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August 2008: Six Month Milestones and More

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TwilightSurfer · 27/02/2009 20:47

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SazzlesA · 05/03/2009 22:19

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Sibh · 05/03/2009 22:22

The short sharp shock decorating thing is what is making it worthwhile Sazzles. The carpenter was seriously impressed by the fact that I was unfazed by the disruption, but the mattress on the floor was a fab space rocket, racing car and general imagination zone this afternoon so it hasn't been so bad. I can't wait for the bedrooms to be up in working order.

dizzydixies · 05/03/2009 22:22

am not sure how I feel about them being pregnant which is a really strange thing to admit - DH thinks its because its the first big event since mum - I'm not so sure

I think its more to do with all my pathetic annoyance over their DS being the golden boy and my lot coming a poor second - am not going to speak about it anymore as I'll just show myself up for being as petty as I am

dizzydixies · 05/03/2009 22:24

Sibh - don't envy you at all with all the upheaval - i still haven't sorted the house out after the PIL left

I have to admit I went on a bit of a credit shopping spree on Tues, its mostly all going back again but it was fun while it lasted

Sibh · 05/03/2009 22:25

My mum takes the golden boy approach to my lovely nephew Dizzy and I felt quite petty about minding until one of my other deeply unflappable sisters admitted it gets to her too. Do all first grandchildren get magical status in families do you think?

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dizzydixies · 05/03/2009 22:30

am not sure Sibh, I'm not even allowed to comment on him infront of my Dad or he goes off on one. My mum looked after him 3full days a week from when he was 4months old until she wasn't well enough to do so. Its not that that bothers me as I look after my own girls I just got annoyed that she was too tired from looking after him to come and see mine etc - ah well, too late to raise it as an issue now but when they couldn't help me with DD2 in hospital because dnephew had a cold and they had to stay with him, I felt that was a real smack in the mouth turning point for me - there are other examples but its pointless really

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sambo303triesforScotland · 05/03/2009 22:32

my parents first grandchild is a holy terror so I think they are quite pleased with the batch of 3 they received in 2008 - all are small, cute and do not answer back

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dizzydixies · 05/03/2009 22:33

mine seem to have fallen short when it comes to grandparents - DH and I are just grateful for my friend who treats my girls like her own grandchildren and my aunt who is wonderful with them

does break my heart a bit though as I adored my granny and wanted my girls to have a similar relationship

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poppysocks · 05/03/2009 22:51

I feel sad that my girls won't grow up with close relationships with GPs. Mine were so important to me growing up. My parents are big on the guilt trips about us being up here with them down there and as you say, sazzles, it's a choice you make. On balance it's the right one for us, but just it's not possible to have everything.

AnnVan · 05/03/2009 23:22

Hi again all. Sorry I was a moaning minny earlier.
Seb has been fed, bathed, oiled, moisturised and fed to sleep. Hopefully we'll have a better night tonight.
My DB may be coming down to visit for a few days next week I really hope he does come, as he's the member of my family that I get on best with, and I don't get to see him much at all now (once in the last 18 months )
Hope everyone has a decent night tonight.

TwilightSurfer · 06/03/2009 00:43

From the day I was born until I was 24 years old I lived a dream life because I was brought up by my mother, her mother, her mother's mother, five of my mother's aunts, my father's mother, and my uncle's wife. I literally had an extended family like no other person I know or knew. My girls won't have that luxury since life is not eternal. It's my hope that my close friendships will some how fill the gaps and afford my girls the slightest chance at a similar youth. So far, it hasn't but I'm not giving up. Times have changed too. People, at least the ones I'm most familar with, keep their children closer to them. When I was little I lived here and there, summers with one grandmother & greatgrandmother, after school time was with the other grandmother, my uncle's wife and one of my mother's aunts took me church on Sundays...I basically had a bag and a willingness to go where ever, when ever. Honestly I'm not sure why I just opened that bit of baggage and shared it with the thread but oh well, there it is.

Ann I do hope your evening is a peaceful one. You need it.

Sazzles Miamla may want to join my team...
Miamla you're welcome to have any one of those new bathing suits I just bought. Note: I bought another new one today.

Dizzy don't worry. All that will fade into the past before long. Ripples in ponds usually do. {{hug}}

Sibh sounds like you're living like I've been living on and off for a month. You, however, seem to be dealing with it better. Good for you.

Hi Poppy. Bring your sunscreen.

Well it's almost bedtime for me. I'm really getting use to this 8pm Mommy Lights Out thing. DD1 is still bangin around in her room but she'll be out shortly. Better than her banging around at 10:40pm.

I've been meaning upload a before and after picture of the kitchen. It is still not complete so that's why I'm dragging my feet. I dropped a hint to dh last night that I'd like to get the baseboards in and a coat of paint on the walls asap. He was like, "yes dear zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz". Doubt he even remembers the yes dear part.

Wishing all a good uneventful night.
Morning Expectant.
Evening Longway.

