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dal21 · 17/09/2007 08:26

Hi ladies - cannot see a thread for the sept ladies who have popped. Thought I would start one (hope I havent been totally blind and missed one already set up)

we can share our trials and tribulations of our LO's here!

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sophus · 22/10/2007 15:02

First trip out in car today (5 wks post c-sec). Did the shopping and picked up things from the vet. It's the little things you achieve that now mean so much. I am so proud of myself. Shoved Linus in a car-seat trolley at waitrose and he thought it was hysterical - just smiled and gurgled all throughout Waitrose - no idea what was so fascinating about a supermarket but he obviously thought so.

He is also going longer between feeds - three hours at least during the day and at night he goes 4-5 hours then 3 hours then 2 hours. It does make organizing my daya lot easier now he is easier to predict.

And am going to get my hair cut tomorrow - i'll feeed him then a friend will sit with him whilst i get the chop - fingers crossed the plan works.

Gave him his first bottle of EBM last night, he gulped it then moved straight onto me and no confusion at all. All he cared about was the milk, couldn't give a monkey's what he had to do to get it. But was wonderful to see DP feeding him. Made me realise that liberation was a possibility!

Have a good week all to make up for the fact that i will be having one of the worst of my life. Dreading the funeral, it will all suddenly be very very real.

Love to you all, and apols for the self-obsessed post, i do think of all of you and your own tribulations and successes.

xxx

ccpink · 22/10/2007 15:02

twit - hope that makes you withhold for that bit longer now

kelmcd · 22/10/2007 15:07

Thats bound to help saying stuff like that innit Twit, how rude anybody would think you didn't have a good reason, tiredness, sore bits(whereever that may be), feeling oh so attractive, emotional, need i go on. My Dh knows not to ask and get a serious answer from me, tho telling him yesterday that there was a chance that we could very well end up with a bubba in 9 mths if we didn't wait seemed to do the trick

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 22/10/2007 15:08

lol, no honeymoon night for him

kelmcd · 22/10/2007 15:10

Sophu - you are truely amazing and an inspiration to us all. You are doing a wonderful job of keeping things going I honestly dont know what i would do.
I hope your week, although tough, is ok and get some comfort in the fact that we are all thinking of you and sending big hugs and love

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 22/10/2007 15:16

sophus, glad you're finding it easier.

[sad so please skip forwards if you feel like it]

I have found myself almost dreading [not quite the right word] ryans milestones like smiling, gurgling walking etc as it feels like a countdown to my mums illness. I guess we can't say for sure obviously but I think it will be lucky if she sees him go to school.

sorry. will now now cheer up and resume being normal again lol.

kelmcd · 22/10/2007 17:11

We have just hit a new hight of disgustingness!!! Changing Arben's nappy - nowive had wees and poos escaping during this time but nothing like we just had. He just managed to wee - all over his face -whilst pooing - which covered me - whilst throwing up - all down himself, then to top it off he sneezed a nice spewy milky sneeze in my face as i gave him a kiss what a clever boy he is (sorry if TMI)
Sorry but had to share, has anyone elses LO managed to do all three things at once?? Oh the joys of motherhood Wouldn't change it for all the wees and poos in the world

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 22/10/2007 17:27

lol, still not as funny as hammmerhead though.

fettleandbabyfettle · 22/10/2007 17:37

Hi all

Been managing to read most days, but then a certain little baby seems to need me and I don't get a chance to post!!.

can i just say how utterly and completely shattered I am?

Right that's my moan out of the way, as hearing what some of you are having to go through at the moment, I really can't complain about a little bit of lost sleep and it's partly my fault as we went to Bath shopping today - thank goodness I had DH with me, as I'd never have managed with toby, pram and DD!

PLP - I think good news that Cerys operation is so soon - I know it seems so close now, but better that it is over and you can try and start getting back to some sort of normality with her? So sorry to hear about the reflux though. I'm pretty sure that DD had reflux which started when she was about 6 weeks old as she screamed all day from the moment she was awake until she went to bed (thank goodness it stopped at night!). I hope the treatment works for her, as it can't be nice for her to be in pain all day - big hugs to you! xxxx

Twits - sorry to hear that you are finding things hard too - it must be very difficult not knowing how long your mum is going to be around for, particularly now you've got your little one.
Sorry to say that I PMSL at the arsehole comment - I'm sure my DH is thinking just the same thing, he just hasn't aired it yet! I just can't face the thought of anything do with that at the moment - too tired and a bit scared of the pain. Found it pretty painful at times before I was pregnant, without thinking about stitches as well!
Kelmdc - maybe I'll try your option - sounds like a good one, as he's definite he doesn't want another baby (I on the otherhand am surprisingly clucky! Took me 12 months after DD to want another baby, this time, it took about 12 hours!!)

