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hongkongzoe · 09/07/2009 21:31

...here we go ladies, right I'm off to catch up!

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stripeywoollenhat · 22/07/2009 21:52

night all. tea then bed here

elkiedee · 22/07/2009 23:11

Oops sounds like I've missed everyone again.

Took Conor to meet dp's mum for the first time today, also Danny's first time in a wee while. The venue was a Morrisons cafe in Kings Lynn, not recommended but dp's aunt could drive and park there easily and it's also very near the train station. Conor was great at meeting his grandmother, lots of cooing and gurgling and smiling, pretending to be a perfect model baby when he was taken to chat to her.

We're quite worried though, she's 78 and has some sort of cancerous lump, they don't think she'll survive an op. I said to dp's aunt that we should do this again before I return to work, ie October, and she clearly doesn't think her sister will be around that long .

Sorry to hear about more people not feeling well, hope all make a quick recovery.

missjackson · 22/07/2009 23:17

Just thought I would check the thread before going to bed....and find you've had four pages of chat! I can't tell you how much I wish I had sat at my computer with my glass of wine and joined in, rather than attempting to be sociable with OH's friend who is drunk after a day at the show. He is currently arguing with me about the benefits of breastfeeding; can you believe it? God he's tedious.

On that note I am bailing out and going to up to co-sleep with my gorgeous boy (oh yes, OH's friend has already told me off for the co-sleeping) .

Will catch up tomorrow!

treedelivery · 22/07/2009 23:43

offer him a coffee [and squirt bm directly into the mug?]

Nah - it would be a waste.

Night all!

SparkleandShine · 23/07/2009 07:07

morning all - have had to skip the last 7 pages as have been having to work as my lovely saturday girl is off sick - headaches and numbness in her leg. Shes 17 and has been working the summer for us. Yesterday her mum took her to a&e and we found out she has a brain t umour. op is today.

SparkleandShine · 23/07/2009 07:10

i should also say she is family so I've known her all her life

hongkongzoe · 23/07/2009 07:57

Oh Sparkle that's terrible news. I hope the op goes well today, 17 seems so young to have to go through something like that...lots of positive vibes being sent your way.

Elkie That's also very sad news about DC's Grandmother. Do you think you'll be able to squeeze in another visit over the summer or go and stay or something? Its so sad to think of children not knowing thier parent's parents iyswim, they can be such a big part of who we, and they are. Glad C was a model baby for his grandmother anyway, I think they sense when to be good.

We are going to brave the natural history museum today. U haven't been since I was a child and am very excited! There is a butterfly exhibition at the moment where they have recreated a rain forest full of tropical butterflies so we are going to see that and have a picnic...although its not really looking like top picnic weather at the moment!

DS is being neglected jumperooing...have a good day y'all

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hongkongzoe · 23/07/2009 07:58

oh and missj grrrrrrr at daft drunk man and his daft drunk man opinions!

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PatTheHammer · 23/07/2009 08:48

Oh, sparkle how terrible for the poor girl and her family and you guys . Hope the op is a success, thinking of you.

HKZ enjoy the natural history museum. I went last year with DH and I remembered how it is one of my very favourite places in the world (sad scientist in me trying to get out......get back in you nerd).

Elkie LOL at C 'pretending' to be a model baby for Grandma! Hope there are a few more meetings and she is around to enjoy your lovely children for a bit longer.

MissJ WHAT? Sorry, but who made him judge and jury on YOUR child. Never mind his tea, I'd have squirted BM in his eye .
I do hate it when people, in particular blokes who have never been or are likely to be mothers, come out with ridiculous comments like this. Clearly blinkered into an entirely westernised style of parenting, what about the millions of children worldwide who co-sleep and breastfeed to ripe old age? It is nobody's business but your own how your baby is fed or where he sleeps. Can't he see what a big, happy, healthy boy Nye is? Obviously not hurting him to have delicious BM and lots of cuddles. He was probably just jealous .

PatTheHammer · 23/07/2009 08:50

Oh dog, spoke to DH last night and whilst he was ok with me staying we have some family coming round on sunday so I need to have the kids back by lunchtime. Ruddy inconvenient! Enjoy visiting your Gran and I hope for better weather for you than I have had this week!

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treedelivery · 23/07/2009 09:03

Oh Sparkle! This could have been us with fil type person so you have all my sympathy as do her mum and dad. What a shock for them, if the parents are struggling in the next few days direct them to mumsnet! Hope you are ok. Strong vibes her way.

Elk - sorry about the gm. for you both.

Better news about your sleep dog. Hatts was very unsettled till 12 then slept till 5.30. I type this like it is normal and has always been thus. I'd have paid good money for that 2 weeks ago!
I think I am too adaptable! She is up or she isn't, and I just accept and adapt. It means I don't enjoy the good nights as much, but then the bad nights don't bother me too bad either. If this makes sense.

Am at the Natural History Museum. And London in general. If we had money I'd just come down for the day. It would be 3.5 hours each way which is doable, but about £80, which is not. Shame travel is soooooo expensive here in UK.

Morning all!

PatTheHammer · 23/07/2009 09:13

Oh, forgot....Zach slept from 9.45pm till 6.10am this morning!!!!! Back to like it was a few weeks ago, I bloody hope so!

tree do you ever get cheaper fares by booking online in advance? My mum came up to us from Sussex for £6 once by looking on the trainline.com. We have done returns to london for 11 or 12 quid on occasion too. Sorry if this is stating the obvious.

