Yes, I think we all have our vices.
I don't want to be super thin, not even bothered about being a size 10. 12-14 is fine by me.
I want to be able to enjoy food, but have a sensible attitude to it.
I think I am doing okay now. Given I've never done any of this before.
I think this is manageable.
There are some things I do miss, but now I have decided once a week we will have those things (in moderation and I am still choosing lower calorie/fat things in those things). I can happily go all week and wait for a night off now. I didn't think I'd be able to do that when I started. I'm 3 1/2 months in now, and I can see a difference to how I feel about food.
A lot of people have 'bad weeks' when I go to the SW group, and talk about not sticking to plan etc. I've been very lucky in that I have found it easy, and manageable - but I think that is because I have been off work. The true test will be once I am back at work, and I will have to plan and be totally organised. Or bad habits will slip back.