Oops - DD2 wouldn't be here if I hadn't adopted that form of parenting a bit more than a year ago .
So sorry you're both so unwell VG and miniest VG. At least you have a reason to be stuck indoors (other than tons of snow ).
Mucho sympathy with you oops. albs and TS (and anyone else) about the separation anxiety. DD1 was TERRIBLE with it, and it coincided with my return to work. How to make a difficult situation utterly traumatic.... No words of wisdom really except reassurance that it will end. In fact, starting nursery really helped DD1 as she got used to people other than me and DH. Trouble is it became a vicious circle - she didn't like going to anyone else, so she didn't go to anyone else, so she didn't get used to anyone else etc. etc. This time I've made a real effort to play pass the baby at every opportunity and although there have been glimmers, so far so good...