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LackaDAISYcal · 22/08/2008 21:33

came to talk and the thread was full.

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NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 13:32

that sounds perfect jammy xx

JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 13:33

Hope it's nothing serious re DD's foot Daisy, and hope you get something sorted for her skin too.

And hope your scan is OK Natty - do you know when it is?

LackaDAISYcal · 03/09/2008 13:34

hey jammy, that sounds lovely. It was me who linked the chocolate; they are funny, but at the price. Good for gifts though

I hope she likes it all. Have you spoken to her yet? she might just be in a place where she doesn't really want to talk about things quite yet; but she knows you are there for her and I'm sure that's a great comfort

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JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 13:35

Well it's Jamlet who is worn out here. She did well this morning, went from her breakfast at 6.15 to lunch at 12.15 with no snacks. We went to the children's centre and they normally have a mid morning snack, but they've changed things now so they get lunch instead. So I'll have to remember to take her a little snack next week, it was a bit too long for her. But the long morning and all the playing means she's now napping

NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 13:38

15th is when we get the money thru to pay for the move, we have veiwed alot of local houses, all three beds with gardens, cos i am sick of living in cramped flats, i dont care if we are broke to pay the rent, once this little one comes along our benefits will up a bit, so we should be fine, its just getting from here to there in the mean time lol.
i would move later, but we have already got an ant and rat problem (2 weekly collections, big block of flats, loads of stinking bins full of food.. well duh. councils are sooooo dumb)
so needless to say i am sick of it. i also need time to settle there, cos last time we moved right b4 ellen was born and it was hell, stressed me out, and made the first few months so much harder. so this time im am going to be settled, the whole house decroated and ready so i can concentrate on being a mummy. (cue baps out all the time, and masses of nappies to wash... )

JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 13:39

I spoke to her last night. She'd been to the bank and started looking at her finances. She's going to struggle on just her income. I can't see how she'll pay the mortgage and all the bills tbh. But she's set up a new account just in her name so she has complete control of the household finances and has cut back on some routine expenses where she can, and I'm going to send her some money to give her a couple of month's breathing space to try to work things out. She was going to the CAB today to see if she can claim anything and what her rights are etc. She says while she's something active to do she's OK, but as soon as she stops she bursts into tears.

NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 14:38

got to wait for a phone call jammy, next few days hopefully

LackaDAISYcal · 03/09/2008 14:47

jammy, surely her DH should still be helping her pay the mortgage etc? He can't just feck off and expect her to manage, can he? or has he just disappeared? Has he been in touch with any of their kids?

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JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 14:59

He's just disappeared. Said he'll be in touch later in the week...

She wants to keep the house if she can, even if it means taking it on by herself, but I'm not sure how she could manage that on her own. And in the meantime, until she hears from him she has to keep payments up. Thankfully this month's has just gone out.

NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 15:17

got scan at 10.10 tomorrow

JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 15:19

exciting!

NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 15:22

jammy thats really shitty. poor woman, i couldnt cope with that. at least she has a job, if that happened to me, id be royaly stuffed

LackaDAISYcal · 03/09/2008 16:02

what a twunt

you'd think 28 years of marriage would mean a little more than a "I'll be in touch"

I hope he isn't just having some sort of midlife crisis and is expecting her to welcome him back with open arms!

We are off to see GP about DDs skin......I'm not leaving without a dermatology referral.....will take supplies, so if you don't hear from me, look out for me on the national news

woohoo for the scan natty . they are nerve making after a MC, but the girls on the KC thread will hold your hand tonight

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NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 19:08

im not to nervous daisy, am feelin positive atm, im sure tomorrow i will be up at 6 and have butterflys!

foxythesnowfox · 03/09/2008 21:28

Good luck tomorrow Natty. Glad you are feeling positive. What's the news with the move? I must've missed that one.

I had DS1 at Kings. Its great. If there are any problems, its the best place to be. We still go for DS1, and ahve a great consultant.

Fucking men and their pathetic 'mid-life crisis' whinging. Am expecting DP to have one. Have told him he'd better bloody well take the fast car option.

Nice idea about the comfort box. Hope she liked it Jammy. I think they are a great thing, not just because you get gifts, but you know that whoever has given it has put a lot of though into it. That's the special part

Boys go back tomorrow .
I'm heading off to Ikea first thing .
I am very much looking forward to doing something I want to do - even if it is buying a splash mat and plastic toy boxes!

Righto, had a hot bath, reading my book and off to bed now.

Night all xxx

Natty, will be thinking of you tomorrow!

justbeme · 03/09/2008 21:37

Good luck for the scan tomorrow Natty.
Wonder how Daisy got on at the Drs?? Has she been on the news???

