Ooh, Star Bars. I LURVE Star Bars.
Ugh, I took a load of meat out of the freezer last night and intended to cook various dishes today, but was so tired having been up 50 times with the children last night that I didn't get around to it. Have just finished making three meals and a cake. Am tired. Don't want to finish my packing. DH's cousin arrives from Australia at the crack of dawn. I need to get his bed ready and I have a training course at 9.30am.
I think we can safely say I am a bad mother. DH brought fish and chips home last night and A ate so much (with vinegar and ketchup) she got sick at bedtime. Then she moaned and groaned all night with her poor sore belly and then got sick again this mornings. Between her being ill and O being restless and DH snoring and the fact I read until 1am anyway, I think I got about 3 broken hours of sleep.
JAM - I'm really sorry, I forgot to say this to you before. Two babies: It does get easier. I promise. I had a rough patch from when O was about 4 weeks to 3 or 4 months and then things really started looking up. For example; being able to actually put him down for 10 minutes while A had a bath without him wailing and then being able to put them in the bath together and now whilst bathtime is still a bloody chore, I can pop the pair of them in and out and get one to bed while one is in their cot amusing themselves and then see to the other. You just kind of fall into ways of doing things until you realise you're coping a lot better.
I really don't know what to say about your DP being put "at risk", other than it's absolutely shit. It sounds trite, but I think often when the "worst happens", it gives us a kick up the arse to go and do something different with our lives. It opens new doors. That's no comfort to you now, when you're worrying about your mortgage, but you're smart, good people and you have a fighting chance. Are you on an interest-only mortgage? If not, then you can change to one. If you are, then speak to the bank as soon as you can if you think you might have problems paying. You might be able to extend the term to reduce the monthly payment or something. They won't actually want to repossess because they won't want to have to sell it, plus, it's just not the way banks do business. Anyway, hopefully it won't be a bridge you need to cross at all, but I'm just saying you'll have options. Lots of love. x