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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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horseynewmum · 07/01/2012 12:56

theonly sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. Only you can decided what to do next for the best. I think i could understand how it feel if I were in your shoes and I'd be along the same idea as you. Big Cyber Hugz

LucindaE · 07/01/2012 14:32

TheOnly So sorry that you have this terrible decision to take, I can only echo what everyone else in saying that only you know what is right for you, but as Fluffy says, try not to rush into anything (though you must feel like it). You know my story, I expect, I have trotted it out often enough, I regret not going through it a second time, but you haven't had time to recover properly and watching the symptoms reappear after so short a break must be truely terrifying.Finally you know what is best for you and your family. Thinking of you.
Horsey I'm glad that they are watching out for PND with you, I think that probably large numbers of women who have had it are traumatised, I know I was, so don't feel alone.
Hope Everyone is OK today? Basekwell and Cosmo any let up?
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 07/01/2012 17:48

Lucinda I have to say even through I have been through some shit in my time, I've got to say I've been very lucky with my Surgery and the doctors there as they have helped me and I trust them completly with whatever they say and do and I'll help them.

Sarahrb26 · 07/01/2012 18:57

Hello9 all. Ive not posted on here before but was diagnosed with HP at about 7 weeks and spent nearly 2 months in hospital in total. Unfortunatly had an alergic reaction to two of the anti-emetics then found that while I was on the drip I would improve a bit, but once back at home it would all kick off again after a day or so then Id be re-admitted again. Was a horrible cycle to get into, made even worse by the fact my Husband who is in the RAF flew out to Afghan the week after we found out I was pregnant so have been on my own thi whole time.

Things did seem to settle down and improve a bit, and as work were being so funny about the amount of time I had had off I went back but am finding it so draining and hard. Not helped by the fact that Im feeling so lonely and weepy at the moment which seems to bring back on the sickness and lack of apetite again which I am most worried about as Im now 23 weeks. It does help to read from others that it gets better and Im not the only one going through it so thank you all xx

LucindaE · 08/01/2012 12:15

Sarah Welcome. Do stick around...Two months in hospital? Shock That is the worst tale I have I have heard yet about length of stays in hospital, my goodness! What horrible luck abouit the allergies, and your husband being in Aghan and work being unsympathetic. Will the doctor not write a long term sick note if it is all getting too much for you? Are any meds working for you now?
Horsey I am so glad that you have had the right kind of support from her GP's surgery, that is how it should be,but sadly, often isn't.
Lucinda
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smk84 · 08/01/2012 20:48

Hi all, big hugs to you. So many posts since I was last on and have only had time to scan through as back at work and so much to do ! The only, Horsey, Cosmo how are you today? I can only echo other people's encouragement to you. Even though I seem to be out of the woods I will never forget the 3 months of torture I felt, (mainly) emotionally and physically.

Lucinda want to thank you again for all of your encouragement to me. And also you other ladies who have helped me through some very dark days. Was thinking how nice it would be to meet each other one day in real life, with babies and all, in the glowing Pink Castle!
I hope you all have bearable weeks, and welcom Sarah - you will never be alone on this thread, sending you lots of love.
xx

LucindaE · 09/01/2012 09:57

SMK Thanks so much for your nice words and encouragement to Everyone. I hope it isn't too exhausting at work? Is the recovery - dare I say it - complete?
Sarah How are you today?
TheOnly How are things? It is so traumatic for you.
Horsey I hope OH has come round?
Bakewell Fleeurliese Cosmo How are you?
Cyber hugs to anyone who feels in need.
Do you know, I sent three Christmas messages to Fluffy, and I have no excuse for my muddle headedness...
Lucinda
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MOH100 · 09/01/2012 11:20

sarah OMG you poor thing, husband in Afghan is bad enough on its own without being pregnant with HG on top. No wonder you're feeling so bad. Do you know about the UK HG sufferers support network run by Pregnancy Sickness Support? The web link is www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/help/supporters-network/. You request support from someone in your area and they contact you by email, text, phone, whatever you're comfortable with. It's sort of like an HG buddy, someone who's been through it so knows how you feel and can offer you moral support on a more personal basis.

As for work, I echo what lucinda says, you should ask for a long term sick note, it's well known that too much activity can bring on a relapse of symptoms and rest is as much a treatment as medication. I, and many others here, couldn't work full time or the HG would just come right back - and that's even with medication.

Also, people think that pregnancy sickness only lasts for the first trimester, but with HG it's different and it's very common for it to last longer, sometimes even the whole pregnancy (although thankfully it usually isn't so severe in later weeks). People who don't understand about the illness will try to make you think that you're a slacker for not going back to work and you often get the 'you're not ill you're pregnant' line, but they're ignorant idiots. It's hard to resist their bullying though, especially when you're on your own. Did you manage to find a medication that didn't make you allergic? Even though you're 23 weeks, you might still need to be on meds, I was on mine till birth and there are lots of others on this thread who are still on them into the 3rd trimester.