What business is your DH thinking of setting up Izzy?

Did a market research this afternoon - took 1 hour and got £50!! Wow, wish I could get one of those a week!! But its more like one a year.

Its National Heritage Weekend this weekend - cant believe its a year since Ria gave us the link - but the sites crashing so i cant see whats on yet - but heres the link anyway
here

NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 21:43

i fell asleep on the sofa, missed corrie and everything..
baby must be making me tired
thank you for the good lucks, much appreciated, i will post when i get back (prob not till afternoon, we might go grab a bite to eat)

JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 22:20

GOod luck for tomorrow Natty.

JammyQueenOfTheSewers · 03/09/2008 22:21

Oh, and I think National Trust have a number of their properties open for free on Sept 13th weekend too.

LackaDAISYcal · 03/09/2008 23:01

lol jbm...forgot to come and update. we have a referral, but she wasn't keen and practically blamed me for the state of DDs skin as apparently I should be lathering her in emollient cream in excess of ten times a day (previous GP said apply doublebase twice a day) and perhaps washing her more might help .

doc was a right ole cowbag and made me feel even worse than I already do about it, and was incredulous that DD only gets one bath, in oilatum, per week. She said it was probably just the soap I was using and when I said I only bathed her once a week, she asked "what about when you shower her at other times?"....erm I don't, as advised by trusted and experienced head honcho GP. she looked at me like I was pondscum at that and didn't even ask me to take DD's nappy off so she could have a proper look, just peeked in the edges of it.

I asked for a different emollient and was told no as they are "basically all the same", but that you must use them for them to be effective. she also suggested I was using the steroid cream too much (erm like I don't know that, it's why I'm here) and that if I rub her in emmollient at every opportunity it'll go away. I can see the emollient will hydrate her skin, but I can't see how I can keep her hydrated on her nappy area when she is weeing it off all the time...and it isn't going to help the root cause is it?

Anyhoo, she wanted me to try more emollient and if no better, then get a referral. I said No, get the referral letter off and in the meantime I'll use more emollient (although not sure there are enough hours in the day for the amount she wants me to use it) and see if it improves between now and appointment....she wasn't rushing to type anything in to the system though

bet you're sorry you asked now

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NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 23:12

oh daisy that is really shitty

my friend just told me that i am no good with her kids,
she says i dont talk to them properly, like little people.
but im sorry, i have 2 children that dont speak. speaking to kids all day about school and television programmes, i am not used to, because thomas is so delayed i just dont have any experiance of it.
she says she is suprised that i want to work with disabled children, and that i want lots of kids of my own. she said i dont seem like i can get on with kids.
AIBU to be throughly pissed off at this?

LackaDAISYcal · 03/09/2008 23:19

Absolutely you are not being unreasonable Natty Did you ask for these pearls of wisdom from her or were they totally unprovoked?

From what I've heard from you on here, you seem very involved in both your DCs and taking them to signing to help communication isn't exactly the actions of someone who doesn't get on with their kids.

Is she a good friend? she sounds like a snooty cow to me. (sorry ; ignore me, had a bad evening and I'm very grumpy)

have a good scan tomorrow...will be thinking of you

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NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 23:34

i told her i was thinking of training to be a special needs teacher, and she said she was surprised cos i cant talk to her kids.. blah blah blah
i am really shocked at the unprovocked (sp?) attack.
f-ing b*h

NattyThomasAndEllen · 03/09/2008 23:45

daisy, u know u said about dd weeing off the cream? have u got wooden floors?
could u try having an hour a day with the cream on and no nappie? just keep reapplying it if she wees, mops up the spills? maybe a week of this would give her skin enough time to recover just enough to begin to repair?
skins problems are awful. i have terrible skin, which always hurts me, and i cant use bath products that arnt from the simple range (yet every year FIL and SMIL buy me cheap bath sets!)
i really sympathise.
poor baby
u use cloth nappies dont u? have u tried changing washing powders?

LackaDAISYcal · 04/09/2008 09:22

It's an idea natty.....no wooden floors though, but the carpet is coming up soon anyway and getting thrown out....yay!

We have been back in dispos for ages and I've got some Surcare washing liquid to try so am in the process of rewashing all her clothes and nappies in that.

She was up for over two hours in the night, nothing wrong that I could tell, just awake and wanting a cuddle. If I put her in her cot she just screamed. I managed to get her in with me for about 20 mins but she didn't sleep the whole time, just lay next to me awake, then decided it was time to play and smacked me over the head with her doll. She went back in the cot at that point and I just let her scream it out. She woke at 8:15 and has been grumpy since then so she is back in her cot now and still screaming . She has done this waking thing a few times before, but it seems to be getting more frequent.

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