb · 30/07/2014 13:01

bushy I'm so so sorry to read this. There are no words to comfort you and your DH at the moment, just want you to know I'm thinking of you. Life is so cruel at times. I hope you have people to talk to in real life about this (as well as the support you'll definitely be given from everyone on the berries boards xx

FeatherFeather11 · 30/07/2014 13:02

Fuck, bushy I am so, so sorry. That's awful, awful news. Please look after yourself and know that we're here. So sorry. So unfair. Gutted for you. xx

jessplussomeonenew · 30/07/2014 13:14

Oh Bushy, my heart goes out to you and your partner, really sorry you're having to go through this. Hope you have lots of RL support but do let us know I we can do anything, even if it's only offering a listening ear.

winohhh · 30/07/2014 13:32

Oh bushy, I'm so so sorry. That is awful. I'm thinking of you and DH and hope this next part passes quickly. I remember so vividly me and DH waiting to talk to someone after our bad scan news. Just awful. I hope you can take some time to look after yourself. Do whatever you need to do to get through this. I feel so sad for you after all you've been through.

RevoltingPeasant · 30/07/2014 14:06

Oh Bushy, oh no. I am so very very sorry. I know there is no real consolation anyone can offer but I'm wishing you every strength.

Be really kind to yourself. Flowers And you know that we are all here for virtual support, any time.

TheRainDrops · 30/07/2014 14:24

bushy I am so so gutted for you. So completely and utterly unfair. I had a MMC too and know how destroying it is to have that scan. I wish there was something we could do. Sending you lots and lots of love and support today - you know where we all are when you need us. Thanks

CatsCantFlyFast · 30/07/2014 16:36

Bushy I'm so so sorry x

MotherOfCleo · 30/07/2014 16:59

I'm so sorry bushy. So horribly unfair!! [Sad]

PoppySeedBun · 30/07/2014 17:02

Oh bushy, just rubbish news - I'm so, so sorry.
I had an MMC too, and that heart-sinking moment in the scan is just awful.
Be really kind to yourself for the next few days. I wanted to hide away from the world completely, but actually found it helpful to see family who knew, and get out after a couple of days. Do whatever feels right.
The Miscarriage Association also has lots of good advice and support, including advice for friends & family on how to handle things:
www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk

Thunderpantsarego · 30/07/2014 17:05

Hi bushy and everyone. Just popping in to say how sorry I am at your news. We had a mmc too and words cannot describe how awful it feels. Shedding a few tears here for you and sending love and support your way.

Brodicea · 30/07/2014 17:30

I'm so sorry bushy you both look after yourselves xxx

BlindKitty · 30/07/2014 18:47

My eyes have just filled up reading this too. I'm so so sorry. We're all here for you xxxx

Tallyra · 30/07/2014 19:07

Oh bushy ConfusedConfusedConfused
I send you huge hugs. I feel really bad for you.
We have had 3 mmc and it's a bloody hard time. Be good to yourself and talk to people if you need to.

happylass · 30/07/2014 19:08

Oh lovely Bushy I'm just popping in to say how very sorry I am at your terribly sad news. This is so horribly unfair. Please take the time you both need and look after yourselves. As others have said you know where we are if and when you need us. Take care Thanks

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Bunnygirlie · 30/07/2014 20:47

Bushy so so sorry to read your news! life can be very unfair sometimes! hugs x

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WildflowerMarmalade · 30/07/2014 21:04

bushy dropping in to say how terribly sorry I am. You are a lovely person and this is just so unfair. Thinking of you and your DH. Hold each other with love. My heart goes out to you both.