PJ - If it's not bothering her, then don't let it bother you so much! You're letting Mummy-guilt get to you by the sounds of things. She's had a lot going on with her health - nothing too serious thankfully, but I suspect it's getting to her more than you.
She doesn't necessarily need to cry it out, but perhaps getting her back to what's she's used to could be the best thing for her. I mean, if you don't usually have her in bed with you, then perhaps she'll sleep better back in her own bed, iyswim? I'm not saying ignore the things that are wrong, just don't make too much of it either. You're just making yourself tired and worried, when you might not need to be.
I hope that doesn't sound too harsh. Sticky eye, btw, looks grim, but really isn't worth worrying about. Wipe with cooled boiled slightly salted water if you want to clear it more quickly than it would on its own.
LG&T - How are you? Did Hugs get off ok?
I didn't think I'd hear myself say this, but HOORAY! Aoife took half a bottle of formula at bedtime last night and another half when she woke at 9.30. Going to get DH to do the late feed tonight and see how it goes and assuming all is well, then I'm off out sooner than you can say "large gin and tonic please, barkeep". I'm such a lush.
Our only issue now is that she likes the bottle super-warm, so I might have to try to wean her onto room-temperature to make life easier and also she's not taking more than 150ml at a time, so I suppose she might be used to smaller breast-feeds? Anyway, she won't starve if I go to get my hair straightened/ legs waxed/ self inebriated.
Oooh, she's doing a clever pushing herself backwards on her hands and knees thing in addition to the belly-spinning. Sort of backwards creeping. Will need to start being more careful when I leave her alone in a room.