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October 2007- These Little Piggies started throwing tantrums

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FloriaTosca · 02/09/2009 07:47

The lastest thread for the fabulous women who were due their babies in the October of the Chinese year of the pig and who now have terrible tantrums and delightful cuddles in equal measure from their almost 2 year olds. New and old members welcome to drop in for a chat anytime....

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theladyevenstar · 22/01/2010 11:57

how is £4600 quite a few months rent?? my rent is £349 PER WEEK.

i was nominated for the mn xmas appeal, and i never recieved anything as it goes.

on bounty yes when things are tight i get a loan as do many people on there and i pay it back, £30 here and there.

as for xmas pressies, i bought them all second hand bar one phone for karl.

a few times i said "i am selling this would anyone be interested" i never pressured anyone.

Saying in a conversation "DP will take me anywhere if you want to meet up we can" is not pressure either....

at the end of the day, i do have other things in my life to deal with and yes on the odd occassion and it has been odd that i pop back here, i blurt it all out.

as for karls school since being at the new one he has had no problems at all, you are talking about 12m ago.

If you did not want to talk to me on msn you could have easily blocked me its not difficult, and tbh i have not been on msn for a while talking to anyone actually i have spoken to one person and she is not from here.

and actually it was not nc who sent a text it was me, i sent the first and the last text. and she herself will tell you that.

when i talk about things that are happening it is not for sympathy it is to get it off my chest.

i am aware that others have problems. and i do sympathise with them.

i never said everyone was against me and that is a rather silly thing to say.

i have seen many threads where they are all "me,me,me" but apparently if i do that then thats asking for sympathy.

i only said what i did about what is going on in my life to explain why i have not been talking much about anything.

i shall hide this thread now and leave you to it.

muppetgirl · 22/01/2010 12:28

Don't you think 3 months (and 1 week) is quite a few months to be behind?

...not addressing the 'taking someone's money + CD's and not giving back either?' point then?

I would suggest you leave us to it.

alicet · 22/01/2010 13:19

TLES tbh I was about to come on and post exactly what Muppet said in her post of 10.13 so no need to put my blood pressure up by repeating it. If there had ever been a little bit of give rather thn all take take take and woe is me from you then you may well have found a bit more sympathy and support, or even a couple of ladies on this thread prepared to stick up for you. Perhaps the fact that noone has should be taken seriously by you and you should think about how you come accross online - if you really are as genuine as you say then you clearly need to look at how you come accross as that is not what is being perceived!

Anyway onwards and upwards...

Dal pleased fil was sent home and it wasn't anything serious. Fingers crossed he continues to improve.

LLL pmsl at Ben's farting and 'pardon me'!!!

Sorry ladies skim read between a couple of jobs I am trying to sort - will try and catch up a bit more properly next time

alicet · 22/01/2010 14:31

Have started a new thread over here...

Think this thread has become somewhat poisoned of late which is a shame. Clearly there may be some things people want to get of their chests but thought it might be nice to have a new thread for those who don't.

This is in no way a dig at those who have spoken out (I am one of them!) but I'm also conscious that some of you have deliberately stayed out of it and that it might be nice to be able to keep the day to day chat away from this argument.

TLES obviously you are free to post whereever you like but on the new thread we will not be responding to any posts relating to this disagreement (speaking for myself anyway but sure others will share the sentiment)

alicet · 22/01/2010 14:32

Meant to say in the last post that this thread is now free for those who still have grievances to be able to speak out without wanting to upset others on the thread who hve chosen to stay out of it.

Hope noone is offended that I hve done this either - nota dig to anyone just an attempt to separate the normal happy supportive atmosphere of this thread from the current argument

NeedCoffee · 22/01/2010 20:14

Wow, not much more to add to this thread tbh.
LES-A lot of what you say does not add up but I really don't have the energy to nit pick at every single thing or I would be here all day and I can't really be bothered to try and justify myself over things that you've said.

herjazz · 22/01/2010 22:13

oh wondered why fb group closed. Understand now

Les yr coming across kind of prickly.
Sorry you are having a tough time. I hope you can find some sort of control / order / priority in yr life and find some balance / harmony / improvement. I believe we have to seize / salvage whatever bollocks life throws at us and take some responsibility over it. I hope you can get some help in rl to do this. Citizens Advice / counselling maybe?

