No news yet although I can see on Muppets fb that someone called 'Jason Currill' recieved a pic of him so he must be born!
Yes, it would have been lovely making my pg 'official' if it wasn't for the doc's insensetive comments .
I went in with Dylan and she asked how she could help. I said i'm here to tell you i'm pregnant and so you can refer me to the midwives etc. She said 'and how do you feel about it, was it planned?' (which is a prefectly alright question to ask...) and I said 'good, yes it was all planned'. No smiles, no congrats like I got the first time I went with Dylan, she just said 'oh you're a glutten for punishment aren't you'. Then she said 'I tkae it you weren't trying for long' I said 'no we've been trying for 7 months' then she said 'well, nature was kind to you then, you don't want them too close together' I said, well Dylan will be nearly 2 and a half when the baby is born, then she said 'hmm yes, thats about right', oh is it really, thanks for your approval!!!
Then she was like, 'well, boys only get more energetic as they get older, not less so you'll have your work cut out, but your coping anyway...' . She then asked me if I had any probs with the birth last time and I told her i'd hada 3rd degree tear but the consultant said i'd healed well and should be fine for the next time, she said 'oh well they'll have to be careful with you then, they'll probably give you an episiotomy so it tears a certain way'. Erm will they?! I think that's up to me actually!
So basically I left feeling like a young child who had been lectured on having children too close together, in HER oppinion!
Dh is not very happy about it, says he'll complain, you think it's necessary? I was really excited about making it official, she's just messed it up, silly old crone!