Posifrickentivity thread: pregnant after miscarriage. TODAY WE ARE PREGNANT.

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Continuing our journeys through pregnant after past loss.

Hand holding and support for all.

TODAY WE ARE PREGNANT.

tea it's frustrating that you've not got a 100% answer, but great news that the baby has grown! That really is good...when is your 12 week?

Glad that's the baby is still doing well and growing Tea! Sucks that's you're still in limbo. Hope the next few weeks until 12 weeks flys by in un-eventfully!

Glad things are looking more positive tea.

Bad news for me, passed a lot of bright red blood this morning, had a scan which showed the sac had detached from the womb and moved down on its way out. There was also no sign of baby developing so miscarriage is inevitable. Good news is that everyone was very kind, both the midwife and consultant came to talk to me and gave me a hug. Now just home waiting for the full force of the bleeding etc to kick in.

Wishing you all the best for successful pregnancies

Really sorry to hear Curtains take care. :(

Oh curtains, I'm so sorry. Sounds like you've had brilliant care. I hope things pass quickly and you can start to grieve your loss. Sending you big hugs xxx

Oh curtains so very very sorry, sending you hugs xxxx

tea well it seems you and I go together in more than just name! Had scan today and my bleeding is due to the last clot having bled some more and got bigger. Basically as the placenta is growing it's given a big blood vessel in my uterus lining a big nudge causing a rupture. This clotted and then that clot has also had a nudge causing more bleeding. It's big and I've been told to expect lots more bleeding and cramping as it comes away. It's close to my cervix so very likely to pass it rather than the body re absorb. Now it's a waiting game to see if when the clots comes away it brings everything with it, impossible to say. I'm going back in a week's time for another scan. Paying privately for all this as local hospital staff are great but it involves hours of hanging around and I'd probably be told to wait til 12 wks before scanning which is just too much limbo for me. At £50 a go I think it's money well spent and the lady at the clinic is just lovely. So we will see what the next week holds. Little bean is growing nicely and measuring 6+6 but who knows if it'll still be hanging on there next week.

Thanks to you all for the lovely messages, what a bloody rollercoaster this is! X

curtains I'm so sorry.

Glad you've had some positive news today teaand cake, even if you are both still somewhat in limbo.

curtains I'm so so sorry. Hope you're getting lots of support

curtains, that's awful, I'm so sorry.

Wow, what a rollercoaster for you both tea and cake. Really glad your beans are hanging on in there and it's not as bad as first feared - so hope your next scans bring good news too.

curtains I'm so sorry :( you've been through so much, I really hope you're okay and being looked after

cake pleased that it's not bad news but the waiting is horrible, you're right it's a complete roller coaster. My next scans not till the 23rd so I'm expecting to go grey over the next couple of weeks, just have to try and get on with it I guess.

Thanks again for all your well wishes, it really does help x

So sorry, Curtains. What a rough ride you've had. Be extra kind to yourself. Sending of chocolate and hugs xxx

I'm so sorry for your loss curtains There are no words to make it better but I hope that you are surrounded with love, support and care.

Tea and Cake I'm glad you each got positive news if not quite the reassurance you were hoping for. Will be rooting for you both.

Fingers crossed for you both Tea and Cake sending you lots of hope x

I'm so sorry curtains. It is nice to hear that you were treated so well when you needed it

Thank you all, really appreciate it.

itscurtainsforyou I am very sorry. X

teaRex and cakebaker35 good luck. I am glad the scans went well (partly) but it must be so hard to know that there will still be bleeding. I have everything crossed.

Cake keeping everything crossed for your little bean!

Gosh I thought TTC was bad enough but i realise now the emotional rollercoaster is only just getting started after our BFP's. Sending lots of thoughts your way to tea, cake and curtains

I'm taking the final exam today of a Law qualification that I've been studying for since January. Its been a mega hard 6 months, full time job and fitting in studying and coursework lunchtimes and evenings after my 2 year old has gone to bed. Not to mention I spent Jan-Feb in the first trimester so feeling sicky and exhausted, then had the MC 2 days before I had to drive 3 hours for my first University study weekend. And now I'm feeling sicky and exhausted again just intime for the exams! I will be very glad when today is over!

good luck today Gail - no wonder you are exhausted! Hope you can relax with a nice tonic water tonight

Good luck Gail! :)

Wow! I'm very impressed gail best of luck for today :)

Hello all. Someone kindly pointed me towards this thread last week when I was feeling low during my 2ww. I hope you don't mind me stopping by. I have actually had a bfp this week but I am really, really nervous. AF isn't even due till today/tomorrow and the line on the test is not getting darker yet. I had a mmc in January and a chemical pg last August and really, really, want this one to stick but am not sure it's going to (I know - need to be posifrickintive!). Haven't felt anywhere near as sick since Tuesday though and the lines are if anything lighter now. I do have one dd, and I know I'm really lucky for that. I would really like to give her a sibling though. Good luck to everyone on this thread - I hope I can offer some support to others too.

PS Have just read back through some of the recent posts and wanted to add how sorry I am to read your news, curtains.

and that I am keeping everything crossed for you, tea and cakes. Must be gruelling for you.

Thanks longest and welcome. Congratulations on your bfp and remember, today you are pregnant

Well it's not great news from here - tmi alert - I've passed a couple of huge huge clots and continue to bleed. I was told to expect bleeding and that the clot would make it's way out but all I can think when I see it all is that's my little bean on it's way out and it's all over, just the sheer volume of it all says to me that everything is coming away. It's bloody torture going to the loo and having to face it over and over. Seriously lacking in posifrickentivity today, fish slaps please. Sorry for the woe is me post but I just can't pull myself together at all at the moment.

cake you poor thing. That does sound scary. Are you at home, and are you on your own? Do you have anyone you can call? Am really, really hoping for you that your little bean is clinging on. Today you are pregnant, and all that.