Just had a message from my mum
Just a load of sh*t again. Saying Dylan and I are her main cincern (not true, she is her main concern). Saying my email states I have sent it so we all know where we stand, but they haven't known where they stood for the last 6 years (they have actually, we have all told them several times). Saying they are not going to give up and have been to see the police and the police said they are not doing anything wrong as they haven't broken our property WTF?. I doubt very much they have mentioned that they obtained my address without me wanting them to have it or that they have been leaving harassing answerphone messages or that my mum jammed her foot in the door and screetched through the letter box, if they had of then I think the police might have taken a different view on things !
She said I 'wasn't brought up like this' and that as my email says I haven't done anything wrong, well apart from going along with 'silly people'! She also said about DH 'I don't know if he's got in too deep already' [angry} meaning he has brain washed me AARRGGHH!
She said they are not going to be 'pushed out' and that they would come here again as they still ahve my wedding dress (that she has had several oppertunities to return but chose to keep as a bribery tool) and it is too upsetting to have it in the house so they be coming to return it (just another excuse to turn up here).
They said that my DH throwing Dylans eater egg over the wall when they wouldn't leave was 'disgusting' and that they would 'never forget that' and that they would also 'never forget not being told they had a grandson'.
Then she tried to sound nice and concerned for Dylan by saying she hoped he was ok as he wasn't well last time (meaning when she came up and he had a virus). She then said oh well I think you're just using Dylan as a pawn in your game anyway (meaning she didn't believe he actually was ill when she came here - HE WAS!). She said we were very cruel to do this to him .
I'm so Fcking Sick of this Sht (please excuse the language) WTF is she flippin well on about?! She is actually totally mad, I do believe that. I have NOT been brain washed, I DO NOT use my son as a pawn in my game . I am protecting my son from her utter madness!!! I feel like she just keeps leaving these awful messages to try and drag me in to a 'who did what' discussion and therefore 'have it out' with me. I also feel sick and upset as she keeps saying 'we won't give up' 'we won't be pushed out''the police say we're doing nothing wrong'. These comments make me feel like I have no control over the situation and whether they're in my life or not. Like I just have to sit here and keep taking the abuse and there's nothing I can do