You'll get lots of support and understanding on this thread, I hope it gives you a boost.

theonly I can only sympathise. My DD was nearly two before I plucked up the courage to try to get pregnant again, and I'm in that split personality situation of being both disappointed and massively relieved all at the same time that I haven't succeeded yet. HG with a new baby sounds like a nightmare scenario.

horseynewmum · 09/01/2012 12:44

sarah As MOH has said about meds you may need to continue them for long time. I'm now 21 weeks and I'm still on same dosage as 11 weeks as it only thing that can help me function to do basic things like keep most things down and to do basic things like having a wash and just able to get out of bed and I don't plan to come of them as I know I need them. The pregnancy sickness site MOH given you has a facebook page too which is great with support too.

all I can say is do what you feel is best. And if thats nothing then do nothing.
Support here is one the best and if it werent for this lot a dread to think how i'd be now.

smk I think your idea about a meet up is great idea so we can meet our vitual buddies who have helped us through dark times

I'm of for my 20 week scan this pm. Bit nervous as worried something might not be right. Just my mind taking control again. My mind is a dangerous thing

needinstructions · 09/01/2012 13:34

Hello all, and as happy a new year as you can manage at the moment...

Sarah, I am so sorry you have had such a tough time, and with your husband away as well. I can only repeat others' advice to take it as easy as possible and take whatever meds you can.

Theonly, congratulations on your pregnancy - maybe it's a blessing that it happened so soon if you couldn't otherwise have faced knowingly going into HG territory again? I can certainly understand how worried you are as I have said I could never go through this again, but take it one day at a time and at least you know that you get something truly wonderful out of the misery. Do get everyone possible on board to help though, you really need to look after yourself with a young baby, and fingers crossed you have a better experience this time.

Horsey, I had a lot of problems with my DH a while back and although he is generally more supportive, we have still have some rows. In fact, he all but kicked me out of the house on Christmas Day, with no apparent concern for the fact that I was utterly distraught with our argument, then blamed me for ruining the day... The cause of the argument is completely irrelevant, it's the not caring enough that you are having a really hard time already carrying their child to ease up on the rows/shouting. Awful and you have my every sympathy; I put it down to the additional stress on everyone, but it really isn't fair.

Anyway, I have been offline for a few weeks now as I didn't feel comfortable using my home computer (because of the issues I had with DH belittling my sickness etc) but I am over the moon to report that I am feeling a definite improvement day by day now. My heart goes out to those of you who are still suffering as badly as ever and I am SO grateful that I seem to have got off very lightly in comparison. I think it's wonderful that, even in their own misery, people have found the energy and compassion to help and support each other - this thread has truly saved my sanity a number of times - thank you all!

Anyway, I am sticking religiously to my cyclizine just in case, but am rarely sick now and am getting increasing gaps between the nausea. I was sick rather unexpectedly this morning (normally I am worst at night) but I suspect only because I started back at work today so had to be up earlier and was quite stressed about managing the school run and commute. Doing ok so far though.

That's a long enough post for now, but hugs to everyone. x

horseynewmum · 10/01/2012 18:31

Hi all just though I'd pop on to a) bump the thread up but also to let you know my scan went well and all appears well even tho baby didnt fancy being very helpful for measurements the little bugger.

Hope everyone else is ok

LucindaE · 10/01/2012 18:46

NeedInstructions I am Shock about DP nearly throwing you out over a row on Christmas Day. Poor, poor you, oh dear, and not daring to use the PC for some suipport, this is an awful situation. You are very brave to be back at work so soon, I do hope you are OK? Saying 'Take it Easy' is so hard for anyone working to follow, I just hope things are quiet at work for a while. Will DP notice what you are typing if you feel you need support? I hope things are a lot better than they were between you and him.
Horsey That's lovely news, I am happy for you.
To give Everyone a laugh, here's a ridiculous tale. I've been having some bladder problems of late, 'frequency' and a couple of UTI's, and so had to go for an embarrasing investigation that involved sticking tubes not just up my uretha (never remember the spelling) but up my anus. Well, the specialist - a man, needless to say - tried to be jolly but was really hurting my tenderest part and I writhed. The nurse ordered me to 'Relax and put your bottom down' and I snapped 'It's hurting my CLITORIS!' She looked astounded, as if she didn't now what that was, for goodness sake. I had to laugh afterwards...
I hope Sarah SMA Seapie Bakewell and Everyone are doing well, and MOH waves. TheOnly* thinking of you.
Lucinda
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fluffywhitekittens · 10/01/2012 21:09

Lucinda Shock Grin

Good to hear scan results were good Horsey x

LucindaE · 11/01/2012 17:38

Fluffy Waves face. How are people doing? I do think it is so upsetting that OH's often have no idea how awful it is...
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 11/01/2012 18:45

need im sorry to hear what you going through with OH. Its so wrong. We carrying their child, their blood yet we still get treated like 2nd class citzens. I think men should go thro pregnancy with HG cause I don't think they would make 12 weeks let alone full term. I knw in this day in age we say 'pregnant not ill,' but maybe this should be changed to 'pregnant but still have feelings.'

