Thanks everyone, and thanks for the remedies Annobal, will get them tomorrow.
I wouldn't mind so much if the HV could offer some help, rather than saying "I told you to do this". I don't want to give formula, I don't honestly think I need to. So I'm going to see a GP tomorrow, one who I know well enough, she has children and I know will be honest with me. If she says its time to ff then I will. If she says "Bloody HVs, ignore them" I'll stop going for weigh-ins with them and see the dr fortnightly, if she'll let me do that.
Right, enough about me. How's everyone else? How's Chloe doing Trace?