I think I sway more to YW's school of thought.
Although I am never really sure 100% what the best thing to do is.
Obvs I have am been overweight. My family are a very mixed bag of those who have been slim, those who are overweight, and those who yoyo all over the shop.
YW I allow DS1 a small chocolate bar and a packet of crisps each day. He's pretty good at not scoffing the lot now. He takes his crisps as part of his packed lunch - sandwich on wholemeal, with 2 pieces of fruit and a full fat yogurt. I am never convinced it is enough for him, and reckon he buys stuff when he has money, but I can't control what he does to and from school. Just hope he is sensible enough. DS has always been very slim, but I am well aware he is likely (as his dad, and DP have too!) to put weight on late teens/early 20's if he is not careful.
I don't restrict O as much as I thought, because of the DF thing, I feel his diet is so restricted already. I guess I feel guilty, so therefore let him have things I may not have done otherwise. I'm still happy with his diet over all.
Tonight we are having SW chips. So I will give him some of those, along with some extra fucking special 98% pork 100% fucking expensive sausage, and I'll pop some frozen veg on for him too. He will eat all the sausage, play with the chips, maybe eat one, and scoff all the veg
. With a banana for after.
Motherhood. Full of guilt, right?!
Oooh, satsuma
. Well, I peel and give whole segments, after initially cutting in half. He is fine with them whole. A couple of days ago he managed to get half the thing off me, and shoved the entire half in his mouth
and bloody ate it. Crazy kid. He was fine. I think they slip down easily?!