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The 11th Gemini bus - Trudging through the terrible twos

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AGnu · 13/07/2015 14:18

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Loraline · 20/07/2015 09:55

I'm trying to focus on positives:

a) we're having lots of fun TTC so at least that carries on
b) we're going to a fab steakhouse for dinner this Sat night (to celebrate our 4th wedding anniversary which was last Thursday) so now I can have a medium-rare steak, some wine and maybe a cocktail
c) From when I think I ovulated to today is 11 days which is a much more reassuring LP than I was having before.

peardrop2 · 20/07/2015 10:15

Yeah I've been to the GP last week. They will test my bloods a week after I see a peak on my tests. I don't think ovulating is the problem though. I'm convinced bf has switched something off and my hormones are out of sync. They won't refer me to a fertility clinic for another 6 months Hmm

Loraline · 20/07/2015 11:31

Fingers crossed the blood tests answer some questions for you. How do they determine the 6 months for referral? From when you started TTC or when you first went to see them?

AGnu · 20/07/2015 14:58

Sorry Lor! Sad Yay for alcohol & longer LPs though! Wine

That's really odd pear. Maybe bring will be able to offer some insight when she remembers we exist...

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peardrop2 · 20/07/2015 19:55

Lor - the doctor wants to test progesterone levels for 3/4 months because he says sometimes you don't ovulate so you don't get a clear picture with just one set of results. I think that's why he's saying come back to me in 6 months. Also, because I've had ds I'm not on the priority list for the NHS. I can pay for private tests if I so wish but I obviously don't want to go down that road yet. He did say that as I've only stopped Bf in March I can't think in my head that I've been Ttc longer...he feels it's like coming off the pill.

peardrop2 · 21/07/2015 08:35

Agnu - aww bless, I know bring is a miracle worker in her field but I think even my crazy cycle might be too much for her to get her head around Smile

It looks like I'm going to have delayed ovulation again (7th flashing smiley this morning) and not ovulate until this weekend which means that we're more then likely to skip next month and take a break from TtC because the due date would land on his birthday or just before (not after because I can't have late babies). Maybe a break next month will help because if I don't fall pregnant this month it will be hard to keep going Hmm However, hopefully I still have a tiny chance of falling pregnant this month. Why is it so hard Sad

peardrop2 · 21/07/2015 08:36

When I say "his birthday" I mean bpear

kittykatsforever · 22/07/2015 12:10

Oh pear TTC sucks when it's takes along time doesn't it Hmm still would it matter if it was near bpears bday? Unlikely to be the same day but a bf of mine has two a year and a week apart as she and her dsis are and they love it, easy to just throw one party and save money too

kittykatsforever · 22/07/2015 12:11

That and following the rules of "Sod's law" it's so likely Grin

peardrop2 · 23/07/2015 08:30

I've now managed to convince DH to continue through August. Phew! He said he might not be around in May to cope with his kids and wife all having a birthday on the same months but he agrees we have to keep going Wink

kittykatsforever · 23/07/2015 11:09

Yeay lol

peardrop2 · 23/07/2015 11:31

If we had twins that would 4 birthdays but I didn't share that bit of exploding head information to him Wink

peardrop2 · 23/07/2015 11:32

Although twins normally arrive early so he would probably be saved Grin

peardrop2 · 23/07/2015 11:33

And 4 birthdays would suddenly be the least of our worries if we had twins ????

bringonthetrumpets · 23/07/2015 18:41

I'm still here! I haven't forgotten about you!

Life has been beyond busy and hectic and crazy and makes me want to pull my hair out at time this summer. Between the boy's swimming lessons at the crack of dawn, M's extreme temper tantrums, and trying to put together the details of this ridiculous UK trip we've got coming up, I've had little time to even sit down and take care of myself let alone get online and have a sneak around the intewebz. Showers feel like luxuries right now. SO crazy busy all the time. Roll on school year!

Women's hormones are just shite sometimes. I hate how so many think that the cycle is just an easy clock-work thing that occurs on it's own.... there are so many variables that play into it. I do agree with what your doc is saying (however extremely frustrating waiting around is). Sometimes it does take a while for hormones to sort themselves out after breastfeeding. I would also agree with you in checking your prolactin levels, as that is what often delays ovulation. I guess your doc is right to check progesterone levels as well to get a better picture of what the luteal phase of your cycle looks like.... but I'm just frustrated for you that you can't just go see a specialist over in the UK without a GP referral like we can here in the US. I am excited that they will at least offer a blood test for you to start the process of taking a closer look. Fingers crossed for you, pear that you can start getting some answers and looking for a direction to take to get that sweet little #2.

M has decided to start acting up with sleeping again and we've been up with her for the last 3 nights now. After sleeping through for a month, DH and I are absolutely shattered. She also received her MMR jab 2 days ago and she's acting like she's not feeling well. Gross runny nose, cough, and diarrhea. She hasn't been sick in months so I know it's b/c of the stupid jab. The doc tried to talk me into getting her vax'd with the chicken pox vaccine here but I told her that hopefully we'd pick up the wild virus in the UK instead. She looked at me like I was out of my mind. Grin She just goes, "well, there goes your vacation" to which I replied, "what, you mean the one that she will already be extremely jet-lagged for anyway? What's a little chicken pox to make it that much better?" We don't see eye-to-eye on some things, but at least I don't get bullied when I decline vaxs for the kids.

So we'll be in the UK in t-minus 3 weeks! EEK. My mental list is insane. Of course it'd be the smart thing to write it down and get it off my brain, but who's got time for that!? Hmm

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peardrop2 · 25/07/2015 23:50

Frus - oh that sounds really stressful Hmm I'm sorry I can't quite work out your shorthand codes to understand what is wrong with your dc2 but I'm sorry to hear you're going through all of it...must be a huge worry for you right now Thanks

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peardrop2 · 26/07/2015 14:24

Oh Frus Hmm How long until you have a clear picture of what is truly going on behind it all? I bet the world is spinning very slowly for you right now. Thanks for explaining...I wasn't expecting you to as I'm sure it's hard to talk about. I hope you're getting support from others in a similar situation on your MN thread. We're always here if you need to vent! Whoop woop for the CBeebies tickets! How exciting! Just what you all need to take your mind off things. Couldn't come at a better time Smile

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peardrop2 · 26/07/2015 22:07

Frus - fx fx the test next week goes a lot smoother for you all! I can't imagine what's it's like for you right now Sad

peardrop2 · 26/07/2015 22:08

Aww Frus it's generally very quiet on here at the moment.

I finally got a peak tonight on cd22.

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peardrop2 · 26/07/2015 22:48

Frus - last month was 36. This month might be 34/32. Every month they seem different. It drives me crazy Grin