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Chocomama1 · 12/07/2013 18:52

I'm due on the 17th...2nd baby and so excited. Currently in slow labour so contractions in the evening completely irregular and turning into a disappointing nothing!!!
How are you getting along??

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ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 15:22

well Tom if baby stays inside forever that will put a whole new spin on homeschooling! Grin

I forgot when are/were you due.

(can't read back, DD's just done a poo on carpet and she was eating it, I washed her, but had to sit down...now I'll tackle carpet.

and that is TMI!Grin)

TomDaleysTrunks · 28/07/2013 15:46

Grin zing. How old is she? Dd keeps examining her poo's and declaring what they look like. "Mummy, this one like a dinosaur"!

40+1. Had DD at 36 weeks so feel like this preg is lasting forever!

Reebok · 28/07/2013 15:55

Lol! That had me in stitches zing! I almost peed myself!!!

Marushka that sounds positive. Hang in there Tom.

40+6 today...not that I'm counting. I am still concentrating on ignoring the pain I feel so that I don't feel as disheartened when it stops. Went for a walk despite pain with DH to the park and then to do some grocery shopping. All I want is chocolate! Need to stay away from it!

ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 15:56

she is 15 months Tom
I washed her hands with soap, but they still stink. I will have to use a lemon cut in half - rubbing the juice on pooey hands tend to help.
however gorgeous she is, she does not get to be kissed on the lips today..

well I think this baby will be born at 44 weeks, you know, just so you can have a nice average! Grin

poor you though, I can see why you feel this is going on forever. but it won't I promise you.(hugs)

ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 16:01

reebok what was best, that she didn't actually poo on the carpet! she always pulls wipes out of the pack - and this time she pooed on them! how good is that?
I'd say she is a genius...if it wasn't for her eating her own kaka!Grin

good that you are keeping active, but have you rested yet? if not, please do. just 30 mins lying down will do you good.

Reebok · 28/07/2013 16:09

Lol what a genius! That's adorable! (Yet gross lol)

Lol@44 weeks!!

Yes I'm now resting with my fat feet up on cushions with a big bar of chocolate and an even bigger bottle of ice cold water. Mmm lush!

TomDaleysTrunks · 28/07/2013 16:21

Glad you seem chirpier reebok. Grin

Ha to 44 weeks! Can you imagine? Just sat bouncing on my ball watching crap on tv. DH taken DD to soft play! The house is spotless and I am bored!

Reebok · 28/07/2013 16:27

It's all the happy hormones from chocolate Tom! I'm decided to over indulge and sod the weight! Am bored now too. Am not that into tv.

ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 17:03

that's the spirit reebok, good for you!

tom

let me tell you a story.

DS2 was very late and the last 2 days before labour progressed I was just waiting around. it was bloody awful.

I was admitted for induction at 11 days over, we went in in the evening and they administered 1st lot of hormone gel (pessary type thing). nothing.
the next morning I had another one - nothing

they were going to examine me at lunchtime to decide what's next, but everyone and their NDN and their dog decided to start/finish labour and MWs just could not do anything to trigger it further - there were no free beds on labour ward. I had to wait.

by 8pm I was hysterical. I begged them to just tell me if I was at all dilated or what. they were reluctant and gave me mountain speech about risk of infection - I said I don't care, I need to know something.
I was 2cms. I sent DH home, had a shower and went to bed. I cried myself to sleep because it was like Rachel in Friends, people came and went while I was stuck. and I missed DS1 so terribly!

day 13 (overdue) was spent waiting. we went for little walks, went for lunch, binding time. we were so bored I asked DH to search for and pull out grey hairs. he found 5. I swear they grew out overnight! Grin

the whiteboard at the nurses station had a red star next to a person's name every now and then. I asked what that meant, the head MW said it meant that person will be the next one to be moved up to labour ward (based on availability and their "labour" status")

so I kept on checking if I had a star already. I went out very 30 mins. it started to get embarassing, but nothing. I was disappointed, sad, angry and fecking fed up.

by 8pm apathy set in. I could not care anymore. I thought I'll never have this baby and I'll become a medical wonder, living in the hospital forever.

DH went home at 9pm, ordered a curry and I decided to take a shower and go to bed. at that point MW came in and said they are taking me in ten mins. she told me to pack up quickly, have a shower and get ready quickly.

