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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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Clandy · 13/01/2012 22:40

Just popping in to say congratulations on the scans ladies Smile
Hope you are feeling better Lucinda sounds like an experience!!
Still being sick over here and feeling rather depressed about it now, with dd was stopping/stopped by now still twice a day with this one.

LucindaE · 14/01/2012 19:06

Clandy Nice to hear from you, but so sorry still suffering. How long along are you now? My tenderest bits are back to normal, thank goodness Shock. I hope that Cosmo's UTI is clearing up, and I wish the Hyperemesis would leave everyone now (the way it hangs about, like an unwelcome guest) .
SMA Great news about scan, congrats. I'm with you on prefering a natural birth, but with the induction that went out of the window for me. That tear sounds nasty...
Instructions Horsey Fleurliese Bakewell and Everyone how are you? MOH Thanks for info, effeciently given as always...
Lucinda
xx

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seapie · 14/01/2012 19:14

It's a girl. I learned with my last pregnancy that finding out the sex helped me to think of the baby as a person rather than a parasite that was sucking the life out of me and making me so ill. Once we'd given her a name I found I resented her less. This time round I've read a lot more about HG, so I'm focussing my resentment on the placenta, not the baby :)

LucindaE · 15/01/2012 10:29

Seapie Congratulations on your girl, not long to go, but I bet you're tired of being told so. What a good idea, too...
How is Sarah these days? I hope Everyone is coping in this icy spell...
Lucinda
xx

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theonlyhb2 · 15/01/2012 11:19

thanks for all the support. Going infor the pill option next week. Feel fine about it spesh as been sick in mornings, gone off all food and haven't got out of bed much as so bloody tired! Only 5weeks so just yolk sack there so far. I am hungry but the only thing i fancy is chocolate. Or kfc. I didn't miss this feeling at all!

horseynewmum · 15/01/2012 11:52

theonly hope all goes well for you and you start to feel better afterwards my thoughts are with you during this hard time.

smk we didn't want to know which i think the sonographer was over the moon about as baby wasn't being helpful with measurements. Little bugger lol. I just want it to be healthy unlike its mum.

hope everyone else is ok.

I've got some good news. small but good. I finally can wear my wedding ring without it practically falling off. first time since 11 weeks i've been able to wear it. Also checked my weight and I've put on just under stone off the nearly 2 stones i've lost.
Now waiting for the toilet as my DH has started DIY in our only toilet where I can't get in, without asking if I need the toilet and whats the first thing a pregnant women needs in the morning....................a piss

theonlyhb2 · 15/01/2012 15:51

first thing and then every hour ;)

LucindaE · 16/01/2012 11:12

TheOnly Will be thinking of you, it's very hard.
Horsey Oh good, does that mean you are eating and strange things like that?
Lol, a pee first thing is so much better than puking and peeing first thing...
Lucinda
xx

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horseynewmum · 16/01/2012 11:27

Lucinda I've been eating since 12 weeks but very small amounts at once and very small varity of things too. I've worked out what I can eat which I could count on one hand my diet is awful but midwife happy as i'm eating and as plain fish is one of things I'm eating i'm getting good oils and protein from it. I'm going to look like a fish by end of pregnancy lol. I still get nausea and i do still be sick too but just calmed down and I know what to and what not to eat or smell lol

meebles · 16/01/2012 12:54

Hi all, I've been lurking a bit as I've a) felt awful, and b) our internet connection is sporadic. I'm 12 weeks (scan tomorrow!) and I've been vomiting since the middle of december. I spent a couple of days in hospital after new year being rehydrated, and now I'm on 3 x meds and still feeling nauseous. My lovely GP has signed me off until 18 weeks, saying she hopes I feel better by then, but she's happy to sign me off for the rest of the pregnancy. What did other people do? Did you all take lots of time off?
The thought of trying to work terrifies me - I feel bad enough just sitting on the sofa - but on the other hand i feel like such a slacker.

horseynewmum · 16/01/2012 14:47

Hi meebles If you and doctor dont think your health has not improved after 18 weeks then its probably best you dont return to work. It also depends on your work but remember you have someone inside you to think off.

I'm now 21 weeks and i've been signed off since week 7 and will be till my mat leave as my doctor thinks the stress of me returning to work (my work have been very unhelpful or supportive if anything making the whole experience of HG even more worse then it is) is too much for me and baby to cope with so late on.

If you signed off for pregnancy I wouldn't worry it. I'm enjoying the rest while I can as I'm so exhausted.

Hope this helps put you mind at rest

seapie · 16/01/2012 17:15

meebles I'm a teacher, so I didn't need to be signed off during the summer holidays, but I ony managed a few weeks back in September before being signed off at about 19 weeks, then back to work on a reduced timetable for a few weeks before being signed off for the rest of the pregnancy at 29 weeks. My maternity leave automatically started at 36 weeks and I'm 38 weeks now.

Don't feel bad about taking the time off (easier said than done). After all, I bet you're not having an enjoyable time, so it's not as if you're skiving. I justified it to myself by thinking that I would much prefer to be well and working than feeling sick and laying around at home.

