Beantin After our 1st, we had sex at about the 2 week mark, we had a few false starts and ended up just wriggling around because we'd get to 'that' point and I'd chicken out because I was still quite swollen, but when we did do it, it was ok........it was uncomfortable as I was still quite sore but it got easier. Just do it when you are ready and if it gets too much just stop, am sure your OH will understand
I would suggest though maybe the use of KY jelly or make sure he really gets you going first iykwim, you don't want anything to be too dry.
I'm really bad at remembering to do the pelvic floor exercises so imagine it's like swinging a sausage in space
dinky when they did Lukck's heal prick the cmw told me that if there were any problems the hv would contact me so I haven't even asked about it.
Beantin I always found that green poo was connected to winding issues with my ds, but I am not medically trained so if it's something you are worried about, get it checked. Are you eating foods with garlic? That may have an effect, you should see ds1's nappies after he's had kievs
Were at play centre today and it was the staff there that reported that mum I told you about. The conversation started because a member of the staff asked how I was getting on with the 2 of them and if everything was settling down so I was telling her I'm still trying to get ds1 out of the violent stage but that he'd also started the screaming and how it's upset me a bit because it reminds me of that boy and she asked what I merant so I told her she knew what I meant, she took me into the meeting room after session and I told her the mum had told me the situ last week and that I was glad alarm bells weren't ringing just for me.
I need you to tell me IANBU on this one. I am not overly precious about my ds's, I am not one that doesn't like other people touching them or anything, I actually think it's quite important that they get used to being handled by others, but what I would expect is that if someone wanted to pick up my baby, they ask first. AIBU?
The person I am talking about is the above mum. Last week, we were all outside and Luck was asleep inside in the pram, she went in for the bathroom and when she came out, she brought Luke with her saying he was awake and crying. Now, I was just outside the door (had been checking on him every now and then), so really what I would have done was go back outside and say "Your baby's crying" and maybe ask if I could get him. I would not pick someone else's new born baby up and bring him outside into the bright sunshine. What bothers me is that she was in there touching my child without my permission or knowledge and it makes me very uncomfortable. Also today, Luke was on the other side of the room in a bouncy chair and I was with ds doing some decorations for easter, Luke whinged, that pre-cry noise and she was off her seat which was on the next table to me and pretty much ran across the room to comfort my baby. She was close to picking him up when I yelled across the room to leave him and I'd get him in a min. It's not like she was sittng next to him, she was on other side of room ffs. Then she sat next to him stroking his head whilst I finished my convo. When I had his bottle ready I sat down next to him to get him out of chair and she undid the straps and went to pick him up again. Now, to me, this is not normal behaviour. I have never picked up someone elses baby wothout asking forst, the only times would be if baby was choking or in some sort of danger, then instincts take over. Dp asked if I would be this wound up if this was done by someone else and I don't know really. m I annoyed because what may or may not be happening to her ds? Would I react the same of everyone? She does strike me as odd but maybe I'd be more relaxed of a 'normal' person? It's not on though is it?