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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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Heartbeep · 28/03/2012 23:31

That's great LPP congrats on a good scan experience. I was thinking about try to stop my meds yesterday as I've been doing ok but was very very sick this morning & now I'm too scared!

M0na HG is all new to me so I'm not best to advise but is it not worth going to see your gp now to discuss your options so you can avoid waiting until you're really bad & maybe not coping? i was at breaking point when I sobbed my way to the gp. I wish I'd known that support was there earlier (they were very supportive) At least if they aren't supportive you can seek a different gp or something? There have been some great links for support on this thread, & the thread alone is invaluable. Congrats on your BFP & I hope you have an easier time of it. Someone wiser than me will be along soon to offer advice...

M0naLisa · 28/03/2012 23:38

Thank you heartbeep :) yes going to see my GP

MOH100 · 29/03/2012 09:32

Hi monalisa good idea to see your GP asap. I'm ttc at the moment and I make an appointment practically as soon as the wet patch is still wet (sorry tmi) for a couple of days after my period is due, then I cancel it if I don't need it. It's ridiculous really, but you wait weeks to see a specific doctor at my practice and I don't want to get randomly assigned the one who last time said oh I had HG and I still came into work (I did point out to her that if she came into work, she didn't have HG) and take ginger. The good news is that there are lots of medications you can take, and if your GP doesn't know much about HG (this is likely, medical school eduction in this country is scandalously poor) then you can point them to lots of information on the Pregnancy Sickness Support website. There's a section for healthcare professionals at www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/ which will give them information about which medications to prescribe. You can also find information about treatment protocols on the documents page of www.pregnancysicknesssupport.co.uk as well as loads of other advice from other sufferers, lots of them from this support thread. It's really essential with your history of HG that you get on top of this immediately. Your doctor should give you a prescription, if they say wait and see how it goes, then you should try to see a different doctor before you're too ill. Please let us know how you get on and good luck.

LucindaE · 29/03/2012 09:40

MonaLise Welcome, sorry that you have t had to go through this awful illness and had to have a terimination - I agree with Heartbeep that going to GP before things get really bad is the best plan. It's hard to argue your corner when feeling sick. I hope you get a symapthetic GP but there's lots of advice on
:sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos/. I hope that link comes out,trust me to get IT wrong if it doesn't, but at least you have the key words.
I hope you stay here too because it makes such a difference communicating with others who're going through the same thing. My own experience was years ago, but I remember well Sad.
When things are at their worst - usually in the first tri, it feels as though things will never get better but most women get a lot better later on, and so many find that with meds they can keep the sickness at a bearable level or even get rid of it completely.
Some, like *MaryLou8 on an earlier thread, find that they only had nasty m/s with a pregnancy they were sure they'd get Hyperemesis again with (ending with preposition, very bad).
Heartbeeps and Plastic you are still quite early on to give up meds entirely, as MOH says, do it gradually, you don't want to be violently ill again. GPlastic my handwriting is so bad I can't see here if it's you that had the scan saw a wriggly baby, but congratulations, that is such a nice sight! Congratulations on leaving the dreaded first tri?
Apologies to anyone I've rudely ignored.
Lucinda
xx

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LucindaE · 29/03/2012 09:43

MOH Cross posted with info about link! Waves.
Lucinda
xx

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MOH100 · 29/03/2012 13:36

To the new ladies, I'm conducting a survey online at sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos/surveys to gather information about women's experiences of HG. I'm going to present it at the Pregnancy Sickness Support conference in June. If you're up to it and are happy for the data to be used in research, please fill it in. Everything's anonymous, I don't get any identifier information about the respondents. If you're also on the Facebook group, it's the same survey that i've recently advertised there too. thanks.