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oopsRonanOGarascoconuts · 06/03/2009 08:46

Morning All

There seems to be bacon and egg for breakfast in this house this morning as there is no milk - lays out spread for everyone.

DD slept reasonably well last night fed at 12,3 and then wind at 5 then awake to party at 7.

I am off to pilates in a bit DD going to work with DH as he wasn't happy about her in a creche yet . Saw Personal trainer yesterday and can move this morning which is an improvement on last time. Then we are going to the kids from work birthday party which should be interesting.

Have a GREAT DAY everyone.

oopsRonanOGarascoconuts · 06/03/2009 08:47

Can you tell the sun is shining today

cyteen · 06/03/2009 09:08

TS your extended family upbringing sounds so cool I agree that there was a lot more elastic in family relationships when we were kids - my brother and I would often spend half term at my granny's on the coast while my mum partied had a break and it was cool. I can't imagine doing that with Joe, but then my immediate family is tiny. My nan and dad are both only children so all there was was them two, my mum, brother and me...now there is just nan, dad and me I love my ILs a lot but it's not the same.

So glad you're having fun with your DD1. It really made my day to 'hear' you talk about her with such obvious glowing pride Long may she continue on the side of the angels!

Boy is gurgling upstairs...I'm sure he feels well rested after that 30 minute snooze

dizzydixies · 06/03/2009 09:43

pass the bacon and eggs, am shattered and cheerios just aren't cutting it

morning all

Allezlesbluessteaknife · 06/03/2009 10:07

Bacon and eggs count me in.

TS I have been in England.
And despite the funeral bit - with what I can only describe as a very modern vicar - I had a lovely week. DD was a big hit with all the rellies she hadn't met yet - in fact her aunts nearly had a stand up fight to be the first to hold her. Aww bless.

Sorry to post and run yesterday, but DH and I had a bit of bovver before I went to England and so we are trying to do more things together rather than sit on our forums not talking to each other.

AnnVan · 06/03/2009 10:15

morning all.
steak hope you guys pick up a bit.

another screaming night here. every time I think we're making progress we take another giant leap backwards. I honestly don't know what to do.
I feel really bad for getting so cross/frustrated with him as well.
Anyway, have to go put the bins out. back later.

alittlebitshy · 06/03/2009 10:31

think i'm caught up.
mind reeling with all the food talk. I think i'm being too slow with ds. Must do fish soon...... Bear in mind he's just over 7 months and has been eating (purees) since 24 weeks I'm not doing v well on adding new stuff in. raaaah.

got dd at home today. she has a sore throat. I had one earlier in the week and it was awful so i thought she needs a cosy day.

dizzy my dd has recently chosen to have a big hair chop too. Is now jaw length . It went from half way down back to shoulders, but then as it was still just about poss to tie up (though not easy) the dinner lady kepy moaning when it was just clipped back (she's a messy enthusiatic eater my dd ), so we went for the full chop. she loves it and it looks lovely. She's also growing her fringe out .

buckets i feel your pmt. I've had some horrenouds mood swings. I am no sure if is depo related or what.

I went back to gp btw and asked for a diff anti depressant. am taking it now... will see if it helps.....

we're sleep deprived here. 3 wake ups between 1 and 7 this morning (though he slept fine from 7.30 til 1am ). Dh still doing the settling unless he really really cries for a feed. Dh so tired he put dishwasher tabs in the washing machine. I now need to rewash that load....

any idea ladies? suddenly we're getitng leaky nappies overnight. It doesn't matter whether he feeds or not - we're still getting soaked gro bags. Could it be cos he's sleeping on his side sme of the time?? Maybe it's the wet that's waking him up in the night.....

Florida - yes please .

alittlebitshy · 06/03/2009 10:34

steaky - modern vicar? What on earth did he do to the funeral. Hope you and dh are ok....

ann lots of hugs. How is dp with the nights these days?

cyteen · 06/03/2009 10:38

albs he may just have changed shape. we had that a while ago with nappies that had previously been almost leakproof and it drove me to distraction. try switching brands to see if there's a better fit for him or put an Airflow over his disposable at night, those things are bombproof

Allezlesbluessteaknife · 06/03/2009 10:51

Cyteen - he just kept banging on about how nana was living on forever in the afterlife. I know that's kind of the point of Christianity and all but he did seem to labour the point in a rather happy clappy kind of way. Bros and I were brought up traditional CofE it seemed a bit odd. Mum is a reader and the vicar was one of her friends so she thought it all dandy, which I guess is what matters.

DH and I will be fine. I can ususally manage our disagreements and even when I get angry I manage to stay rational, but every now and again I have a major meltdown. Last one was about 18 months ago. I've had them before and put them down to PMT/the evil mycrogynon but as I am still without the periods then I am wondering if it isn't just that I bottle up all the everyday annoyances and then it all comes out like an exploding pressure cooker.

Not sure what to make of it.