Wanda, glad you have drugs and am not at all jealous of freebees!
Fruit the fakeaway book sounds good.
Yep VQ although prescriptions for DC are free. But DH and me pay. It's almost worth considering DC3 for the maternity exemption certificate 
PP we are always here but perhaps as BPLP says a little break would be good for you, although I say this to be interpreted as a suggestion that you choose a break for you because you feel it is right for you rather than a suggestion that a break be imposed on you. This is a safe and supportive place and I know things are tough for you right now. Support in a group like this is a two way process. This has felt a bit different to a mutually respectful clashing of opinions on parenting styles - which as a general rule this quiche does really well and I know when it is done I learn a lot and learn to see things from different perspectives.
I haven't contributed thus far to the comments because I had a personal reaction to some of what you've said. I think that tolerance and acceptance of difference is a big part of this quiche. I think we all have the capacity to offend and be offended, but I believe the spirit in which things are said here is supportive concern so that it is generally unlikely that causing offence is really intended. For whatever reason (and I give you the benefit of the doubt in terms of intention), your recent posts haven't been received in that light. Please don't flounce but perhaps just think about the effect of what you say.