M0naLisa · 29/03/2012 16:06

Thank you

I didnt have the Termination because of the HG my youngest was only 11mths old when i pregnant and suffering from bad PND and i didnt feel i could cope with another baby. i fell on with the pill. I then went onto the injection. I came off last March and fell pregnant again now after trying since December :D

Magnumwhite · 29/03/2012 19:54

Hello all!
40 + 3 and stlll here. ironically feel the best i have for the whole pregnancy.
sending lots of love to you all with many weeks to go still. I couldn"t possibly have imagined being here back in those grim early days ...

ovaltine · 30/03/2012 08:14

thanks for update Magnum! Thinking of you and Hoping feeKerry has popped now too

Hows everyone else? Horsey have you got more sun tan?

horseynewmum · 30/03/2012 10:03

Hi all

Ovaltine the red is now fading to a brown colour and I still feel good which is lovely.

Magnum obviously your baby doesnt want to enjoy the nice weather. LOL

Hope everyone else is coping ok?

Funeral now been arranged for just over a week so thats good. Me and DH relationship has gone from strenght to strenght. He has talked to me more about this pregnancy, Been more cuddley and supportive and I can talk to him about how I feel and he tells me how he feels re pregnancy and its been great. I feel we have turned a corner and I've got to say its since his nan passed away maybe he realising how preciuos life is.

So I'm carrying on my day with a big :o

ovaltine · 30/03/2012 10:32

love this ^^ xxx

LucindaE · 30/03/2012 12:26

We need a new thread, everyone. I believe I've created one, but knowing my blunders with IT! Here's the link. www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/1439697-Hyperemesis-Support.

Hopefully, see you there!
Lucinda
xx

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heavensent123 · 04/04/2012 00:14

Hi Everyone,
I am about 4 weeks pregnant. At the very start of this awful ride again. I have 2 children already. One is 7yrs old and the other 2yrs old. This one was a bit of a surprise to say the least. The HG sets in at about 6 weeks for me. Had it with my other two girls. There is a history of it in my family. My two brave sisters had it. My half sister got it and my cousin had it and she had 5 girls. Personally she is my hero! She deserves a medal. I love her to pieces and it was nice to be supportive of each other through this horrendous condition called HG. I hope that you all know how precious you are and how amazing you are to be just sane going through this. Depression can raise it's ugly head with this condition. Not surprising when you feel like you have food poisoning 24/7. Thank you for all your comments. Just joined the network.

heavensent123 · 04/04/2012 00:17

PND is just awful. I know how you feel. I think you are amazing. Keep going.

heavensent123 · 04/04/2012 00:27

There is a really good news video on you tube about HG. If you put in -helpher - it will link you to a website that was specifically set up for this condition. It was set up by a nurse who suffered from HG. Get your doctor to weigh you too. There are certain criteria and procedures that they have to follow. Consultants in the hospital have a guideline and procedure they have to adhere to. Ask for a copy. They will start taking you seriously when they know that you know your stuff. I didn't know any of this when I had my first girl. By the second I was a bit more prepared and didn't take any excuses from the doctor. You can also get protein drinks on the nhs when you cant keep anything down. It's so hard. Nothing is set in stone for this HG. Everyone is slightly different and suffering is all relative. I think you are all doing great. My sickness doesn't kick in til 6 weeks usually so I am dreading it. It's one thing to talk about it, it's another thing to live through it. Keep going everyone, don't give up. Just remember to tackle this HG minute by minute, that is all you can do at times.

heavensent123 · 04/04/2012 00:28

Helpher - on the google site I mean. Sorry. I have no memory and get very dizzy. Signs that this HG are on the way. Hope this information has helped someone.

Riri94 · 19/06/2018 09:38

Hey girls

Me and the other half are thinking about trying for another baby in the coming year.i suffered really bad with HG in both my pregnancies with my girls and I'm on the fence because we would love another 1 but I don't want to be a burden and have to go through it all again. Is there any precautions out there to slow the sickness down or just help so it's not so bad. I've said if we can't get a solution I don't want to put us through it a third time.

Any help would be appreciated x

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