pertelote re: toddlers in the park, yes, it's hard.
We go to the park at least once a day, there are quite a few near by. I am an expert. Some have more green, but then gates that can be run out of, some have good gates, but then slides that need supervision. One is very nice, but has a view of the merry-go-round, which is also very nice and very cheap, but has gone from being nice entertainment for DS to being a bit stressful as he now recognises that there are so many little cars to sit in that he tries to change car while it is moving.
One gets busy later on, and this is stressful as parents bring toys that then the children fight over.
A couple have water features.
They are nice if there are a few children to play with, but more stressful if they get really busy.
The sand is better for making pies after the rain.
All of them easier with one rather than two, as previously I could just have hauled DS out of danger, but now I often have DD in my arms (what do you do with a baby, when your toddler is in a sand pit?)
DS has started weeing through his night nappies. Any ideas why? I have stopped his bedtime milk, cut down drinks after 4pm, moved him up a nappy size and tried more expensive nappes and pull ups but maybe not all at the same time. You were all very good with the sleep advice. He now gets cornflakes before bed (in case he was hungry) and I wake him up once he has napped for 2 hours during the day. Some good nights now.