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DomesticGoddessInTraining · 09/05/2010 21:09

Welcome back Amber - I suspected you were avoiding political chat . I'm sure someone else was voting Tory you know!

Weather hasn't been anything special here. Nothing remotely approaching a 'lovely day'. Has been generally started off cold and dull and brightening up later or vice versa.

I'm feeling slightly anxious as we kept forgetting to sort out a passport for S. I had in the back of my mind that it was all fine and we could do the check and send service but apparently first passports can take up to 2 years [gulp]. We go on holiday in 3 weeks...

Am going to send it off tomorrow (thankfully know lots of people who can countersign it, another thing I'd forgotten about!) and cross my fingers. If it's not here in 2 weeks I'll be on the phone begging them to sort it out. Please send me good vibes!

Now, I must go as I have no idea where S's birth certificate is either so really need to sort that out. Thankfully we don't need to send our wedding certificate - being in Italian that's ALWAYS a real pita!!!

Sorry, bit me, me, me - I'm feeling slightly frantic.

DomesticGoddessInTraining · 09/05/2010 21:11

Oh, following on from S's kitchen roll incident yesterday. He finished eating a yoghurt today and went straight to the cupboard to get some to wipe his hands and face. Very cute. I have had to change the cupboard it's kept in though - it's usually in the under sink cupboard with cleaning chemicals etc!

DebInAustria · 09/05/2010 21:34

As if it wasn't bad enough not getting an offer on the house flights have been grounded from Munich today , and we fly back to the UK from there next week for our long awaited holiday. - please blow the ash away for me

abdnhiker · 09/05/2010 21:44

oh Deb, how crap! You don't need this. Fingers crossed that this will be blown over before you need to travel. What day do you fly?

EddieIzzardismyhero · 09/05/2010 21:47

Essie, lol at the pg pic!

DG, an Italian wedding certificate? How exotic! I thought our Australian one was fancy enough !

Deb, gutted for you on both counts .

DebInAustria · 09/05/2010 21:58

fingers crossed for you Goddess with your passport.

Well dh is supposed to be flying out on Sunday 16th from Salzburg for a meeting in London and returning to Munich on Tuesday. Then we all fly out from Munich on Thursday 20th. My worst case scenario is that he manages to get his flight but is then stuck in the UK and we'll be stuck here with no holiday.The best scenario is that we're all stuck in the UK!!!Or what about if he gets stuck in the UK but then we can fly out, I would have to do the 3 hours to Munich (car, train journey with 3 changes) on my own with the 3 boys, buggy and luggage!And then the flight!!! AARGH, it won't happen will it??????

SpiderWilliam · 09/05/2010 22:01

DGT the passport should be ok. Had a similar panic when I did P's, but I posted it on a Monday and I think it was back by the Thursday. Certainly less than a week. That was in Nov tho so probably a quieter time for the passport office.

DomesticGoddessInTraining · 09/05/2010 22:04

Oh Deb, fingers crossed for your flight!

Eddie yep, we got married in Italy. How come you got married in Oz? My marriage certificate is a pain in the ass tbh, it's in Italian and looks like something a pre schooler could run up. Also, for some reason the Registrar was pissed at the UK Government for some reason so refused to issue a bi-lingual certificate so whenever I need to provide my wedding cerificate I need to get a certified translated copy. Changing my name was loads of fun...

EddieIzzardismyhero · 09/05/2010 22:20

What a pain! Is your dh Italian or was it just romantic?

We got married in Oz cos we couldn't bear the hassle of a huge wedding here and (you'll be surprised to learn!) MIL was being a MAJOR PITA! We could only afford a small wedding here (max 60 people) and she presented us with a list of 40 of her friends we had to invite! It went downhill from there . . . .

DomesticGoddessInTraining · 09/05/2010 22:58

Going abroad was pretty much the only way we could have a small wedding too!

SpiderWilliam · 10/05/2010 07:35

Yay! Austrian airports are re-opening.

Happy Monday everyone. Currently on the sofa in my pjs trying to find some motivation. First job: change a nappy.

