I let TT feed when he wants la and we seem to have settled into a pattern of sorts, he also feeds a lot faster than he used to in the first 10 weeks; so rather than the full 30-60 minute marathons, 10-20 minutes usually does the trick. At the moment we bath/change about 7, feed, occasionally he'll nap till 9, then a quick top up boob, then we pop him in his sleeping bag and put him between us in bed. Usually another feed about 11 and then he sleeps till around 4.30-5am before he has another feed. He's usually awake a couple of hours and then goes back to sleep 8-10am. He naps 11ish and 3 ish now too, but only if the room is dark and quiet. I don't use a dummy, he's been okay self soothing, although I don't leave him to cry longer than a couple of minutes.
It works for us, I'm not one much for routine tho, more organised chaos, and I don't wake him up if he's sleeping unless it's absolutely necessary. Tbh his sleep pattern/rhythm changes all the time and as I've found this week, things like vaccinations really throw it off so I'm not too hung up about it if he falls out of sync. Monday and Tuesday were like having a newborn again, then Wedd/Thur were good nights. Last night we had three wake ups, but I think he was a bit hot. He's having his morning nap as I type, I'm having tea and a cookie in bed! I have to remember that only 2 weeks ago he would only sleep on me, and now he'll do at least 3/4 of the night in the snuzpod. It's all quite fluid, i let him do what he wants when he's ready, I don't even bother trying to force it, we just try it, and if he likes it, then yay, if not, we try again another time.