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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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Heartbeep · 20/03/2012 19:07

Hi LPP I was on one of the October threads at the start but it all started to get a bit distasteful from one poster so I just lurk now Blush

My scan is next Thursday, I was also scanned at 8 weeks for twins! There is only baby thankfully but I have got quite a bump now if I hadn't had the scan, I'd be thinking there was more than one.

That's great no sickness for one day! Even one day makes all the difference, long may it continue for you. I'm sick about every other day now and it feels great compared to the early days. Nausea is still very strong all day but that's manageable.

Good luck with your scan, hope it goes well & you get some relief from the sickness.

TheDetective · 20/03/2012 19:25

Thank your for the messages ladies.

Yesterday evening after vomiting up everything I tried (8 vomits) plus all 3 doses of the Stemetil (less than 15 mins after each dose) I decided enough was enough. I'm a pretty demanding woman when I want to be, and I went with a determined attitude down to the gynae ward.

I needn't of worried. I saw a junior doctor, who actually listened to me, accepted what I told her, and that I have been though this before. She asked what worked for me, and I told her nothing but IM has ever worked but that is because treatment was so delayed - the age old cycle of IM working then being switched back to oral then going back to vomiting.

So she gave me IM stemetil there and then, and oral cyclizine to take on top of the oral stemetil.

Well, I haven't vomited since, and I have kept on top of the oral medication. Even the nausea is subdued - only rearing its ugly head to remind me to eat little and often.

I feel so much better, and I am so glad I went last night. She told me I could go back any time, and get a further IM injection as needed. Obviously they would admit me if I became severely ketotic or my bloods became deranged - I'd much rather avoid this and would go back morning and night for IM injections if that is what it took to keep things at bay! In fact, I'd be quite happy to bloody well inject myself!!

Sometimes those who shout the loudest get the better treatment it seems. Shame though...

MelangeATrois · 20/03/2012 23:48

Hello from an old poster. I was here (as nitnatnaboo) Dec 2010-Jul 2011. Hope you are finding life a bit easier thanks to this thread - I certainly did!

MotherofPearl · 21/03/2012 08:32

NitNat! Hope all going well with you.
Hope everyone else having an OK as possible day today?

Cosmogirl · 21/03/2012 08:33

Quick post as on phone & hate posting from here. Just wanted to say to Detective I have a friend who works in nursing & she was allowed to inject IM anti emetics herself throughout her HG pregnancy. Many find IM more effective than oral.

20 wk scan this morning. Excited n nervous. X

MOH100 · 21/03/2012 15:26

detective welcome and commiserations. Your comment about the a**ehole posting you're pregnant not dying made me remember a book I came across recently while my husband was clearing out an office of a former clinician colleague. I picked up an obstetrics book by Ian Donald (of ultrasound fame) from 1974 and he has figures of maternal deaths in Glasgow Royal Maternity Hospital. in the period 1936-40, there were 16,532 total births, 396 admissions for HG and of those, 33 had terminations and 15 mothers died - that's about 4% of HG admissions. Possibly the 33 who terminated may have died if they hadn't terminated. Abortion was illegal at the time so would only have been done if the mother was at risk. Between 1946-50, there are only 168 admissions for HG, 4 terminations and no deaths. Ian Donald puts the improvement down to the introduction of new drugs. The drugs he mentions are phenergan, avomine and dramamine. So actually, having HG without drugs or IV fluids may mean that you are dying, or your baby may have to die to save you. Maybe doctors who hold back on the drugs need reminding of this.

TheDetective · 21/03/2012 19:16

That is very interesting reading MOH.

I have to say that I am slightly ashamed to admit that I have had 3 terminations for hyperemesis. I have never ever admitted that to anyone, but some how, in here I feel I can. I wasn't in the right place to deal with the hyperemesis. One was a planned pregnancy too. I have never stop wondering why I did it - but it was mostly panic and the inability to cope with hyperemesis. I was also with a different partner who was much less supportive than my current DP.

This time I'm older, stronger, and wiser. And I CAN do this.

Interestingly Avomine was what I was given in my first pregnacy - helped a little, but not much.

The cyclizine and stemetil are doing a sterling job at present, and provided I eat hourly, just graze, and take the medications alternately 4 hours, I am coping. I haven't been sick since the IM injection. So glad I demanded early treatment. I know it is there - the nausea reminds me, and there have been times I thought I was going to be sick, but I have been able to keep it together.

Please let this be a better pregnancy. If it stays like this, I will cope. I just have a feeling it won't.

Cosmogirl, could you ask your friend what she did to persuade them to agree to this? This would be a very useful tool for me to have should I progress further down the slippery slope.