Sophus - hope you have a relaxing time at the hairdressers tomorrow, not worrying about Linus - sounds like he;s in a good routine - be thinking about you lots this week - take care.xxx

Laksa - not got any direct experience of memory foam mattresses - although I've slept one night on my sister's one and it was very very comfortable!! All I would say is don't skimp on your mattress - DH and I did that about 2 years ago as I couldn't justify paying 600-700 on a mattress, so bought a cheaper one and you've guessed, we've just forked out 600 pounds on a new firmer one, as the cheaper one was just so uncomfortable - particularly when pg with SPD!

So of all those with smiling babies already - so wish Toby would give me a smile, but he's not 5 weeks yet, so still a bit early - when did you all get your first smiles?

PMSL - Hammerhead - at the breast pad on arse situation!!!

kelmcd - at the weeing, pooing and sicking baby - they are delightful creatures aren't they!! Still haven't managed the art of changing Toby's nappy without him weeing everywhere - don't remember DD weeing quite so often!

Better go, Toby is waking (at last, been sleeping all day! Think going to have to take him back to baby jaundice clinic, as still very yellow and very sleepy!).

Big hugs and love to all, esp Hopey, Loopy and anyone else finding these hard first few weeks, extra difficult.
xxx

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 22/10/2007 17:46

take no notice, it just struck me then, all done with now.

I feel I shouldn't have to keep reminding people that I have just had a baby,is anyone else fed up with being expected to be completely back to normal already?

dal21 · 22/10/2007 20:17

hey everyone - quickly popping on. as you can see from thread below i have started; today was first day of trying to start to implement EASY routine. and it has left me and baby worn out. he hasnt slept since 2pm for any length of time and i dont feel as though i have made any progress. please check out link and share views/ experiences.

hope everyone ok - will check back in later.

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kinki · 23/10/2007 03:16

Sophus, I've been thinking of you. It's so sad you are going through all this. What day is your mum's funeral. I'm sure we'll all be thinking of you. I'm glad you've got a good friend to help you through the day.

Hammer, what you say about not being a homicidal maniac, what with these bloody hormones, I've a feeling I seriously have the potential to be one! Oh and yes I did get pleasantly pissed between feeds! About breast shells. I've tried to search for the ones I use but can't find them, I got them when ds1 was a baby. I also have these avent ones. They work just as well but they don't have spout for pouring out the milk if you want to save it. It can still be done, though not as easily. The other difference is the avent ones have a silicon backing (like on the breast pump) which I suppose most people would find more comfy, but I prefer the plastic of my other ones, which I find it slightly more water(milk)tight. Also with the avent ones, you'll be buying some nipple shields that you might not need/use as they come together in the same pack. Tesco etc also sell them.

Plp, thanks for keeping us updated about little Cerys' progress. Good results from the mcug and loopogram. I've heard of contrast shifting meconium and poo during tests, hopefully that has helped her. From the cardiac perspective her 02 sats are brilliant - can't get better than 100%. Good plan to prepare her for sleeping on her tum. Its a bit much she has to put up with reflux on top of everything else. Especially when you are trying so hard to help her put on / maintain weight. Ds1 was a very sicky baby and we had to give him gaviscon as well. I wasn't sure it helped really, I just seem to remember it made his sick more yukky. We'll all be with you and Cerys on the 7th.

MrsF, I like that dress. I wish I could wear something like that. Lucky you getting some other goodies too. I've just got to the end of a long dispute with Next - they didn't dispatch some goods to me (nearly £200), and have been claiming I received them. Finally tonight on the phone, they accepted they ballsed up and have apologised and cleared my balance (this has been going on since July!). Dh has banned me (understandably) from ever ordering from Next again. But I'm glad you got some nice bits!

Nicki, what a little monkey, preferring the £15 sling to the £900 bug! You're right, best not let dp know. His ignorance is your bliss.

Hammer, Nicki, Laska, and MrsB, I think there are a few of us in Kent. Maybe we should try a meet up when things have settled a bit.

Laksa, no experience of memory foam, but I was once told to not skrimp on a good mattress or good shoes. Because if you're not in one you're in the other. Probably worth every penny. Oh and don't worry about those feeling of being left alone with dd. They will soon pass and she'll feel like an extra limb soon enough. Life without a child will soon be a distant memory. Believe me!

