Thank you everyone for your hen do opinions. I started to write a reply last night but fell asleep.
I agree with most of what everyone is saying. Don't know whether to say too much on here as don't know if one is a MNetter.
It's two nights away, closer for me to get to then they others as I live a way away from the others. So that's a bonus.
I don't begrudge too much paying for the hen do if the costs are reasonable as I'm bridesmaid.
We've all been researching accommodation and activities. I've been trying to find accommodation that's cheap without being horrible, in my mind I had a £60-80 per person budget, I even ruled a couple of places out as they would be more than £100pp. One bridesmaid has emailed a few places she's found, all above £100pp, one at £120pp. I'm happy to pay it if everyone else is happy, I just think it's a lot when there'll be travel, activities, food and booze for two days n top of that.
I'd rather pay more to stay all in a big house than sharing a hotel room with one person I don't know.
But I don't know if I'm being stingy, I just don't want other people seeing the suggested price and not wanting to come.
I don't know. I've sent an email with places I've found so will see what any replies are.
Another stickler is that they seem to be pushing for a particular month where DH and I are already going away two weekends of that month. W rarely go away and these weekends along with the wedding will be our "holiday" this year. If they decided to go for that month I'm going to be skinted.
Sorry for the rant. off to read the rest of the thread