horseynewmum · 11/01/2012 18:47

Oh does anyone else have the problem of cant see the face cause of the spots as my face is just full red angry ones. Also my hair is coming out left right and centre. My hair is naturally dry and weak and does break easily but now it comes out in handfuls..................

theonlyhb2 · 12/01/2012 10:41

morning girls. puked like a pro this morning. Yuck. Off to hospital tomoro as definitely not going thru with it. Not so much pregnancy as the fact giving birth again so soon would not be a smart move after last time (midwife agrees). Just hoping no more than 7 weeks. Don't know how some of you cope with unsupportive OH's. Quite unbelievable that they would behave that way

horseynewmum · 12/01/2012 12:47

theOnly sorry to hear you not going thro with this pregnancy but if you feel its right for you then all the best. my thoughts are with you.

Re unsupportive OH I've made it quite clear to mine he should be careful sticking his paint brush in my paint pot if he don't like me being pregnant. It makes me chuckle seeing his face cause he hates me saying that

fluffywhitekittens · 12/01/2012 12:55

Hope everything goes ok tommorrow Theonly x

Cosmogirl · 12/01/2012 14:48

Hi, sorry for absence again. Things have been dire still. I found out today I've been on the wrong antibiotics for the uti :( so started new ones today. I am considering steroids because the zofran is not helping enough. I am sick 3 x daily, still can't get out of bed and have horrendous nausea pretty much the entire day. It is killing my spirit and I'm not sure how much longer I can go on staring at the ceiling all day. Anyone know much about steroids? A friend recently started taking them and says she feels amazing. Nausea 2/10, vomiting gone, can function and look after herself, even been shopping and eating Chinese food. The Gp has ok'd steroids but still not sure what to do.

Thoughts to all those suffering & to theonly - what a horrible position to be in. I understand your decision. HG forces us to make choices no one should have to.

seapie · 12/01/2012 15:07

Cosmo I was on steroids (prednisolone) for a couple of weeks earlier on this pregnancy, before I managed to get ondansetron. On the plus side, they made me ravenous, and cut out nearly all the vomiting, so I managed to get the weight back on. On the down side, they didn't have much impact on the nausea I've found ondansetron the only thing that really touches that.

Had a growth scan this morning. Estimated weight at the moment is 7 lb. Im 37+3, so part of me is thinking just get it out now - the last couple of weeks before the section are really starting to drag.

LucindaE · 12/01/2012 19:02

TheOnly I do hope tommorow isn't too traumatic for you.
Cosmo This sounds awful, it's too bad ondansetron doesn't help enough. A couple of women earlier on one of the earlier threads were on steroids, I think. I was on the wrong antibiotics for a UTI just weeks ago myself, and it was dismal enough, and I don't have Hyperemesis. There seem to be UTI bacteria which have become resistant to some antibiotics, it's a pest. There may be infor on steroids on http://www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/.
Horsey I love that crack about the paintbrush - Grin. Imagine any of the heroes of legend Theseus, etc, coping with Hyperemesis! No chance. I had nice outbreaks of spots and peculiar rashes up to four months, which set off my uncombed hair and uncleaned teeth to perfection...
Seapie Nearly there. How is the nausea these days?

Fluffy My 'bits' have recovered now lol.
cyber hugs to all who feel in need.
Lucinda
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LucindaE · 12/01/2012 19:03

Cosmo That link didn't come out, trust me... www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/ Hope that works...
Lucinda
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MOH100 · 13/01/2012 15:55

cosmo lucinda's right, info here about steroids www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/help/treatments/steroids/. From what I understand, there have been reports of cleft palate if steroids are given before 12 weeks, but some recent studies have questioned those statistics and the absolute risk is still very small. If your GP has agreed to the steroids then that's encouraging. I was under the impression that they are best started in hospital under supervision of a hospital consultant, but maybe that depends on the local NHS arrangements. Maybe you have to give time for correct the UTI antibiotics to have an effect, maybe part of the nausea/vomming is still the infection?

smk84 · 13/01/2012 22:31

Need sorry to hear about probs with your husband, but delighted you are improving each day. It can feel like an eternity waiting for improvement !
Horsey fab news about scan ! Did you find out if you are having a boy or girl?
I had my scan today and all was well. Didn?t find out sex. Now just need to decide whether to have ELCS or natural birth. Had third degree tear with Ds, so have to weigh up the pros and cons (but in my heart I really want a natural birth).
Lucinda ? what a story !!
The only, how are you?
Cosmo how horrible ! I completely understand you saying it kills your spirit ? I felt the same. Hope it gets better soon.
Seapie, not long to go now. Do you know if you are having a boy or a girl? It?s all very exciting.
Big hugs to everyone else. Bakewell how are you?

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