Pregnancy after miscarraige.........POWER to the Beanies!!!!

[oinker]

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..

Hope this is OK.

Please feel free to change it to something else if not totally satisfied.

As I said, my fear is irrational I know. But it is the way I feel.

Sorry cori, I don't think your being irrational honey just hoping to help.

I have a scan at 2.30pmSTILL panic every time I have to attend hospital. Even though I feel movement fairly frequently and know there are no chromosone problems, am still concerned that there won't be a heartbeat by the time I get there and about the brain cysts/echogenic bowel. Have eaten a whole packet of chocolate fingers, but surprise surprise, still feel just as anxious as I did beforeonly now I feel guilty as well!! Oh, and I've still got raging insomnia.

Good luck Arabica. shall be thinking of you.

Morning all.
Good luck today Arabica!
My scan's at 1.30 Hopefully finding out what flavour she/he is too.
Oinker- how are you today hun? Are you going to try the epu?

Hi all, will pop in and out as also trying to get our place tidied to perfection as we are putting it on the market and there is always something more to do. Also plagued with morning/all day sickness and tring to keep a 2 1/2 yr dd happy.

Oinker: hope you get some good news soon. Will be thinking of you.
Cori: I understand how you feel about the c-section as a pal felt exactly the same. If your consultant is ok then go for a VBAC and just be open to other options if the need arises.

oops Good luck Arabica.

Morning all,
I know I shouldn't be here but can't help looking in to see how you're all doing.
oinker- thinking of you lots at the moment.
cori- hope things get moving for you soon. I think it's natural to feel anxious, I was worried about the birth too. I think the best thing is to just take it one day at a time at the moment. I know it's easy for me to say, having been through it. But it's easy to think along the lines of, "but what if this happens." Perhaps it's all part of worrying over when something is going to happen.

Good luck everyone with scans today.

I will try and get a picture up of Emily Rose soon but my computer is knackered so having to use DHs at the moment.

Hope everyone else is well.

Oinker- encouraging news from cori that anembryonic pg and blighted ovum are the same thing. Obv yours was blighted twin as you still have another healthy pg. I am sure the Prof was looking at the wrong twin sweetie. I know you are sick of talking about this so will change subject.
Cori - wills is right, the preceeding months up to the birth matter more than the grand entrance. Will your accupuncture help with these nerves? The thing is as long as the baby is safe it doesn't matter how it got here. Don't worry about what other ppl think and let that make you think you are a failure if you don't have a VBAC.
DD's in dresses today so had to sew button on to DD1's cardi before school, hung washing out but still more dishes and tidying to do. Also have DD1's friend round on Fri after school so need to be tidy but not so much so that I will be disappointed when they trash the place!

Sorry I'm really forgetful and clumsy, meant to add good luck for scans arabica and HK.
Also forgot to say I fell up the stairs last night. Was achey all over but I'm fine now. No point in getting an epau scan as getting scan done on Fri.

Mygirl.........

Fell up the stairs???? That's novel.

I fell down the stairs once...Top to bottom. It was in the middle of the night, DH was DP at that time and we had not been together for long. Anyhow, by the time i hit the bottom I was crying and had peed myself Oh, forgot to mention....I was naked too.

Anyway Mygirl...be a bit more careful... Lift your feet up!!!!!

Good luck on the scans girlies.

sorry guys haven't had time to read throuhg all your messages, just wanted to send my best wishes to you oinker, sounds like a total mess up to me, What on earth are they trying to do to you, send you insane. still feel posssible vibes from you hun so don't give up hope yet, i think baby is still there.
Hk & arabica hope your scans go well.

mygirl - you nutter fancy falling up the stairs, hope you're feeling ok.

I am going to do some gardening today just to take my mind of things.

If I am not on here a lot in the next few days don't get worried guys. I just want to try and focus on something else for a while.....

It took all the strength in the world this morning to inject myself...I can't help wondering whether I am doing this for nothing..

That's it no more moaning.....

aww oinker - you moan away!!! i shall worry if you don't come on, but totally understand your need to take your mind off things, you know where i am if you fancy a chat. you've got my email address and if you have msn i'm often on there too.
enjoy the garden.

Yes enjoy the garden honey.

Slink - the word for today is ITCH! Guess what I have . Blooming Thrush. That's sex off the list of ensuring little one arrives on time for a little while anyway. Blast blast blast. Still dh has an op today so I don't suppose he'd be in the mood anyway.

wills - hope Dh's op goes ok. make sure you're resting as much as you can too. You have so much to think about at the moment, you must be feeling exhausted.

I've been gone sooo long a baby has appeared on here! I presume (as can't read thru threads) Pet has had her baby!

Will try and read thru in my lunch break (if i get one!)

Oinker, hope you are ok hun x.

snowboo - yep pet has had her little girl

Oh Pet if you're reading, CONGRATS!

Hope the next few weeks fly by now. Want my baby. He has been beating me up on a regular nightly basis....

Hi everyone,

Just been catching up with everybody's news.

Good Luck Arabica and Hellkat with your scans today.

Oinker - I can't believe what I'm reading.....what a nightmare. Think you're doing the right thing - try and focus on something else for the next few days and we'll see what next Tuesday brings - hopefully good news.

Cori - sorry you're so worried about the birth - it's not irrational. Think women always feel guilty about something. If a c-section is best for you and your baby - hang what anyone else says.

Thanks everyone, Its just because of the miscarriage and how it ended that I feel this way. I certainly didnt feel I had 'failed' when DS was delivered by CS. In fact I was quite relieved. But having been given some hope that I can do it, I want to do it. FGS, I didnt even get into established labour last time.

Hiya all!!
Well............................ we still don't know what the sex is!! Lol. The sonographer tried every angle, got me to roll on my side and even got me to walk around. Nothing worked. Little bugger opened it's mouth like it was saying "Ner ner ner ner" waved then promptly crossed it's little legs and turned it's back to us lol. Most importantly everything's fine and normal. Looks like we'll be getting a wonderful surprise come Sept

Congrats on your scan Hellkat - glad everything's okay. Somehow it's more exciting to wait to find out the sex I think.

Thankyou! Can't wait now! Even more excited

HK.....
Great news. I am glad everything went well.