SpiderWilliam · 10/05/2010 09:50

Feeling more virtuous now. I have:

changed the nappy
dressed Peter
dusted and polished our bedroom
emptied the bins and found £5!
cleaned the windows in our bedroom
put some washing on
folded some washing
emptied the dishwasher
got dressed

who says the life of a SAHM isn't exciting.

Trying to work out what to do for the rest of the day now.

PiggyPenguin · 10/05/2010 10:26

Welcome back Amber, fingers crossed the weather behaves for you deb

I wish we had gone abroad to get married. My mil (usually very nice) threw a complete guilt-trip at the suggestion however. Dh even got the old 'what would your (deceased) father say if he knew' speel. It was a nice day and it was lovely to have our family around but I do wish sometimes we had been stronger. And yes, she did insist on inviting some of her friends.

I went out for a 'glass' of wine last night with some friends I met when ds1 was a newborn (so 9 yrs ago). We ended up drinking about 6 bottles of wine and eating desserts in a deserted restaurant I (surprisingly) feel fine this morning, if a bit tired, but I had to take my friends kids to school because she was confined to the toilet bowl!

EssieAmma · 10/05/2010 10:33

You achieved more than I did this morning (although I did come to work via tesco which was v. quiet and I bought the smallest pair of crocs (or 'crocs' really) in the world. Size 4-5!

I am now going to gladden your hearts and make you smile with a tale of my incompetent husband. He has truly excelled himself. I dedicate this post to Rolf.

Before I begin - he's a v. clever man (top 5 in Oxford University in his year in law) which doesn't = common sense, obv; he's kind and helpful but somewhat gormless.

Yesterday we were playing in the garden, the three of us. DH suddenly piped up 'look, I've got a key in my pocket! What do you think it is?' I ignored him, as you do, toddler-style. 'Yes dear. No, it's not my key, my key is on its keyring.' In fact, I thought it was one of his own keys and he was being silly.
Turns out not silly, but amazingly, incomprehensibly stupid stupid STUPID.
He went on the train to London at 6.45, the train which gets in to Euston beyond midnight, but he figured it was easier than getting up at 4am to get the 4.45 train from here. True. He actually caught an earlier train (tight connection) at Crewe and arrived at Euston at 11, and so I went to sleep here in my comfortable bed.
12.16, the phone rang, but I was asleep and failed to answer it; I then realised what was going on and called him on his house phone, panicking that something bad had happened. No answer. Panicking even more I tried his mobile, but no answer. Imagining a hostage situation/last phonecall before the terrorists behead him type thing, I panicked and started crying. My mobile rang - it was DH, in a bad mood, locked out of his own house in London, wanting to know who had spare keys. Yes indeed, the key he was playing with in the garden was his own house key. (He had the key for the bolt lock, but not for the latch.)
OK, so answer to the above: spare key = 1 x handyman who DH had a row with on Friday (and anyway said handyman had claimed he had lost our key - that's another story). Friends S&K, who were...staying in a cottage in Snowdonia and had spent the day with us. Duh. Besides, it was midnight.
So I told DH to try next door - nothing doing, and anyway it was really too late to call on anyone. (Fair enough.) He couldn't break in because he had to get to Exeter crack of dawn the next day and couldn't sort out someone to fix a broken window; plus, he'd rowed with the handyman who lives down the road. I suggested he opened the bolt, then got a strong piece of plastic e.g. credit card and slipped the latch, burglar style. He told me to stop being stupid, nobody does that, and started wailing about only having a pair of pants in his bag (true) and having to sleep in chambers.
In the end, I suggested trying to get a locksmith, and he managed it; one came out around 1am, charged £200 (but wouldn't you?) and basically he got a strong piece of plastic (credit card) and slipped the lock, burglar style...indeed. (At that time of night DH could have got an actual burglar and that would have been free.)

AAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

PiggyPenguin · 10/05/2010 10:42

Fantastic Essie! What a muppet. It reminds me of the time dh went abroad and took both sets of car keys with him. I bet locksmiths rub their hands at those late-night phone calls.

