morning, and welcome SkinnyLiz.
Girgygale: hope your dd's behavior improves soon - this happened to a friend of mine (dd wetting herself on arrival of ds - her dd was around 3.5), HV advised putting her back in nappies for a while - can't remember how old your dd is though.
Think bf-ing is going to naturally wind down now - it is just sore on the right side every time now, the left is hit and miss. A shame in one sense as we are at my in laws for Xmas, with first and last night in a hotel, so bf-ing would be so convenient, but there is no way I could/would get my supply up by then. I have done it for far longer than I thought I would, and in lots of places too !
Both ds' had cranial oeasto and seemed to help ds1 with teething. No real problems with ds2, but as his birth was so quick, I just wanted him checked over. My mother thinks I have too much money!!
re winding - we used to spend ages winding ds1, ds2 seems better at it (so far), but middle of the night is worse - probably as they are tired too. Our fab childminder recommended prodding under the ribs, while they are either sitting on your lap or over shoulder - you know what I mean? This irritates so gets them wiggling, which in turns moves the wind around - rather than a nice soothing back rub! Works sometimes, sometimes back rub works! One thing I do is if I am not sure if there is still wind there, is to lie ds2 flat, either in my hands, on lap, floor wherever, and he will really wiggle and bring his knees up if he still has wind, and sometimes that gets it moving too, so when I then move him upright we get a great burp/fart - hope that makes some sense!