Missed miscarriage

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I have found out today I have had a missed miscarriage. I still have the foetus in my womb. I have opted to pass it naturally instead of surgery but a now bit scared as unsure what to expect?
Am I going to go to the toilet and pass a large clot?
Please help :(

Emily I am so sorry for you, it is an awful thing to go through. Are you having a d+c or have you opted for the narural way to pass the sac.

What ever you decide were be here for support. Use us as much as you like, it has really helped me.

Take care x

C4 - you really are lovely btw xx

Oh thank you, thats really nice of u to say x

How you doing tonight emily?
Im thinking about you, dont hide away im here if you need to talk x

Hi janey, how u feeling? Have u got any sickness feeling yet? X

Only a bit, comes and goes and is very mild... Hoping it's not a bad sign.... How are you?xx

No im sure its nothing to worry about, dont they s say sickness from the start means your having a girl :)

Im ok, just the same really, no better but no worse :/ x

Why do people wind you up when your having a bad day anyway. Seriously, im sure some ppl are out just to get on my nerves. Come to work being positive its only.12 and wanna go home.already.

Sorry needed to off load some how xxx

Arrrggghhhhh!!!

Feel bit better now, ha xx

aaaargh, it's always the way!
Have you decided what to do about the promotion btw? Are you going to go for it or not do you think?
xx

Yer I am going to go for it, iv got nothin to lose so may aswel I thought.

I seem to go through fases at work of enjoyin it and not, its a real big not at the moment. One girl I hav to wrk wiv all day every day, I just cant help but let her irritate me, she does everything I dont want her.to do.

How are you anyway x

Crazy week! Sorry I haven't been around... How are you? How's work? When do you find out about the job? And is it nearly chlomid time again?xx

The job shouls go live tomorrow and wil b available for applications for a week. it is an internal advert tho.

Im waitin for the hospital to phone me back tomoro. Im on antibiotics at the moment for next 2weeks cos they think ive got an.infection in my womb and cervix area..since saturday have needed a wee... Lots, my stomach in swollen if I push on my womb area the pain is so baad and wen the doctor done an internal examination, wen she touched my cervix that hurt to, also got blood in my urine.

Had to phone the fertility unit today to find out.what they want to do because I cant do.anything until this is sorted x

Oh no that's rubbish. I think infections are really common after a mc - the cervix is open to let everything out, which I think in reverse means that stuff can get in. Hopefully they can whack it with antibiotics and you'll be ok in a week or so. Just not what you needed on top of everything else, poor you.

Sending big hugs xxxx

And good luck with the job application x

Yer I thought the infection would of happened.straight away but obviously not. Iv come on today too so I can take my clomid tomorrow... My body feel heavy and drained but least I can start mu tabs again x

How are you? X

Oh that's good, you're stilll allowed to take them despite the infection? That's really good, the last thing you want to have to do is wait another month to start taking them.
Is the pain from the infection lessening yet? Usually antibiotics are pretty damn good, and clear things up pretty quickly. Rotten thing to happen to you on top of everything else though

Yeah I'm good. Going on holiday after work on weds and back on mon night, then three days later I'm off again until Christmas eve! Cannot wait, and got the ok from the doctors yesterday to travel so can't wait.... x

Iv jus had a phone call from the fertility clinic, they dnt want me to take the.clomid till the infection is gone. Which is really gutting but im use to waiting now ;( (it was a doctor I spoke to earlier)

Im glad you can fly ok, hope u have a lovely time, im jealous x

Oh that totally sucks, I'm so sorry

Are you still in pain?x

On and off, earlier I had a weird pain different from any iv had before. It was a sharp pain which went over my whole stomach, it lasted bout an.hour then it past. It was so bad my dp wanted to take me to hospital. It feels ok at moment tho.

I feel like im always.moaning to u, I am sorry, your be glad to go on holiday to have a break from me ha.

Anyway... X factor.... Christopher has got to go this week, do u watch it?

Hope your well x

Don't be silly! You hardly moan at all, and have every right to moan a hell of a lot after everything you've been through.

Keep an eye on the pain - if it's that bad again call nhs direct for advice maybe? Sounds horrid

Usually watch it but this year haven't even seen a single episode - is weird as I'm usually a complete addict! Enjoying I'm a celeb though...

Hope you get some sleep and have no pain tonight xx

Yer I will if the pain.happes again il phone them.

I think my body is jus really run down, my dp said earlier ppl think you have.a.mc an then a wk later your fine but its not the case it started.about 6 wks ago now.

I am an addict to x factor, celeb, corrie amd eastenders. I reckon it wil b between colin and rosemary tonight to go...

I do remember telling you that it's a lot harder physically than you'd expect. As soon as you know you've had a mc you know how hard it's going to be emotionally, but it took me completely by surprise how tough it was physically - as you said, it takes weeks to recover.

Are you out of pain now? If not I'd call the hospital and ask anyway - antibiotics usually take effect pretty quickly, so if it's no better you ought to speak to them and see if they can up your dose. The sooner you're through this the better.

You've had such a rough time of it, poor you :(

Im not in pain anymore it has gone off alot.

Not long now to ur holiday bet ur excited, wher are you going? X

That's good, hopefully the antibiotics are working their magic.

I'm going to Dubai on Weds night, and back Monday with my friends, then off to Thailand with DP next Thursday.

Am a bit scared because all my pg symptoms have disappeared over the last few days, so have been asked to go in for a scan. Fingers crossed all is OK tomorrow...

I would try not to worry there.meant to ease of abit once your so far gone arnt they. Let me no please how it goes, il be thinkin of you.

and you lucky mare them hols sound amazing x

Good luck for your scan, got everything crosses for you x