A highly pregnant friend of mine also had to make the decision, and had it in the end. Easy for me to say now, but I think I'd probably have gone for it.
I actually booked a jab for R on Monday. Called up, wanting to book it, so they said at this stage only "at risk" children. I then said that, as he gets bronchiolitis every time he gets even just a bad cold, I do consider him at risk. The fact that he's had to use various ventilators over the last year is also on record, so even though not asthma, they've agreed. It's a tough call this as there are no definite rights or wrongs, but in our situation I believe this is the safer approach. Not sure if I'd bother with myself at this stage.
Now in New Forest, and it's so beautiful - have seen loads of ponies (obv), huge pigs and some deer. A little rabbit was sitting on the patio this morning.
Re Sandy Balls so far - really lovely lodge, so warm and comfortable. R however didn't sleep much last night, don't know why! So we're a little shattered. I sent dh to spa for a surprise massage - the poor man looked terrified when he left here! He needs the rest though, it would do him good.