Sorry ladies life has been too busy and ive been too rubbish ive fallen off all threads 
Good luck anna hope all goes well and smoothly for you- how exciting!!
primary hugs to you. And claps for how well you've resisted the urge to punch mil in the face
becks benny is so scrummy! You must want to squidge him all the time. He looks so grown up (I know he's one of our eldest babies but he looks so much bigger!)
bluebell unless you have weight gain issues mv said don't worry about waking for feeds. I expressed my concern especially with the hot weather and she said as long as there's wet nappies they're fine. G can sometimes go over 5 hours but just be asleep. For reference at day 14 he was just at his birth weight and day 21 he had gained 12oz
DTD - feeling ok to go ahead down there now. The other day i was 'in the mood' for a few hours but then the screaming / windy / unsettled baby took it away. He always feeds 10-11ish and is fussy before this. So daddy is a bit put out 
(we are 4 weeks here)
clothing we have been living in a vest or a short sleeved romper. Maybe a cellular blanket on top at night, nothing more really. I had him in a vest and babygrow and HV told me this was way too much for time of year and gave me a scare story about over heating. If it's a chillier day I pop him in a babygrow with no vest, but that's been pretty rare
In hospital he had two layers and a hat as they find it hard to regulate temp post birth
bluebell I would be very careful with exercising, I would wait for 6 weeks before you take on anything. I asked my colleague who is post natally trained and had two children herself and she told me to wait and I've not had a section and feel fine.
I don't know much about sugar dips I'm afraid. But based on weather and feeding my MW and HV just said to feed when he's hungry
Sorry to hear you're struggling julfin . I know it's an annoying thing to hear but it will get easier ( tells self my own advice!!) I second hopes advice of sling, helps me get stuff done especially at DDs dinner time
sophie not selfish AT ALL. Totally your choice and decision. My only advice would be to make sure you're sure. When I stopped with DD2 I did regret it after. Might have just been me tho! Do you have a pump? Whatever you do do it based on your decision and don't beat yourself up :)
Oh and julfin since having multiple children I never shower in the morning!! It's my secret to getting out the door! Always at bedtime. I do everything the night before!
promary I've had the coil (mirena) but sent me a bit crazy / low mood. The coil did stop my periods but was horrible having it out in. I haven't heard many success stories of injection amongst friends. We don't get on with condoms at all unfortunately . We are going to visit the doctors as soon as we get round to it for DH to get the snip. But we are very much a complete family now.
Falling asleep and baby asleep.. Will catch up some more tomorrow ladies (hopefully!)