Hope that doesn't sound patronising. Isn't meant to. I really, truly do not want to be drawn into a bunfight and like you have lots of stuff going on in my own life also to not have the time / energy / inclination to unpick this further. Wishing you all the best

theladyevenstar · 22/01/2010 22:49

the facebook group has not been closed!!

theladyevenstar · 22/01/2010 22:52

The group on facebook cannot be closed unless i close it, or leave and i am not going to close it, i will appoint one of you as group admin and then i will leave it.

Dalrymps · 22/01/2010 22:58

It doesn't matter les, just close it. There's a new group now anyway.

NeedCoffee · 22/01/2010 23:07

Why send out messages saying the group is closing then

theladyevenstar · 22/01/2010 23:43

NC, by accident. I am only human and do make mistakes/errors in what i do.

Nice there is a new group and i guess i am not invited?

oh hum

theladyevenstar · 22/01/2010 23:44

and for the record i have no idea how to close the group anyway.

alicet · 23/01/2010 07:37

TLES you seem to have a lot of accidents / messages not delivered / parcels not delivered etc etc. You are a very unlucky person it seems so if I were you i would not be

  1. wasting my money on lottery tickets as the odds would be much lower with you
  2. ever get in plane as it would surely crash
  3. hey probably crossing the road is also iffy!

I would also be getting in touch with my internet service provider, mobile phone company and local post office to tell them they are providing the most shoddy service ever and you want it to improve now.

Or.... (and this might be a novelty) tke some responsiblity for what happens in your life. Admit it when you f*ck up / forget to post parcel / don't have time to reply to texts etc etc. You might even find people like and respect you more for it

WhiteWineAndJaffaCakes · 23/01/2010 08:20

I have managed to resist getting sucked into this so far but I have to say that's priceless. How on earth do you 'accidently' write and send a facebook message? If you could let me know where I can get my hands on a computer that types on its own, I would love to use it at work, it could write all my reports for me.

NeedCoffee · 23/01/2010 10:01

Why do you keep lying?!
You have closed the group.

muppetgirl · 23/01/2010 10:02

am just laughing now.....!

inzidoodle · 23/01/2010 10:25

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

NeedCoffee · 23/01/2010 10:33

Inzi-LOL it looks like I have been deleted from it then.

theladyevenstar · 23/01/2010 11:01

I have not closed the group or deleted anyone. i have no idea how to close the group, and tbh i am not really bothered.

for the record, i do not do the lottery anyway i see it as a waste of money, have not been on a plane in 13 years and have no intention of doing so either, and as i always cross at crossings i am pretty sure i am safe.

I never said i didn't sent the message, i said i have not closed the group because i have no idea how to. i wish i did but i don't.

i did post the gift, i already said i had other things going on in my life that were taking my time up.

as for contacting the internet provider i am using a payg dongle until the 26th when my internet is reconnected. so there really is no point contacting anyone, it is a dreadful connection but at least i can get online.

I find it very hard to believe that NONE of you have ever had a parcel/letter go misssing in the post, you must be the only people i have ever known not to. oh to be so perfect and live in a perfect world.

muppetgirl · 23/01/2010 11:26

still not addressing the the taking someone's money + cd's and not giving back either and ignoring emails asking for both back...

and is 3 months (and 1 week) still not a few months behind in the rent???

You address the nitty gritty but the important.

theladyevenstar · 23/01/2010 12:38

if the person whose money i have contacts me i will happily send it back right now. plus the money for cds. have not ignored any emails fgs.

and yes months is a few months. but thats irrelevant

muppetgirl · 23/01/2010 13:38

If you are happy to refund and and send back the CD's to the person who should have them -why have you not done so before? You have just admitted that you have the CD's as you can send them back sp why have you not completed your part of the deal? Why should they have to repeatedly contact you?

You know who the CD's belong too. Send them back asap.

theladyevenstar · 23/01/2010 16:30

i actually said i will send the money for the cds, not that i have them.

i am hiding this thread and will not reply to anything else on it as i will no longer see it.

if the lady who i owe money to for the cd's and postage cat's me her pp address i will pay them back today.

muppetgirl · 23/01/2010 19:31

again nit picking but ignoring the bigger picture...

You took someone's money and CD's, promised to copy something onto the CD's and send them back using the money for postage given to you.

You didn't do this, you kept the money and the CD's and ignored emails asking where they were. This was over a year ago...

I assume you are accepting responsibility as you have said you will send the money and money to replace the CD's as why would you do this if it had nothing to do with you.

Think about it, why would someone send you money/CD's and not try to contact you when they don't recieve the copied CD's back. I believe they did and I believe you ignored them and I believe you kept the money and sold/used/gave away the CD's.