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treedelivery · 23/07/2009 10:09

AIBU to want to kick the cat?

I hAad Hattie asleep 15 mins and was just thinking of trying to put her down so I can go to the loo and shower. The fecking cat has come in hollering and she is awake.

So there goes my morning hour where I am not holding a baby. Fuckity.

EachPeachPearMum · 23/07/2009 10:23

we seem to be in teething hell here... ds waking all night... last 2 nights have been a write-off

SaS hope all goes well today for your young assistant.

Spink · 23/07/2009 10:37

ooh tree kick the cat by all means but not so hard that you can't then give it Hatts to hold for you for that magic hour. They don't need opposable thumbs for that, though the wily thing might try to convinve you otherwise

arghhhhh need to go, Rosie is mewling, back later..

missjackson · 23/07/2009 11:55

Going to try to type fast as Nye has gone back to sleep for another morning nap - most unlike him! So no doubt my freedom will be short-lived.

S&S hope your assistant's op goes well today - must have been urgent if they only found it yesterday. Fingers crossed.

Elkie Nice that C got to meet his grandmother and was well behaved - I love it when that happens! Worst is when they are uncharacteristically awful, and you hear yourself trying to explain that 'they're not usually like this, honestly' and sounding completely unconvincing.

hkz also of nat history museum - really hope Nye likes that kind of thing when he gets older. Actually have decided to do his nursery with a butterfly theme - I know it's sort of girly, but this family is so full of boys and trains and tractors that I really want to give him some softer, gentler influences. So big colourful butterflies it is... at least until he is old enough to demand Thomas !

pat also of Zach's lovely long night - must be all the food. Forgot to say was amazed that he is eating onion!

dog sounds like you are getting you £'s worth out of your jumperoo with the older 2 in the box! Love it!

books excited for weaning - let us know how it goes. We will be starting weekend after. I went and bought the baby-led weaning book because I am a sucker for new books, and it's got some quite useful tips in it. Are you doing BLW? I fear it might have to be the sandpaper for your table. I just bought a lovely oil cloth cover for my pine table in anticipation of BLW.

tree I feel your anger at the cat. WHen I am at my Mums trying to put Nye down, sometimes her lovely dog Stanley barks at something, and I threaten to take him to the dogs home .

eppm sorry to hear of your bad night and hope the teething passes soon.

So - yesterday was a bit of a wipe-out. A very crap day in fact. We set off for the Royal Welsh show, sat in a traffic jam for an hour and a half, got there and then decided it was raining soooo hard that it wasn't worth going. So turned around and went to visit my Grandmother (who has Alzheimer's). She was lying in bed, facing the wall, looking terribly thin, like a skeleton. She wouldn't sit up or talk or even look at us, she just moaned a bit. With tears streaming down my face, I settled Nye into the space between her and the wall, and told her that her great-grandson had come to meet her. He gurgled and touched her face, and she slowly reached out a bird-like hand to him. I think there must be something about a baby's voice that touches something in all of us. Then I held her hand for a while and told her how much I loved her, and all about Nye, and then we left her in peace. We wanted to take a photo of Nye and her, but she looked so terrible that it just didn't seem right. I would rather show him photos of when she was still 'alive' and happy. There was nothing left of my dear grandmother in that body. I think that will be the last time I visit her, as I don't think she is long for this world, and although it was terribly upsetting, I am glad I got to tell her how much I loved her. .

Then came home, put N to bed, and cooked a delicious meal for OH and his friend, but unfortunately friend was drunk after too much hospitality at the show (he braved the rain), and just turned into a twat. I ended up having a bit of a row with him, which was a waste of my effort really since he was just pissed. He's normally a pretty nice guy but a bit of a misogynist to say the least.

Anyway, here's hoping today turns out better! Sorry for ridiculously long post.

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stripeywoollenhat · 23/07/2009 12:28

sas, hope your assistant's op goes well - totally shit for her and you all,

and missj for grandmother. both my aunts have dementia (one 89, the other 83) and it's just terrible to see them so diminished. but it is good that she saw nye, and that his presence registered with her. i think often of my father when i am looking at c, and am so sad that he never got to meet her.

on a less miserable note, melon was relished here this morning for breakfast

stripeywoollenhat · 23/07/2009 12:31

tree, kick away. i am in generally brutalising felines humour, as our two are having a pissing competition against the new fridge. everytime the kitchen is deserted. bastards.

qumps · 23/07/2009 13:19

It's a miracle - both mine are in bed and have been for nearly an hour! Admittedly S has been drugged as he now has a little temp to go with his rash and he has been up since 5 and his bro since 630 but I am taking the positive now!
MissJ that was such a gorgeous but sad post. Hope you are ok. I agree, tell Nye he met her but remember her how she was.
Sparkle that is terrible news. the poor little thing. Really hope she is ok. Thank god her mum took her to a&e.
Tree I find that the nights S does sleep through my mental cat decideds the house is too quiet, catches a moth (he is too fat to catch anything else) and then has to tell the world about it. He only stops when you go down and say well done to him. Loving your use of the word fuckity though.
S ended up in bed with me this morning for cuddles, so in less than a week the cc has alreayd gone. He just won't go back to sleep at 5 so I think we are going to have to accept that is when our day starts. He does now go to sleep really well on his own though and he did wake at 1am but managed to get himself back off within a minute. I now know that if he doesn't manage it within 5 it won't happen and to get him up.
Leaving S with my dad this avo and taking ds1 on a playdate which should be nice.