Wading into spring with the all new shiny Posifrickentivity thread. PG after MC? Dive right in!

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All comers welcome, we're a rolling thread. Newbies, middles and oldies alike, join here for hand holding, knicker checking and general batshit craziness!

Really really sorry to hear your very sad news Aoife. To say its bloody unfair doesn't even come close to the reality.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and hope you are being cared for xxx

So sorry aoife sending you my sympathy and best wishes, so sad . You have made reality hit home so I think I will try and pay for a scan next week now, I would rather have some answer before 12 weeks as my last was too early and just ruled out ectopic so no heartbeat at that point and my symptoms feel like they have tailed off.

Happy hearing all the other good news from births to scans, gives us some hope

Really sorry aoife. I hope you have people to look after you and support you.

I didn't really have spotting yesterday, more like slightly discoloured discharge. But there's more today. Trying to hold on to the idea that I'm feeling the baby move. Over the last few days I've felt the little feelings a bit more, and yesterday evening there was a definite 'pop' when the cat leaned against my tummy purring loudly. I really want it to be movements, it's helping me with the 'hope for the best, prepare for the worst' thing as I head towards the 20 week scan on tuesday.

fod it was suggested to me at one of my early scans that I could have a heart shaped uterus. It could explain the bleeding, but brings with it the potential for other problems.
The last time I got checked the MW said the cervix can be very friable in some people, so perhaps it's that sort of thing.

So sorry to read this aoife, horrible news. I hope you get lots of love and support and look after yourself x

aoife I am so so sorry... I was really upset to read your news, life is so incredibly unfair sometimes...I hope you have lots of support from friends and family. Stay strong (you strike me as a very strong person) and persevere - I know you will get there in the end!

total congratulations on the birth of your baby boy! Great choice of name, I hope you're both doing well.

giraffe great scans news! Did it all go well for your friend too? I hope so

pixie, guff and saggy I can't believe how close you are now! Good luck!

Hi to everyone else.xxx

I have just dragged my hulk up a blare hill into town for the dentist, up 3 flights of stairs to get there, and then round Tesco. The BH are back with some lovely back ache too. Please God..

Very sorry for your news, Aoife. Thinking of you x

pentagon yes it did thank you. Though she's a month out with her dates (irregular periods since cancer last year) so she's 16 weeks. Had a fab lunch date with her and our DH's in nandos :-) x

Back from an internet free skiing holiday to such awful news, Aoife I am so awfully sorry for your lost little one. Life is unspeakably unfair.

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news aiofe. You and your partner must be in bits. . Take time off to grieve and recover. I'm sure you will be back here soon

all been thinking of you today, really hope scan went okay.

Saggy that's a pretty impressive day's work and more than I've managed! Here's hoping things are progressing nicely for you.

Nerdy little feelings sound good. Out of interest is your cat quite interested in the bump?

Developments:
went to the loo earlier, bowel movement, TMI sorry and have lost some blood since. Not a typical show though so am on my way in to get assessed.
AARGH!

ooo saggy it could be happening... keep calm...

aiofe so sorry to read your news, thinking of you and sending lots of love xx

I'm so sorry aoife :(

Good luck saggy hope minicatpuss is out very soon :)

No news to report here - but I guess that's a good thing.

hope all is ok saggy and they see you soonish. let's hope one of us has a baby this weekend! like guff blooming nothing happening here although I have started popping evening primrose worked last time and I'm getting desperate

Well I'm all strapped up! Ryvita does NOT like the monitor. She just gave it an ALMIGHTY wallop! I nearly jumped off the bed!

haha she's feisty is ryvita I think she's ready to come out by the sounds of things- any contractions yet?

nothing regular. Just the BH and backache ive had all day.
I SO want to go spontaneously. I would love not to have another induction.

ah I really really hope this is it then saggy it's all sounding good. Got my fingers crossed for you xx

Ooh saggy sounds very promising!

Keeping Fx that it's not too much longer for Pixie or
Guff!

I've realised that I'm sitting at work in - what is essentially - my cleverly disguised pyjamas. This proves pregnancy robs you of all dignity and sanity! Thank goodness I'm on mat leave from tomorrow!

Well half an hour on the monitor and no real contractions to speak of. A bah just tail off when I lie down.

BH even!

Aoife I'm so so sorry - I simply do not have the words - I hope your getting RL support

MrsG I've been incredibly horny for 9 months! DH refuses to come anywhere near just in case sooooo it's been 9 months of DIY

nerdy sounds very similar to my uterus / can't believe it took them 15 years to spot it! It's nice to have a explanation tho

Saggy don't you dare queue jump you naughty girl! ;)