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Sept 08: last year they were cute little bundles that smelt of milk and vanilla, but now they've been replaced with a babyzilla!

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 07/01/2010 14:07

A new thread for us as the last one was running low.

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DebiTheScot · 07/01/2010 22:46

When I think about it he acually has loads of words. Most common though is a noise like eh or uh that he uses whenever he wants something or wants up or doesn't know a word.
Stuck is the newest word I think. And hat, he's fascinated with anyone with a hat on.

Sorry I'll shut up now.

Meglet · 07/01/2010 23:07

DD has a short list:

mamamamama
Duck
Nu-nu (her version of the guinea pigs name)
Nana (banana)
She also sort of says DS's name

Thats it. She's concentrating on practising her base jumping TBH, words aren't half as much fun. She just hollers and points at things most of the time.

Hopefully · 08/01/2010 07:25

LOL at base jumping baby

Had a bit of red blood last night, just waiting to see whether more comes or not. Guess I'll phone doc's later, but there's nothing really to do at this stage - too early even for a scan to see if all OK I suppose . Was all going a bit too easily I suppose. I imagine if it all goes wrong now it'll just be like a heavy period?

StarlightMcKenzie · 08/01/2010 08:11

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Hopefully · 08/01/2010 08:21

No pain at all, but also no more bleeding as yet, so vaguely keeping fingers crossed. I'll see how it goes today. Typical that DP went back to work today after 2 snow days!

DebiTheScot · 08/01/2010 09:32

fingers crossed and thinking of you Hopefully.

digitalgirl · 08/01/2010 12:04

Hope it's nothing hopefully

Pacita · 08/01/2010 12:26

Hello ladies, back from Spain since last week, but too disorganised manic to sit down and post. It's lovely to read you all again. I've done a thorough catch up!

Hopefully, you must be the one with the biggest news. Many congratulations! Let's hope this bit of bleeding is nothing serious. It is quite common to spot in early pregnancy. My fingers are crossed.

Carriebo, Meglet, sorry for your losses. It is awful to see people go before their time.

Digital, I also think your post was way too hard on yourself. I can't tell you how much I've eaten my own self-righteous pre-toddlerdom words! Biscuit bribing is high on the list of tricks, as is the use of a dummy, which I can't stand.

As to talking, there is an enormous amount of babble, some of it very articulate sounding, but we cannot make out a single word. We think this may be due to the multiple languages he is exposed to (I speak to him in Spanish, his dad in Greek, and nursery in English). And even though we are persisting with our one person, one language method, I am feeling slightly guilty. He does understand everything, though, both in Spanish and Greek.... Hold on, and now that I think about it, he says Bye bye!!! (or rather bah bah) in English. While waving his hand. This must be from nursery.

He started walking exactly two days ago. After steady refusals to walk, he decided to cross the room from end to end, just like that. He still prefers crawling, but it looks like his walking shoes will not go to waste

becaroo · 08/01/2010 13:01

We get;
There
and
yeah
also:
mummeee
dada
and
bub bub (which I think means brother!)

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 08/01/2010 13:19

lol at base jumping, that really made me giggle - and struck a chord!

If people are looking for a great book for their lo's I can really recommend this. There aren't any words, but there are loads of pictures detailing day to day things and the illustrations are detailed so there are loads of things to describe. This book gets read umpteenth times a day

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Hopefully · 08/01/2010 15:10

Still spotting, so I suppose it's not great. very mild stomach ache now too . in a way I wish it would just happen so it was all over, but am still holding on to pathetic glimmer of hope anyway.

StarlightMcKenzie · 08/01/2010 16:24

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mamamuffin · 08/01/2010 17:24

Hopefully I remember implantation cramps and bleeds so fingers crossed thats what it is.

Lol "base jumping" I understand tottally.

What does bookmark mean??

The snow is still awful here, school closed again.

Have a good weekend everyone.

I am off to Franky and bennies now with dh and dc to eat eat and eat (diet did not last long ) I wont be ordering falefels though .

ninja · 08/01/2010 18:08

thinking of you hopefully

bookmarking means once you write on it this thread is on your 'I'm on' list so it's quicker to find it again.

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CarrieBo · 08/01/2010 19:53

Evening!
hopefully I really hope the bleeding is nothing more than your little one implanting deep and well

I've just seen on fb that debithescot is about to move house - have I missed the update on that? Is it the same gorgeous house you're moving to or did you lose that one? I feel so out of touch!