Plus the fact that loads of rest is essential if you are going to cope.....

LucindaE · 17/01/2012 17:00

Family have kept me off PC all day - just dashing on to welcome Meebles. Sorry you have had such a foul time. I hope you find a lot of support here.Don't for an instant try and force yourself back to work, particulalry if your GP doesn't think you're up to it (they're not notorious for keeping people off needlessly). So many women try and force themselves back when they haven't recovered properly. You must put yourself and baby first.
Waves anxiously at all...
Lucinda
xx

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meebles · 18/01/2012 10:34

Thank you all for the reassurance everyone. It's a good point to remember what sort of work - i'm a nurse and it's not just my health and the babys at stake, but if I'm performing poorly then it's an issue of patient safety as well.

I'm having a bit of a dodgy day today, think it was the effort of going out yesterday to the hospital for 12 wk scan. It was good to see the little bean waving though!

MOH100 · 18/01/2012 11:04

meebies oh my goodness, a nurse, you must definitely stay at home till you're properly better. A physical job like that in an environment with so many smells is a no no if you have HG. I had a mainly computer based job and I couldn't go back till after 18 weeks - and that was even on ondansetron which was like a miracle drug for me, I wasn't even vomming any more and the nausea wasn't full time. I tried going back about 3 or 4 times between about 12 and 18 weeks because I thought I was better, but a few hours later I'd be slumped over the keyboard feeling crap again, so it was back to the GP for another sick note and return to the me-shaped indentation in the sofa. It's so true what you say about performance too, I couldn't string two thoughts together so I wasn't even being very productive anyway. You're probably right about the effort of the scan making you ill, also I found that all that pressing down on the abdomen didn't help at all.

horseynewmum · 18/01/2012 13:25

meebies I understand how you feel as I'm in the nursing/caring sector to. (Not going to say more then that as it may pin point who I am for other reason.) My GP says noway I can go back at late stage in to a long hours and physically demanding job as well as a risky situation as well as H&S issue I have/had with work it was an accident waiting to happen with me having to deal with the results. Its not just me anymore its another person who is innocent.
please don't worry about work as you said you are caring for others too and how can you do that when you can't care for yourself

smk84 · 18/01/2012 15:12

Welcome Meebles. Glad your scan went well. Please do take it easy and stay off as long as you need. Hopefully the longer you are on the meds the better the effect they will have. I was off from about 8 to 18 weeks, finally started feeling bit better about 16, and now I am 20 I am back to normal. I do think I have been fortunate to get back to normal as there are plenty of people on here for whom it lasts much longer.
Waves to everyone xx

LucindaE · 18/01/2012 18:50

My goodness, Everyone the thought of doing nursing or teaching when recovering from Hyperemesis Shock . Both are tough jobs when feeling normal...
SMK I am so glad you feel back to normal, that's wonderful! Meebles Good news about scan, and Horsey about weight gain (this must be the only thread where people are pleased about weight gain!).
Waves to all.
Lucinda
xx

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horseynewmum · 18/01/2012 19:06

I know and the best thing is I know I'm going to weight less after pregnancy then before or not far off :o

LucindaE · 19/01/2012 18:15

That is one plus for sure, Horsey.
Seapie must be nearer and nearer your date...How are you now?
I hope everyone is coping, OH's behaving, etc.
Lucinda
xx

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seapie · 20/01/2012 08:40

Hello

Only three days to go now. Had my pre-op appointment yesterday where they found I have a UTI (which probably explains increased nausea in the last few days). Luckily the ondansetron supply should just about hold out until Monday. They've given me metacloprimide and ranatidine to take before the c-section to help prevent nausea and vomiting during the op.

smk84 I'm having an ELCS as I had such a traumatic and long labour last time (3 days, back to back, understaffed maternity unit, failed ventouse then emergency section). My daughter and I were both so bruised and traumatised by the experience that I felt we got off to a very bad start. This time I want to feel more in control and actually be lucid for the first few hours with my new baby - if someone could promise me a natural delivery I'd go for it, but........

Plus, after 9 months with HG of varying severity, it is really good to know that I wont go overdue!

LucindaE · 20/01/2012 10:12

Seapie Smile You've beenr really brave, and not moaned much at all. How often was the puking of late? I do so know what you mean about how a traumatic birth ruins things, it did for me. Here's wishing you all luck and will be thinking of you.
Lucinda
xx

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MOH100 · 20/01/2012 16:06

good luck seapie finish line in sight Smile

horseynewmum · 20/01/2012 17:19

good luck seapie lets us no what its like on the other side

I think I'm relapsing as i've been so tired last few days and being sick quite a bit. Even work up being sick last night. I'm trying not let it get to me as still got a long way to go and wouldn't be ablle to cope going down hill again

Magnumwhite · 20/01/2012 20:45

Good luck Seapie!
30 wks here, still intermittant nausea all day but no vomiting. I think the baby is on an enormous growth spurt - i feel like i should be on a iv glucose drip all the amount of ginger beer i get through. People keep telling me how well i look???????
oh it still feels like such a long to go....

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