Kyala, we're in the same potty training boat. I had a half hearted attempt at starting today, but didn't get far. I'll try again tomorrow. I hope things get better for dh at work.

Twit you've got a clever little sleepy boy. Lucky you. Hope it continues. Remind me, how is your mum, apologies for my crappy memory. From your post, it doesn't sound so good. And yes, I'm totally fed up with everyone assuming I'm back to normal.

Fettle, good luck at the jaundice clinic. Liam was yellow until about week 4. I hope it resolves soon. Its good there is a clinic to go to.

The party went well. I did have a wobbly moment the evening before when dh told me that he was on-call for the weekend. If I'd known I probably would have postponed the party, what with being under the weather too. And sure enough at 2.15, 15 mins after guests were due to arrive he had to go to work. Fortunately he was only gone for about 1.5hrs, but I did feel totally abandoned for a while. The important thing is that my dad (it was his 80th birthday party) had a good time, so I think I did ok by him. The last people left after the rugby, so it was quite a long day. To be honest I am exhausted but it was definately worth it to see my dad having a good time. Glad its behind me though.

Tomorrow I'm taking Liam to the osteopath. I originally booked him in because of being colicky, sicky and having lots of hiccups. But I've noticed in the last couple of weeks that his favoured position is with his head turned to the left looking slightly up. Dh wondered if this may be to do with when his cord was wrapped round his neck tightly. Anyway I'm hoping they'll be able to loosen him up, just so he is more comfortable. He is also booked in for a course of baby massage starting next week, courtesy of the gp. Lucky Liam!

HammerHeadShark · 23/10/2007 12:46

Morning all - beyond exhausted today as I think Millie is having a growth spurt and fed and fussed constantly from 4pm til about 4am. [looking rough as a badger's arse icon]. She must have worn her little self out and is sleeping now so I am playing with the DTs in between Mumsnet and CBeebies.

Mrs Fish - fab dress, if you can wear that then you definitely look great, when is the party?

Nicki - hope cheeky Poppy comes round to the Bugaboo after that expense. Typical! Glad shopping went well.

Laksa - glad Bella's thrush has cleared. We have a memory foam mattress and it is AMAZING! Was stupidly expensive - about £1100 for a superking size, but is about a foot thick and out of this world in terms of comfort, and personally think it was well worth the price tag. We also have memory foam pillows and I have never slept more comfortably in my life - never wake up with a stiff back or neck anymore. Only downside is you never want to get out of bed!

Kyala - great to hear from you, really sympathise about potty training - my twins have regressed since moving house, starting nursery and a new baby (understandable I guess). We have bought loads of cheap knickers and cranked up the heating so they can just wear knickers on the bottom half and get to toilet/potty quickly without faffing with trousers/skirts/tights etc. Good luck . You must tell me HOW you manage to make a cup of tea whilst breast feeding - am in awe!

Twit - but thrilled for you at Ryan's sleeping - just as well as you have about twenty other children to sort out too! . LOL at your DH - brilliant seduction technique to call you an arsehole - would make me fling my knickers off every time! Sorry about your mum, must be a bit bittersweet watching the children growing up at times

Kelm - I'm having my 6 week check at 8 weeks to conincide with immunisations too, seems to vary. Isn't it just the best getting those first smiles - makes me very mushy and almost willing to get up at night/. Love the new pics - fab sticky up hair - very punk!

ccpink - hope your trip to Oxford goes well - I think you are amazing to be doing that at 3 weeks, only normal to feel a little anxious. Still only pottering to local shops and nursery myself, quite relieved to not be allowed to drive yet!

Sophus - you are so amazing to be managing so well at this terrible time for you. I think you are incredible to be sorting out supermarket shopping, getting Linus to take EBM, going to the vet - I think most people would find all that lot a challenge in 'normal' circumstances. Hope you manage to have a bit of a relax at the hairdressers. Take care x

Dal - how's your routine going today, if you are still persevering, hope not so tiring as yesterday? I found a routine a godsend with the twins when they were little but only as far as feeding them together and set bed and bath time. I think Millie is just going to have to fit in with whatever else is going on . Hope you find whatever works for you and makes your life easier.

fettle - how is Toby's jaundice today, when will you have a chance to go to the jaundice clinic - hope it settles soon.

Kinki - glad the party went well and that your Dad had a good time - excellent to hear you got a bit sloshed. Thanks for the advice on breast shells, will send DH out to get them just to make him squirm - ha ha! Hope it goes well with Liam at the osteopath.