Thanks ladies, I'm glad this thread is here!

theonlyhb2 · 21/03/2012 21:12

Detective, I too recently had a termination, mainly due to not being able to cope with HG again after 6 months. I wonder if I hadn't of started feeling sick I would have felt differently, but those 2 weeks were hellish, so you all have my sympathies as it takes so much mental strength and family support to get thru it.

i have decided to bite the bullet and swap one of the sports cars for an estate (7 months late). Its hard work finding a car I like. It is too much to ask for leather interior?!

MotherofPearl · 22/03/2012 09:21

Wow MOH, that's pretty sobering information isn't it?
Detective, I think anyone who has had HG understands what you've been through, you poor thing. I think wanting to terminate when you're in the grips of HG is totally, totally normal, even when the PG is planned. Really hope the meds keep on working for you. :)
theonly, it was surely only a matter of time for the sports cars eh? Wink
And cosmo, how did you get on with your scan?

LucindaE · 22/03/2012 10:35

Melange How could I forget your horrible experiences as NitNat over that Christmas? Your GP refused all meds, despite the fact you'd had Hyperemesis before, and you started vomiting coffee grounds and we are all in a panic on here, knowing it to be a medical emergency...! How are you? Lovely to hear from you. How is baby?
MOH Those figures from 1974 are alarming. I had no idea that the fatality rate then without treatment was so high.
TheOnly Hugs about that termination, and Detective for you too, if you want them. It's not fair that women have to go through this thing...Detective I am so things are better. Remember that this is the worst stage. It's lucky I couldn't find the thread you mentioned a couple of days back,or I might have forgotten myself and made an angry post.
MOP How is baby?
Cosmo That sounds like someof the treatments they have available in the US (but only on private insurance).
Heartbeep Any news re bloods and infections?
Apologies to anyone rudely not mentioned.
Lucinda
xx

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LucindaE · 22/03/2012 10:38

That was it, Plastic How did the Acupunture go? It did so much for me, but it varies so much for different women.
Lucinda
xx

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Heartbeep · 22/03/2012 11:57

LucindaE blood results back today & they're ok must've just been a bad day when they were taken.

Thanks for asking Smile

smk84 · 22/03/2012 15:55

Hi everyone, thinking of you today. To people who joined since me, hello and hope today is not too bad. Life will go back to normal one day even though it may not feel like it. And it really is true that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. My sickness ended at 16 weeks, so to people before that stage, it is possible to get over it early. When mine wasn't gone (and still awful) at 14 weeks, I was really worried, but it did go. On the other hand sometimes it stays, but even if it does you will be ok. There are people on here who are living proof of that. Not sure if me due date is on the list? It's 5/6/12. xx

theonlyhb2 · 22/03/2012 16:24

LIST AS OF 22.03.12

Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
Horseynewmum 23/05/2012
smk84 05/06/12
Cosmogirl 08/08/2012
meebles 28/7/12

If any of you are missing, just cut and paste this list into the message box and add your name and date in :)

what's everyone's "safe" foods at the moment? Do you find they have changed now the seasons have? I think it was about this time ham & dairylea toasties were a no no, despite living on them for 12 weeks

Littleplasticpeople · 22/03/2012 17:19

LIST AS OF 22.03.12

Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
Horseynewmum 23/05/2012
smk84 05/06/12
Cosmogirl 08/08/2012
meebles 28/7/12
Littleplasticpeople 06/10/12

Littleplasticpeople · 22/03/2012 17:24

Have added myself to the list, bit depressing being the furthest from due date!

I have a few 'safe' foods. Strangely I can eat eggs in any form, cheese, chicken, and Greek yoghurt. I seem to be totally off the carbs in favour of protein at the moment. I'm totally off anything sweet like cakes & biscuits, which I guessis also a good thing!

lucinda I have ndoubtedly improved since Tuesday, however this could be due to the increased ondansetron or the acupuncture! I have booked a second appt with the acupuncturist next Tuesday though, as I want to give it a real chance.

Positive vibes to you all xx

Cosmogirl · 22/03/2012 18:29

TheDetective - I spoke to my friend and she said that as she couldn't tolerate oral Zofran, she was admitted and had it via IV. As she obviously couldn't go home on oral Zofran, the consultant suggested her injecting IM. They even showed her husband how to do it (non-medical person), and it wasn't a problem at all. If you want to speak more with her, she says she is happy to be contacted. If you send me a private message on here, I can pass on her contact details.

20 week scan went well yesterday and found out we are having another girl. Very pleased. Placenta is low lying so need to be rescanned at 34 weeks, but hopefully it will move up as really want a natural (home) birth if at all possible.

