Thanks all for the advice about the bottles, I will keep going as we are for now and just at lunch ill give him lunch at about 11:30 and his bottle to wash it down with and just see how he goes, he is drinking well and eating well, I have found he eats much much better with finger food on his tray, he eats a nibble of that, a spoon of this and so on.
pass p will get there, e went through the same phase, only he had yoghurt too but other than that it was toast all the way!! She'll pick up again :) have you tried food before milk or is that no good for p? I know she's had a difficult time of it with food/milk full stop bless her
To cut a long story short because Eric is due to wake soon but basically my mums now xp is a selfish cunt who didn't get his own way and they have had a really shitty rocky relationship, not violent or anything but he's basically a waste of skin. Anyway whilst I was downstairs at my mums making up bottles for Eric whilst my sis baked with my other sisters fiancé and dp bathing Eric he decided that because he and my mum had argued he would try to hang himself. With a belt, on the back of a door!!!! He literally waited until we knocked on the door to drop himself although given his feet were still on the floor and neither the belt nor the door could hold his weight he really wasn't getting anywhere fast. After I'd left his daughter with my 11yo sister to go and kick the door in to rescue him he sat on the floor fully conscious after ten seconds and said he had done if for some sympathy and so my mum wouldn't split up with him.
Seriously? That is the short version but fucking hell. Anyway the kids are my mums priority and she is so furious that he has put her kids in this situation that she promptly kicked him out and is sorting out access for him to see his daughter. Anyone could've found him!! What if he had actually cocked up his sympathy suicide thing and one of the kids had found him??? Ffs.
I may sound heartless but I did call an ambulance and make sure he got checked out and everything. I just have no sympathy for him tbh and think my mum deserves much better!