Sorry about your Nan Steaky but hey, I'm sure she'd be chuffed for you to combine your trip with a Mumsnet meetup - whereabouts will you be?
Anyone else's kids been extra tired/emotional this week? I think half terms must be scientifically worked out for the exact tolerance a child has for school. DS1 has thrown a wobbly every day after pre-school and put himself to bed at 6.30. Mind you his wobblies are soooo much improved these days it's water off a duck's back to me, even in a public place with a baby in tow. Can't believe it's the same child I was worrying about a year ago, there were so many things we couldn't do/go to, the world has become a much bigger place for me.
On subject of DS1, was speaking to mum of one of his pre-school 'friends' and she said her DD has especially chosen him for an invitation to her birthday party! My heart leapt! Mind, she is a selective mute so perhaps she finds his apathy reassuringly non-threatening.