Would be fun to meet up with other Kent based mums - first must lose 10stone, get a tummy tuck, get roots done and wash hair and self occasionally

Loopy, hope you are having a better day. Hopey - hope things are still feeling more positive.

Sorry for length of post - has taken about three hours to write in between BFing, potty training, lego and crayons - probably out of date already. Have a good one girlies x

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 23/10/2007 13:09

Another full nights sleep and I wake with a headache lol. Perhaps I should set the alarm and wake myself up, it must be cos i'm getting too much sleep

dal I posted on your thread, hope it's ok, im not very good at coming across as helpful rather than a big headed know it all so I hope it helps.

kelmcd · 23/10/2007 13:17

Twit - how old is Ryan. How have you managed to get him to sleep thru the night Are you FF or BF?

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 23/10/2007 13:30

5 weeks, he's ff now but i don't know if that has made any difference, all of them have been the same.

smug

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 23/10/2007 13:33

obviously lots of heartfelt sympathy to anyone who isn't sleeping much, perhaps i can help by listening... the ds's are playing footie in the garden [sunny today] and the littleTwits are afternoon snoozing. So although the house is reasonably untidy I am relaxing by mn-ing

kelmcd · 23/10/2007 13:50

I must admit I d od find it very addictive and stops me from doing things aswell, Dh does wonder sometimes what i do with myself all day
I dont think i can really complain about ARbens sleeping, he is only up twice a night but its the getting to sleep in the evening that wears me out, sometimes it takes 5 mins to get him to sleep, sometimes 4 hours!!!.
Oh -completely changing the subject- if you get the chance buy some tiramisu flavoured Tesco ice cream, it is absolutely yummy!! very morish so not good for the waist line but totally worth it!

kinki · 23/10/2007 13:55

Twit, if your's are 'little twits' does that make mine 'little kinks'. If so my little kinks are snoozing too, and the big one is out with a friend, so I too can relax. Arrrr. My house is still relatively tidy from all my manic tidying over the weekend, so I'm feeling quite unstressed.

Last night, Liam missed a feed so slept from 12ish to 5.30. Why the hell that has to happen on the night I can't sleep I don't know. Typical. Bet you feel the same about your headache twit. Not fair is it?

The osteopath went well, they think they can treat him. I don't think I've mentioned here yet but his neck is always twisted over to the left. They showed me how this is beginning to twist his spine a little. But they said a few treatments should sort that out.

Hammer, I think I should crank up the heating too and let ds2 run around in the buff for potty training. He gets confused with the pull-ups and with all the faffing about like you say. And about your quote: "first must lose 10stone, get a tummy tuck, get roots done and wash hair and self occasionally"; I think I've found my long lost twin.

kelmcd · 23/10/2007 14:00

It must be a sleepy time for our LO's, Arben is of to dreamy land aswell, for how long who knows but itss quiet so i cant complain. I added yet another photo, a smiley one to brighten up your days. It brightens my day so hope it does you all aswell

elkiedee · 23/10/2007 14:02

Thread hijack - kelmcd, you live somewhere in my bit of London I think and on mumsnet local expressed interest in some kind of mn meet up this month - it's 2 weeks since I got back from holiday and I'm only just getting round to thinking about it, but are you still interested?

I normally hang out on April 2007 though my baby didn't turn up until May.

My ds didn't start sleeping through the night regularly until he was 2 or 3 months old and he doesn't do it every night still. He's ff though that wasn't through choice.

Haven't read the whole thread but I hope you're all surviving the first few weeks alright and see that you're managing to find mn time!

elkiedee · 23/10/2007 14:02

kelmcd, your pics are lovely!

kelmcd · 23/10/2007 14:14

Does anyone use Facebook??

Twitsthatgobumpinthenight · 23/10/2007 14:38

no i don't.
when i say through the night i mean his last feed is about 9;30 ish after a quick bath and then we both go to bed straight away and we 'get up' at the 5;30 ish one. I learnt pretty quickly that by doing this, i only woke up once, and felt more rested than if i slept earlier in the evening than this or later in the morning. Obviously you might have slightly different times to mine, but i hope you get my drift... am crap at explaining things to any one over the age of nine.

kelmcd · 23/10/2007 14:45

Arben is asleep by midnight after feeding on and off all evening, he is then up at about 3am and 6am then again at bout 8.30-9am. he is only awake for about 1/2hr at 3 and 6 but it just means i cant have an early night, which always does me good, cos he is awake and generally unsettled from about 8pm