Thanks all for dummy comments. It definitely helped her in the early days, I remember Dh turning to me and saying 'my god we just wouldnt have survived or had a minutes peace without it'. Now though, It helps her to settle but The re-plugging has become an issue. Yesterday went cold turkey and it wasnt too bad - took half an hour longer to settle at night, then she was asleep til 4 am for a bottle, bar two blips at 8.30 pm and 2.30 am where she actually settled HERSELF after I waited a few minutes, which was amazing.
Am also combining this with 'blissful baby experts comfort timing' which seems to be working brilliantly. God, feel excited, but also wary as all new.
sazzle re: the grey, thats brill you got through the re-growth and are out the other side with a positive story! Am quite excited about it strangely. I have actual white around my temples and I think one white streak at the front, the rest I also suspect quite grey on the top and darker underneath. i am just soooooo over having to hoik myself to the hairdressers every two weeks for an expensive brown root tint that actually ends up going a weird see through orange colour, no matter where I go. Also re: your bob cut, I defo need to think about something like that. Hair is currently really long, and I think I will look a bit witchy when its grey with current style.