EssieAmma · 10/05/2010 11:43

I know, he's like a toddler.
My friend came to see me today - his wife had their second baby last Monday (first one, a girl, born same day as Iestyn). The little boy was 10lb 7 Born naturally without epidural (not her choice...).
Iestyn wasn't that big until he was 6 months. I'm not even joking.

EddieIzzardismyhero · 10/05/2010 12:30

spider, I'm seriously impressed by your productive morning! Shouldn't you be taking it easy though?!

Essie, I had to laugh at your tale - my dad always used to say that common sense and intelligence were distant relations in many heads !

And ouch at the baby ! That made my eyes water .

SpiderWilliam · 10/05/2010 12:33

Let's get into useless husbands with key stories. I have two.

One Easter we were going to PILs. I was meeting DH at kings x for the train. He had to pop home then get the train into c London. He left the house with the front dope wide open. The neighbours spotted it after about 24 hours locked up. When questioned DH's excuse was that he was in a hurry for the train. Like you compromise on door shutting when you are in a hurry.

Secondly, we were on holiday in Capri. We got back to my flat in London and DH to announced that he could not find his keys for his place in Nottingham. Went through all the bags, nothing. I made him call the hotel in Capri, and they had been found under the bed. I remembered seeing a DHL sign in the main square in Capri (remember it's a small island), so we got the keys couriered home. Of course DH didn't have a spare set with anyone, so he was locked out until his keys came back.

A third time: I was helping DH move out of his house share. Car fully loaded. Then he can't find his keys. We empty everything out of the car only for DH to fumble in his pocket and find they were there all along. Apparently they were in the left hand pocket not the right.

SpiderWilliam · 10/05/2010 12:36

Let's get into useless husbands with keys stories. I have three.

One Easter we were going to PILs. I was meeting DH at kings x for the train. He had to pop home then get the train into c London. He left the house with the front door wide open. The neighbours spotted it after about 24 hours and locked up. When questioned DH's excuse was that he was in a hurry for the train. Like you compromise on door shutting when you are in a hurry.

Secondly, we were on holiday in Capri. We got back to my flat in London and DH to announced that he could not find his keys for his place in Nottingham. Went through all the bags, nothing. I made him call the hotel in Capri, and they had been found under the bed. I remembered seeing a DHL sign in the main square in Capri (remember it's a small island), so we got the keys couriered home. Of course DH didn't have a spare set with anyone, so he was locked out until his keys came back.

A third time: I was helping DH move out of his house share. Car fully loaded. Then he can't find his keys. We empty everything out of the car only for DH to fumble in his pocket and find they were there all along. Apparently they were in the left hand pocket not the right.

EddieIzzardismyhero · 10/05/2010 12:40

Ohmigod at unloading the whole car and finding them in his other pocket!!!!

SpiderWilliam · 10/05/2010 12:58

Sorry about the double post.

Agree that intelligence and common sense are not one and the same thing. Disturbingly DH's degree is in Engineering. He used to work for Corus on their blast furnace (kind of a dangerous environment), but all his attempts at DIY are disastrous. He is very clever though.

PiggyPenguin · 10/05/2010 13:41

The key in the other pocket story reminded me of the time my mum lost her engeagement ring. She was devestated and we all turned the house up side down looking for it. After my dad had been through the dustbin by hand and pulled up the floorboards in the bedroom she realised she had put it on her other hand. We still wind her up about it.

DebInAustria · 10/05/2010 13:44

Love all these stories!!

Just heard that the couple still intend to make an offer on our house , but they are still finalising their house sale and sorting out some finances.So at least we know!

Off out to parents afternoon/evening, baked 2 batches of biscuits for the buffet, but don't think I've done half as much today as Spider did in the 1st half of the morning!

DebInAustria · 10/05/2010 13:48

lol Sybil!!

abdnhiker · 10/05/2010 14:11

Deb that sounds positive - fingers crossed!!!!