Hi Ladies,
I have been reading all of these forums like crazy for the last 4 months, and have spend ££££ on pregnancy and ovulation tests. Just found out TODAY that I'm finally pregnant!
Let me allay some fears for those of you in similar situations:
I have VERY irregular cycles.
Not only does that make pinpointing "ovulation dates" VERY hard, but ovulation tests also didn't seem to work for me.
What I can recommend, is using free app, P Tracker. I have used this to track many of my periods, and instead of relying on when it tells you your ovulation dates are, have a look at what the EARLIEST possible date for you COULD be, as well as the latest.
So for me, it was almost a 3 week window of potential ovulation. So during this 3 weeks, we tried to get pregnant a lot, and it worked.
What I also did was take a pregnancy vitamin for the last 3 months, and also try to have sex in positions that didn't work against gravity ;)
I also, when possible, tried to stay lying flat for at least 15 mins afterwards, if not overnight!
It is really hard to pinpoint ovulation when your periods are irregular. And the frustrating thing, is that almost EVERYTHING you google says "x number of days before your period is due, or x number of days after your period is due). This is a nightmare for us ladies with irregular periods, because you can have NO IDEA when it is due.
So, like I said, take some action to at least pinpoint your ovulation to a couple of weeks, so you don't have to spend each whole month wondering and second guessing.
I used a pregnancy test 10 days after when I believe conception actually occured, and it came back negative (this was about 5 days ago).
Last night, I was so consumed by it (but the stores had closed for the night) that I decided to do a DIY pregnancy test at home with BLEACH. I got a glass jar, tipped about two fingers deep of bleach (lemon bleach actually!) and the same amount of urine, put the lid on and swirled it to mix (don't shake) and it bubbled and got almost an inch of foam on the top. This indicates a positive result. So this morning, I got up early and got an early detection test, and it was POSITIVE!
This is our first child and I'm so excited!
FINALLY! I'm 33, irregular periods, and it took 5 months.
Today is 15 days after unprotected sex, and day 36 of my cycle.
Hope this helps and gives hope to others! Also, up until the test shows positive, really try not to look too deep into early pregnancy symptoms, they are the same as PMS. When the symptoms start to develop, it will show on a pregnancy test at that time. So try not to drive yourself crazy.
Hang in there, I was starting to get verrrrry depressed about it not happening.
Good luck ladies xxx