Now in floods of tears
I thought a mum at school had been avoiding me but had no idea why (she is 40 something so I thought I was being paranoid cos "grown ups" don;t play games do they?).
Texted her to inviet her d dto play and mentioned I was worried i'd upset her. She text back saying she's disappointed in me because i tried to get another mum to change plans before xmas.
We never did. We had invited a few girls round before xmas. not her dd as my dd hadn't requested her lol. no malice, just not wanting the entire class.
ppl were slow to get back to use. dh did some chasing. one mum said she couldn't as she was working. we offered to collect her twins, she said oh no actually x's mum is taking them somewhere. Fine. we suggested collecting them afterwards but x and mum are going round for mince pies....
then, another mum says oops, my dd (k) is going out with x.
we agree that k will come later after finishing with the other group.
Fine i think - a shame the twins who are leaving can't come but ok.
Fast forward to this term. x's mum seems to be avoiding me. I am quite shy anyhow (hence my mn name lol). I can't work out why. Briefly wonder if cos not invited her dd, but equally she hadn't invited mine so, whatever.
Am so astounded that it has been relayed that we asked ppl to change plans. Appar we KNEW their plans (oh no, we didn't til v late on) and we've acted badly.
Feel so so crap. WOnder how many mums think i'm a pile of shite now.
F*&king private school mummies