Sounds like you are doing brilliantly Queen, calm, firm & consistent will get you there. I promise
dizzy Bless DD1 and her haircut - i have NO idea what to do with DD1's (as you have seen . Her friend has a beautifully cute bob with fringe, but with DD1's triple crown and fluffy bits round her face, i fear this is a look she will not carry off well . As for DD2, i think she will follow your DD2
poppy sounds like you are more positive - i think if you can find a fab CM (and i know they are few and far between) this may be a godsend. GOod to hear BIL is battling on against his problems
We had a lovely afernoon, Mamma Mia watched twice , with a number of reruns of the 'slipper' (flipper) scene requested by the 3 year olds - very cute. We had a glass of wine and put the worlds to rights. Got home v late for the DD's and bless them they both went to bed brilliantly after being transported home in their pj's. dizz you will be glad to hear we didn;t put DD1 to sleep in a draughty porch