Miamla good job VG is on hand to provide such comprehensive answers I must admit, my eyes glazed over before I'd even read to the end of question one. Management speak has a lot to answer for.
If you don't mind me asking, how did you break your back? I always wonder about it when you mention it, sounds like a horrific experience. Obviously don't answer if you don't want to though, I am just casually nosy curious and not wanting to pry into v personal business
You're clearly made of stern stuff to have overcome it in such fine style. My friend who destroyed his knee earlier in the year is not having a happy time of it at all; he keeps getting infections in the bone and I think is struggling to change his perception of who he is and what he can do
CC I think you would have to be the group's spiritual shepherd, you are such a wonderful friend. How awful for your mate and her children I hope they can find some way to mark the day and remember him that isn't too painful, although at this stage probably everything is.