Elkie just an idea. Why don't you write down everything to do with the situation from your perspective, chronologically, including who you have spoken to, which people were happy to discharge and when and where you feel you are 'at' now. Type it all up and add a covering letter politely but firmly saying you feel you are being harrassed unnecessarily and would like clarification of exactly why they feel the need to refer at this point as you feel the situation has improved to the point that a referral is no longer necessary. You could either send it directly to your GP if you want to be direct or to the Practice Manager (or call them and double check who deals with complaints at your Doctor's surgery). I think its important that you are able to state your case calmly, firmly and clearly and that they understand that they should back off as there interference is neither wanted nor necessary. I don't know about you, but I am hopeless at remaining calm and unemotional in these situations so find writing a letter puts me back in control.
I think a lot of baby/children services are being a bit gung ho in the light of recent news stories and there is a lot of arse back covering going on. You don't have to get caught up in it though and have the right to complain if you feel you are being unfairly treated or harrassed.
This might be useful if you do decide to go ahead and officially complain about your GP.
Tink had a quick look at your other thread. I think you can probably move on to giving her a bit of whatever you and the rest of the family are eating now. If you aren't comfortable with baby led weaning you could still, mash or puree the food and spoon feed. Basically you just need to watch the salt levels so try to use lower salt or no salt stock cubes if you are making things yourself and avoid giving her too much pre-processed stuff, bread also has quite a lot of salt in it so its recommended that babies don't eat more than one slice a day. I would try giving her more finger food, mainly because they enjoy it and it keeps them occupied for a while when you are busy in the kitchen.
Dd currently has, spoon fed porridge cooked with fruit in in the morning after her first bf (I don't have time for her to make a mess with it herself in the mornings). Alternatively you could buy some ready made baby porridge if you don't have time to cook it yourself. She then has a bf mid morning and for lunch she has either some salady type stuff and fruit like cucumber sticks, avocado, pear, banana, mango, melon and a yoghurt (I buy yeo valley little yeos as she seems ok with these) or I make her a little sandwich with a tiny amount of cheddar in one slice of bread folded over, squashed down and then cut into strips. She has also had cheese on toast fingers and beans on toast (whole earth baked beans or branston healthy beans as they have lower salt). She has another 2 bfs early and late afteroon, then in the evening she has whatever we have and makes a huuuuuge mess! So pasta and sauce, risotto, cooked dinner, vegetable stew etc and sometimes fruit or yoghurt for pudding depending on what she had a lunch time. She then rounds the day of with a bf before bed.
If she hasn't had a lot of finger food you could start her off with soft stuff like banana or ripe pear, cucumber, avocado as they are easy to mush up in their mouths and you can cut them into manageable strips for them to hold. The strips are best made about twice the height of her hand so that she can grip it and still have plenty sticking out to munch at. The great thing about feeding them this stuff is that they can do it themselves and it doesn't need cooking, just cutting up. Its great entertainment for them, they love playing with all the textures and chasing food around the high chair table and it helps to develop their manual dexterity and pincer grip etc.
Hope that helps a bit.