The big dilema here has nothing to do with our babies, but perhaps you could help anyway? DD qualifies for her 15 hours free pre-school care this september. She's never been in any sort of childcare, so we're starting from scratch. This week we've viewed a nursery class in a school, a private nursery, and a playgroup. We were most impressed with the playgroup, but its a 20-30 min walk from home, which is 2 hours walking a day if we walk both ways (and if dd is walking coz she's a dawdler). The nursery class and private nursery are spitting distance from the house. We were least impressed with the nursery, but that would have more kids in that she would be going to school with (the 'proper' playgroup for her school is right on the other side of the catchment, miles away, and oversubscribed, so not an option).

We really don't know which one to go for. All have places, and all have flexible times so she could do whatever times suit me. Does anyone have ideas of what we should look for in a place. We realised that we don't even know what to expect them to do at playgroup, so don't know if it was a 'good' one or not!

Sorry, another waffly post, must be the day for it!

becaroo · 08/01/2010 20:05

hopefully Sorry I missed your post earlier....I hope its an implantation bleed, but if not at this stage the pain will get a bit worse - cramping really - and then you will lose a clot or two and then period like bleeding for 7-10 days.

Keeping my fingers crossed though (I bled with ds1 so there is always hope x)

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CarrieBo · 08/01/2010 20:27

Oh I wish I'd asked before we did the visits this week! I didn't think to ask about singing time, and she'd love that, but then we'll keep going to our toddler music group so maybe it doesn't matter.

All three options have spaces for September.

Dd is a bit of geek (I mean that to be the fondest of terms). She loves to learn and is trying so hard to read, and knows most of her letters. The thing that put me off the private nursery was what we perceived to be the lack of structure (or routine ) and the 'learn through play' as in learn entirely through play. I want them to say to her that its snack/story/singing time coz they'll teach her things that she doesn't know to ask for iyswim.

I also don't think she'd do best in a group where all the ages are mixed up, I think she'd benefit from age appropriate care. But then I think she's going to get that for years at school, so perhaps a bit of free play, learning social skills (and learning to be independent of me) is a good stepping stone to school where there'll be plenty of the formal stuff?

The problem with the nursery class nearest our house is that its incorporated in with the foundation stage of the school, its very much a case of joining the school, but that isn't the school we want her to go to, and it would be a bit weird taking her out after 4 terms when she'd qualify for the school we want as she'd already be integrated into the reception class of that school.

So confused.

Apologies for hijacking thread! I've been on the pre-school boards and got scared by the discussions there!

StarlightMcKenzie · 08/01/2010 20:38

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CarrieBo · 08/01/2010 20:40

mama which frankie and bennies do you guys go to? We must meet up soon, i can't believe our babies haven't met yet! How's the rib?

DebiTheScot · 08/01/2010 20:48

Hi Carrie I have been meaning to facebok you but keep forgetting.
Yes we are moving We exchanged today and I would be very very surprised if they pulled out now. Its a young couple of excited 1st time buyers who are desperate to move in, really want to live in this street (she lived opposite as a housemate a couple of years ago and didn't want to move out but had to) and couldn't afford to pull out.

We very almost lost that house but thankfully didn't. Went to see it again just before Christmas with the inlaws and still like it so looking forward to getting in (and can't wait to get to go to Ikea!)

We move on Wed 20th and I can't wait. Now just have millions of things to do. I need a Hopefully style spreadsheet!

Is playschool the same as what we call pre-school? I assume it is. For ds1's pre-schl place I left it so long I ended up with no choice as everywhere was full. I personally would go for a close one as ours is about a 20min walk away and I always end up driving (it'll only be a 5 min walk from new house). Don't know what advice to give other than they do a lot less there than I expected them to and I have an issue with it becoming what seems like childcare rather than preparing for school. They pretty much just play although the key worker he had last term was good at trying to get him to do letters and numbers as she thought he was ready for it and was asking about them. If you hadn't said the nursery one was your least favourite I'd have said go for that but I don't know.

CarrieBo · 08/01/2010 20:50

Thank you starlight

DebiTheScot · 08/01/2010 21:25

I hadn't seen starlight's comments before I posted. I 2nd what she said about communication. The communication at ds1's is rubbish and it drives me mad.
I hadn't thought about the routine for snack time etc but agree with her too. I think it's important they sit down to eat.

I'm also very impressed that she knows most of her letters! Well done her.

If she won't go to the school the nursery is atached to I probably wouldn't go for for that 1 unless it was really good.

Another thing worth remembering is that in reception (and even year 1 I think a bit) they do learning through play. I was surprised to find out how most of it is pupil iniciated(sp?) rather than teacher directed.

CarrieBo · 08/01/2010 21:36

debi that's brilliant that you're moving, and that you've still got the house you love as I know there was a lot of interest in it, how great that they waited for you to get another buyer.

It's interesting that you said pre-school do less than you expected, that was exactly my impression on looking round. Dd is already doing her letters and numbers at 2 1/2, she wants a combination of teaching and a really good role play/home corner for making endless cups of tea for her toys!