Oh Gin. How bloody awful for you to have to go through that today but there are a lot of positives in there. He is in panic mode as well as mental mode. He knows that the DTs are strong, intelligent, forthright young men who will have opened up to the counsellor. He is rightly afraid of what her report will say and yes he's crying unfair bias but come on, why would a counsellor be biased? It's knee jerk panic reaction and it will be spotted a mile off. And cafcass? Yes, they make or break these cases but I know his track record with them and it will be well recorded. He will not come across as a well, stable, adjusted man here. And jumping up and down interrupting a judge? I mean know your audience nob jockey. The reports will not go in his favour. You know I'm omniscient. He hasn't got a cat in hell's chance.
The police thing is worrying but you've had to call them before with the school incident. That means he is already known. And as soon as the ruling is made in 6 weeks you'll have the weight of the law behind you. If he tries anything- and my gut reaction is it will be to corner the DTs not you- then he's in breach of a court order and in serious trouble.
I can't predict what will happen categorically but realistically with his history (not just with you but with cafcass, with the school, in front of the judge), it's not going well is it? If he'd turned up and acted like a normal person then I'd be worried but Nobbo McNobJockey turned up as predicted.
One thing I will say is, you know I had a friend in a similar situation, her online musings/rantings were used by her xdp and printed in the cafcass reports. So, be careful what you write on here. Facts fine, no namecalling, no casting aspersions. Us? We can say what we want about the wankoid titface.
What's the legal situation atm? Is he allowed near the DTs? Is there a ruling in effect to prevent him approaching them?