I had waited over 48 at that point to actually get things going properly.

the rest was fairly quick - after DH arrived they broke the waters & left me to it for a few hours. still no progress, so at 2am I had syntocinon (oxytocin) drip.
it was vile. (again) I had an epidural (again)
DS2 was born just after 8am. he was 14 days late.
for my other 4 kids after him I adjusted EDD to plus 2 weeks. I coped better each time I waved goodbye to actual EDD.

the end

(sorry, bit long, but hopefully entertaining)

mrsspagbol · 28/07/2013 18:25

Zing

"by 8pm apathy set in. I could not care anymore. I thought I'll never have this baby and I'll become a medical wonder, living in the hospital forever."

Ha ha haha ha ha!

marushka82 · 28/07/2013 19:15

Zing - that bit from your story that Mrsspagbol quoted made me lol! awesome :)

I think maybe it wasn't the waters trickling, maybe it was a false alarm and just slightly more watery VD. Eh, we'll see what tomorrow brings :)

How are the rest of you doing?

Reebok · 28/07/2013 19:28

Lol brilliant! Very entertaining zing!

Have just treated myself to a nice bubble bath although I almost got stuck lol! Had to make sure I was trim for tomorrow and man was it difficult! lol Takeaway tonight and yummyyyy haagan daaz! 😀

How's everyone else doing?

ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 21:07

marushka if I were you I'd get checked out tomorrow.
you need to know if the waters broke or not - if yes, baby is no longer fully protected and there's a risk of infection.
(so do not DTD until you know)

furthermore, once you are full term, if the waters brake they might want to induce you within 24-48 hours, for above reasons.

Please call MWs and let them know, ok?Smile

ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 21:08

and glad I made you laugh! Wink

marushka82 · 28/07/2013 21:31

hmm Zing, you're right... will call birth centre first thing tomorrow...

TomDaleysTrunks · 28/07/2013 21:46

Having quite uncomfortable BH. At least I think they are BH. Start low down and radiate into my bum and across my back. Suppose I should try timing them? Don't want to get my hopes up again.

ZingWidge · 28/07/2013 22:01

tom

time them

marushka FWIW I do think it's your waters.
it's almost a "reverse" knowledge thing - if it was wee, you'd be sure, but as you are unsure it is more likely to be the amniotic fluid IYSWIM.

yes, do call them. no need to panic though, but I had to say. you are my mum-lings!Wink

Airfryer · 29/07/2013 02:28

Due date is tomorrow. Had a curry tonight (never have spicy food) and have suffered! Bad braxton hicks all night. Can't sleep coz of them grrr. No baby....gutted

Reebok · 29/07/2013 04:13

Can't sleep. Have period type cramps in my back alongside the feeling of needing to poop. Paracetomol won't touch it. Have a feeling part of the reason I can't sleep though is also fear over my midwife check tomorrow afternoon.

TomDaleysTrunks · 29/07/2013 06:07

How are you doing now reebok?
BH died out overnight but been up since 4 with diarrhoea. Lovely! Hoping its not a bug.

wavesandsmiles · 29/07/2013 06:57

Just a quick check in to wish reebok all the best for check up later. I had a stretch and sweep whilst in labour and it wasn't so bad at all. As with so many things, relaxing is the way to go, even if you have to fake it and force yourself to physically relax. Will be thinking of you.

Hope real contractions start arriving for everyone else soon

mrsspagbol · 29/07/2013 06:57

reebok please try not to worry about midwife appt.

A sweep is really not that bad and can only be done if your cervix is already open.
You can ask midwife to stop at any time.
You don't have to have one.

Try to rest. Please dont worry.

Flowers
HJBeans · 29/07/2013 07:12

Morning all. Still no action here. Due Tues and in to see MW today. Think I'll be offered a sweep and plan to take it as I want this baby out! Not too concerned about pain, but does anyone know any other reason to think twice about it - I.e. any risk of infection, etc.? Thanks and good luck to all.

shineypeacock · 29/07/2013 08:32

Still here!!

Went to hospital yesterday, for monitoring and to see if waters had broken, (they hadnt) midwife today, and consultant on Wednesday. Hoping for another sweep today ( they are not too bad reebok) as all was favourable yesterday, had some strong tightenings/contractions whilst on monitor, but not enough grrr!

Hopefully something will happen this week, baby is on the large side of average 97th centile and was estimated at 8lb 9oz at 38 weeks, so hoping consultant agrees to induction on wednesday, might stage a sit in if not!

marushka82 · 29/07/2013 09:12

Hi guys, I just called birth centre this morning because I had some pinkish (now red) discharge overnight - thought it might be waters but they said waters would give me a steady trickle. They still want me to come in so they can do a check up. Now I'm thinking it's the show, but can it be red? Oh well, guess they will tell me at the hospital.

Reebok - I hope your appointment goes well today! And good luck to all the others!