On the HG front, still very nauseous and in bed stupidly early, but I figure it is whatever gets me through at this point in time....

Magnum - if you are reading this - hope you're ok and coping with last few days of your pregnancy xx

theonlyhb2 · 22/03/2012 18:38

have we heard from feekerry?!!

Magnumwhite · 22/03/2012 22:51

I am reading this...and hoping that tonight is the night. Baby fully engaged this afternoon and having regular non painful tightenings...which is the way it started with DS.
39+3 now and as DS was 10 days over I'm not at all convinced things will progress tonight but I'll keep you posted.
Cosmo congrats on having another girl. sorry the nausea is still bad :-(
I also echo the recommendations for pushing for im meds - metoclopramide and cyclizine were only ever effective for me im or iv.
love to everyone

Cosmogirl · 23/03/2012 14:15

Best of luck Magnum - really excited for you & hope you don't have long to wait. I know those last few weeks and days can drag.

Having a rough afternoon. Nauseous & best I can manage is sitting on sofa :( took DD to a music group this am & she went to MIL's for a couple of hours, so don't feel too bad having cbeebies on until DH gets home. Nearly the weekend thank goodness. Hate wishing life away but it seems to be the only way to get through this.

horseynewmum · 23/03/2012 21:39

Hi all. Just popped to give a quick update. All been well on the sickness front this week so been doing some spring cleaning (to whatever degree possible with a bump in the way) and still been feeling good.

Well that was until today................DH came home from work to tell me his nan had died. This is a big blow to us both (I was very close to her even tho not my nan). Her health had been going down hill last few months. This was the family problem I was sorting out few weeks ago that I posted about. Thankfully she passed away peacefully and quickly but it is a shock and I think my DH is struggling to understand it. (not good at ahowing emotions but can tell with his behaviour).
The bit that has got to him most was 2 days previous DH nan said to FIL I wont be here to see you become a grandad to which FIL said she would.

Only problem for me is I dont know how I'm going to cope at funeral cause I'm going to be 33/34weeks. Selfish I know but I think the stress and upset maybe too much.

Sorry about the me post better go and be a good wife and see if DH is ok. Lurking in garden at the moment.

Thanks for listening.

horseynewmum · 24/03/2012 10:15

HI all. sorry I was rude last night posting about myself but needed to let it out. Unfortunatly I was sick quite a bit last ight. DOes anyone else find that stress/upset trigger off sickness?

magnum hope it all goes well for you and you little buddle of joy arrives safely and removes the HG at same time.

cosmo sorry to hear you having a rough time. Big hugz

plastic glad you feeling better and found safe food. I live off my safe food lol

hello to everyone else and hope your all managing to cope

LucindaE · 24/03/2012 10:54

Magnum I hope it was the real thing?
Horsey Really sorry about your OH's Grandmother, particularly when you were looking foreward to showing her the baby. It's very hard, but for some reason, often a birth does seem to be preceeded by the death of an older relative or friend, just as if it was part of some pattern we don't understand. I've known it happen a lot.
Everyone else Sorry I have to be brief today - recovering from migraine, brought up fond memories of Hyperemesis as well as the strangest combination of bile and unearthly foam,so brains still scrambled. That was only for thirty-six hours, but puking and puking is so foul even for a short time, let alone for weeks, that nobody should make light of it.
I hope Everyone is coping.Nice weather can make things worse, sometimes. Does anyone else find as I did fresh mint tea soothing? But it's not out yet, silly me...
Lucinda

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Belladons · 24/03/2012 18:42

MOH100 thank you so much for your advice re: reducing meds, it sounds sensible. My Dr seemed happy to prescribe both sets of tablets yesterday, but then got a grilling from the pharmacist who proceeded to lecture me on the risks of taking Cyclizine in the 3rd trimester for 15 minutes before giving me the tablets. I think I have to agree with everyone else on here and say that it must be much worse for me and the baby to be getting to the point where I have to be readmitted to hospital, than taking the meds. I am not yet in the 3rd trimester, and I will see how reducing meds goes over the next few weeks.

I have had a really good week being back at work, so reducing them does make me nervous, but I am sure that if I take it gradually as you advise then I shouldn't relapse as badly again.

Enjoy the sunshine everyone!

theonlyhb2 · 24/03/2012 19:08

horsey so Sorry to hear of yr loss. Its not selfish at all its what this thread is for. Yes the stress and worry and upset will make you feel worse but just play it by ear dont worry about it now. You may feel more than well enough to go then have a few crap days after (which would prob happen anyway if you stay home worrying about missing it :) )

lucindaE sending you a darkened quiet room with comfy pillows. 36hrs is more than enough! Hope its not been caused by stress?

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